What is the biggest sign of a person’s maturity? I gradually learned to be silent. The older we get, the more we experience the ups and downs of the world, the joys and sorrows of the world, and the vicissitudes of life, and we understand that as a qualified adult, we should no longer be emotional, but should be more tolerant, tolerant and generous.
Because I can't help myself, because my strength doesn't allow it, and there isn't much reason, I can only do it against my will, but I still have to do it.
When we were young, we were always filled with emotions and emotions. As I grew up, I learned to put away my emotions and carry on silently. Even if you are humiliated, even if your heart is bleeding, you should wear a calm and calm smile on your face, showing humility and courtesy, neither humble nor overbearing. Behind a strong heart, there is a strength that others don't know.
In the final analysis, there is no real empathy in this world. I understand more and more the classic saying of Haruki Murakami: "There is sadness in the world that cannot shed tears. This kind of sadness cannot be explained to others, even if Even if you explain it, others won’t understand.”
More often than not, when living in this world, you really can’t expect others to understand your grievances. Perhaps, the sign of a person gradually becoming mature is to shoulder all the responsibilities and dignity, and also bear the sadness and grievances. Be careful in your words and deeds as a person, don't look back, just endure silently in the long river of your life, and be happy in silence. Live a better version of yourself and become your own ferryman.
You must learn to be alone, calm down and listen to your inner voice, and learn to enjoy loneliness. Learn to tolerate unexpected changes. Only in solitude and loneliness can you savor the taste of life one by one, and only when you enrich your soul in solitude can you become truly strong.
Only by learning to enjoy loneliness can you be free to love and hate, be close and distant, let nature take its course, and be content with the situation. Loneliness is actually not bitter. Learning to enjoy loneliness can make you more comfortable in life's experiences. Loneliness is a precious gift given to you by time and experience.
I like to be independent and go my own way in life. Behind the seemingly apostate trajectory is actually the persistence of self-awareness. Because the meaning of life comes from inner feelings, not from the outside world. I know my own inner needs, and I have my own principles and direction as a person. As long as you move forward in the direction guided by your own heart, you will be able to live up to this life.
The wisest thing to do in life is to live in the present and not worry about the future. If the problem cannot be solved, let time solve it. As long as you calm down and move forward step by step, you will be able to see a rainbow after the storm.
Perhaps defeated, perhaps lost, or perhaps unable to reach anywhere. One thing is clear, at least I have something worth waiting for, worth seeking. Maybe I will be covered by dark clouds, but what saves me from the sea of ??suffering is the unwavering faith and hope in my heart; it is the good things in my heart that always support me to move forward with determination. As long as you have dreams in your heart, just settle in silence and keep walking. Through the long night, the dawn will definitely illuminate my heart, and the future will be infinitely bright.
Therefore, the sign of a person's true maturity is to understand silence. Learned to observe words and deeds and be cautious in words and deeds. Keep practicing your generosity and tolerance, and practice your indifference to the world. Strengthen your beliefs and believe in the beauty of the world. As long as you have bright sunshine in your heart, you will bring your own light wherever you go. As long as there is the fragrance of flowers in your heart, it will be fragrant wherever you go.