"They despise each other but associate with each other and humiliate themselves together-this is the true face of the so-called' friends' in the world." When I first read this sentence by Osamu Dazai, I thought what he said seemed a little extreme. But if you chew it carefully, you will taste bitterness, helplessness and sadness.
There are two kinds of friends, one is a real friend and the other is a so-called friend. A true friend is like a cool breeze in a hot summer and a warm fire in a cold winter. A true friend is happy for you when you are proud, sad for you when you are frustrated, encouraging you when you are depressed and helping you when you are helpless.
A true friend doesn't need you to keep in touch. No matter how long I haven't seen him, as long as I think of him, I will subconsciously smile and feel intimate and warm. A true friend will not flatter you to your face, but will firmly support you behind your back, safeguard you and be proud of you.
A true friend will sincerely hope that you have a better life than him. A true friend won't make you feel embarrassed and embarrassed. Even together, we don't say anything, but as long as we pick up the glass, we will do it in the end. A true friend won't care about trivial gains and losses with you. What is a little gain and loss between true friends?
A lot of times, you think you have a lot because those are fake. I think I have very little, because it is true. Really always less than fake. A person's real friends are always less than the so-called friends. In fact, many friends are so-called friends.
The so-called friends are either the intrigue of interests, the mutual communication needed by work, the mutual borrowing and utilization, or the loneliness and boredom to have fun together. The so-called friends are not real friends. As Osamu Dazai said, "They despise each other, but they associate with each other and humiliate themselves together".
Everyone has real friends and so-called friends. True friends are always less than so-called friends. Everyone should keep their eyes open and know who is a true friend and who is a so-called friend. Cherish your true friends! Don't neglect your true friends for the sake of so-called friends.