This question is really a headache. The answer is not fixed. Everyone has their own opinions. Whoever says it is right. Is there any standard to judge who says the best. Let’s talk about my personal opinions below.
Today’s society is no longer an era where no one can live without the other. Everyone is an independent individual, and women also have their own jobs, so we can choose to be single without relying on men. . This has greatly increased the number of single nobles, and our philosophy is "no more settling." When we love, we will love with all our strength, but when we don’t meet the right person, we learn to choose to be single first. There is nothing wrong with this in itself, but our parents will oppress us. We must do things at what age and when it is time to get married. Want to get married! What we have left is not for ourselves, we are still very young! It’s just that for the older generation, children are too big, and they will grow old if they don’t look for them!
We actually just want to find something better and more suitable for ourselves! The question asked which one is more miserable, the left-over man and the left-over woman. I think they are both the same. They are both miserable young men who have not found true love and are still wandering on the road and are forced to get married by their families! Comparisons are redundant!
Which one of the leftover men and leftover women is better to get rid of being single? In fact, they are so good that they don’t know what kind of person is worthy of them. Instead of settling, it’s better to live without the constraints of family and be happier! Some people say that many men are single nowadays. As long as women are willing to look for them, there will definitely be piles of them. I really can’t agree with this statement. First of all, we also have our own standards. Secondly, I went from college to social work. , I always feel that there are mostly women around me. I really have never lived in that kind of time where I have a lot of men to choose from.