Famous aphorisms about family tradition:
1. Only with the Tao can one have virtue; without Tao, there can be no virtue; only with virtue can there be happiness; without virtue, there can be no happiness.
2. The lucky star of a family is rooted in ambition. That is, taking the happiness of the whole family as one's own responsibility and benefiting the whole family.
3. If you are destined to love someone, you must first understand the other person’s nature. Accomplish each other's duties and fulfill them. Enlighten the other party to play their part. Regardless of restricting the other party's freedom, you should give the other party happiness and not cause trouble to the other party. Complement each other and understand each other's physiology and psychology.
4. Promote the merits of the elderly and ancestors to their children, set an example of filial piety by respecting the elderly, and enlighten future generations by being grateful for the kindness of their ancestors.
5. If you are selfish, you will secretly do things that go against your conscience and make the whole family troubled. This is not a good man.
6. Children belong to themselves, society, and heaven and earth. If children are not well taught, it will affect their own family if they are small, and it will affect society if they are large, and they will also be a debt of gratitude from heaven and earth. Educating children well is a heavy responsibility.
7. Whether a family is prosperous and whether its descendants are prosperous is directly related to whether the elders in the hall have good roots and merits. If the old man is virtuous, his descendants will be prosperous; if the old man is virtuous, the family will be in disaster, the family will not be prosperous, and the incense will fade.
8. Whether a child is healthy has a lot to do with the mother, and whether the child has wisdom has a lot to do with the father. Whether the child has good fortune or not depends on whether the parents often behave with joy and love.
9. Always mention the strengths of your daughter-in-law when speaking, and be grateful to her mother-in-law for her education. If the daughter-in-law makes a mistake, the mother-in-law will quickly come over and be tolerant first, and then teach her behind her back. She must not quarrel with her, and the daughter-in-law will naturally be grateful and repay her kindness.
10. As the saying goes, everything thrives when the family is in harmony. The prosperity of the country, the harmony of the society, the happiness of personal life, the prosperity of the career, and the health of the body all depend on the foundation of a harmonious family.
11. The way of husband and wife, that is, the way of yin and yang, if the husband and wife are in harmony, the yin and yang qi are in harmony, and they cannot restrain each other, not only will they not get sick, but they will not die young. The family can be harmonious and the descendants prosperous. Therefore, men must understand women's ways, and women must understand men's ways, so that the family can be happy.