I have noticed many famous cars in Beijing. How did you feel when you saw that famous car drive by? Hey, I'm out of this life! Or, wow! That car is really beautiful, and I will have it one day, if I want it. What is your inner feeling that is timely?

If it's the latter, congratulations. That thing will naturally come into your life because you believe it will come.

Understand the laws of the operation of the universe

We should humbly follow the flow of life, but you have to understand another point: this is our life, I am a person, I can get this life today, come to this world to play this game, I am a member, I am a participant. I have my rights, I have my human rights, and the so-called human rights are that if I can find the rules of how the world works, I can get what I want.

the rule of the world is: in fact, if you believe you will get it, you will get it. You have to believe it wholeheartedly.

Observe your feelings and beliefs

You must observe yourself at all times. What do you feel when you see a famous car and what do you feel when you see a mansion? Or ask yourself, in fact, you want to earn an OK money, then build an OK house, and then live a very ordinary petty bourgeoisie life, but the most important thing is your belief.

When your salary is really low and you can't earn a lot of money, do you focus on how to make money, or do you complain every day that I can't earn that money with my salary all my life? Or do I earn less, but how can I earn more? I'll go for further study, or how I can work harder to make my boss earn more money. The more money he earns, the more money I will earn.

do you really love money?

Do you think about money only by saying that you love it and hate it? It makes a big difference whether you really love it enough to want to bring it into your life. Many people say that they love money, and who doesn't? But how many people pursue money with actions. Many people just talk about it, and then blame the government for blaming the company, the unit for blaming the family, why my mother didn't leave me a house, and why the wealth is getting more and more uneven now. Have you ever thought about what you have achieved, why people can earn so much money, why people can earn so much money under the same conditions, and why you can't? Have you really focused on making money?

have you really put it into action?

I think there is no conflict between making money and spiritual practice. I am very opposed to spiritual practice and then say that money is not important, and money will corrupt a person. I don't think so. Money is a magnifying glass. If you are a greedy person, you will become more greedy after you get rich. If you are a compassionate person, you will become more compassionate after you get rich. Money is a magnifying glass.

So if you look into your heart, I really want to make money. I really feel that my salary is too small now. I really want a comfortable life. Have you put this idea into action? Or are you just trying to save money there, blaming the unit and who? Have you really put it into action?

do you believe that you deserve it?

The most important thing is whether you think you deserve it. If you want to say, I may not deserve it. Although I like money, I don't deserve it, or I like that beautiful woman, but I don't deserve it. Have you ever seen that all beautiful women are surrounded by handsome men? Have you ever seen a man who looks really sorry and catches up with a beautiful woman?

Everything is possible in the world, depending on whether you have the perseverance and confidence. Believe that you can do it and get it, and take corresponding actions to do it. If you have more confidence in yourself and know yourself better, you will be able to make up for your shortcomings, and then give full play to your strengths, and you will definitely get what you want in your dreams, really. Zhang Defen's classic quotations

1. No matter how much you love him (her), redundant worry is the worst gift, so it is better to give him (her) a blessing!

2. Don't expect a person to appear in your life and meet all your psychological needs, and you will never be lonely again. There is no such thing.

3. Negative emotions are like darkness that cannot be driven away. The only thing to do is to bring in light. Joy is the best light to melt negative emotions.

4. Dear you, get closer to yourself every day and live the real you.

5. It's hard to get along with people with too low self-esteem. They are as sensitive as crystal, and they will crack when touched, and they will catch cold when the wind blows.

6. try your best to do your part, and leave the rest to God. In fact, life is just like this.

7. You are not your job, your performance, your success or your failure. These external things can't shake your inner true self at all, and see clearly the false identity of the ego.

8. How you play your role will affect the way I play it.

9. Dear, there is no one outside, and all external things are the result of your inner projection.

1. What makes us suffer psychologically is not the thing itself, but our thoughts about it and the stories fabricated around it.

11. Anyone who can abandon his false identity and will not be restricted and hindered by his own thoughts, emotions and body will show the characteristics of his true self.

12. If someone keeps treating you in a way you don't like, it must be your permission, otherwise he can only succeed once!

13. Pain is the best fertilizer for growth. Thank God for constantly creating me and letting me shed my false shell layer by layer. "willing to make the person you love suffer"

14. why do we grow up more lonely, uneasy and unhappy? Because in the process of pursuing happiness, we are getting farther and farther away from our true self.

15. worrying about our loved ones is actually an irresponsible act of harm.

16. Warm places always make people linger, especially for those who feel cold.

17. We often intervene in the name of love to persuade the people we love to think that this is good for them. After years of experience and argumentation, for me, loving to the extreme is to give the people you love the greatest love and support.

18. We bring more awareness to our own consciousness. Just like our eyes, although we can have a wide field of vision, our attention is actually focused on a very narrow range ahead.

19. We think we can control our lives and make free choices, but in fact, we are a machine under the automatic restriction mode, and we are often involuntarily.

2. Modern society is like a killing battlefield. Everyone is trying to seize other people's energy in different ways, such as controlling others, dominating others with power, gaining their attention, recognition, love, or proving that they are right, good and superior. "meet the unknown self"

21. some parents can show the characteristics of true love, but many parents regard their children as their own property in the name of love, and let them live for them instead of respecting their own life course.

22. What you want to achieve is not just to sit back and enjoy it, but to seize every opportunity and let it take you to the top when the waves are high.

23. A happy woman is a woman who can get along well with herself. She knows herself very well and can be her most loyal supporter and observer.

24. Some natural fears, unexpected anger and disappointed hopes are just a natural flow of life energy. When she comes back, she will definitely leave.

25. Under the impact of reality, we have the illusion that my body and I are separated from this time. In order to find a sense of self, we have developed the ego, grabbing everything we can in this world to prove our existence. "Meet the Unknown Oneself" Zhang Defen's classic quotations

1. The root of our suffering is that we don't know who we are, but blindly cling to and pursue things that can't represent us!

2. The best state is to see the darkness and pain of the world, but still believe in its simplicity and beauty. I hope that at that time, we will all become better ourselves. I met you at that time, neither earlier nor later.

3. Every event that happens to you is a gift, but some gifts are badly packaged, which makes us feel resentful or fearful. Therefore, it can be a disaster or a gift. If you can take confidence, give it some time, patiently and carefully unpack this horrible shell package, you will enjoy the rich and beautiful gift that is carefully tailored for you.

4. Why do we grow more lonely, uneasy and unhappy? Because in the process of pursuing happiness, we are getting farther and farther away from our true self.

5. If we are used to paying attention to our body feelings and taking care of them from time to time, many diseases will not be caused by accumulation.

6. When you adjust your inner world well, your outer world will naturally become smooth.

7. Physiologically, if you do something repeatedly, a long-term and fixed relationship will be established between some of our nerve cells. For example, if you are angry, frustrated and miserable every day ... then, you are wiring and integrating that neural network repeatedly every day. This becomes one of your emotional patterns.

8. All the events that happened to us were in a carefully packaged gift. As long as we are willing to face its sometimes ugly packaging and open it bit by bit with patience and courage, we will be pleasantly surprised to see the treasures inside.

9. It doesn't matter how many teachers you have visited, how many spiritual classes you have attended, how many books you have read, how many incantations you have read, how many times you have kowtowed, how many times you have attended worship, or how many hours you can sit still for two sessions, you will be able to achieve enlightenment. In the end, what you have to face is the dark side and negative personality traits in your heart.

1. The advantage of submission is that when you accept the present and don't waste your energy to fight in vain, things will often take an unexpected turn, and you will find that the original struggle is really in vain.

11. Some people say that it is important to know what we want, but what we really want will change with the flow of time, so it is better to follow the flow of time. Everything has the best arrangement.

12. When your emotions are touched, focusing on yourself, not the person who touched your emotions, is the beginning of accumulating inner strength.

13. Do you know? There are only three things in the world: God's business, your business and other people's business.

14. You are not your job, your performance, your success or your success. These external things can't shake your inner true self at all, and see clearly the false identity of the ego.

15. Our life is actually made up of every moment, so try to keep a happy heart in every moment!

16. whatever you resist will last.

17. Negative emotions are like darkness that cannot be driven away. The only thing you can do is to bring in light. Joy is the best light to melt negative emotions.

18. When you really want something, the whole universe will unite to help you.

19. Our habits are not established overnight, so it is impossible to break a well-established pattern just because we read a book. I suggest readers, at the physical and psychological level, start with a good little habit that you can actually do.

2. If you find a life pattern of your own and are unable to eliminate it, the best way is to pray. Prayer is a kind of trust, a kind of submission, and a kind of connection and awareness with the true self. In short, all the feasible ways mentioned in the book can be included in prayer, especially the prayer of gratitude!

21. I see that I am seeking the painful feeling of being unloved. I accept this feeling wholeheartedly and let go of the need for it.

22. We must take full responsibility for the people, things and things that come into our lives. Learn to accept your unhappiness and the imperfection of life, and learn the lesson of "submission" willingly to find a shortcut to pursue a better life, and the best shortcut is to start from now.

23. When death comes, everything that can't represent the real us will be swept away, and the real you will not change with time or even death.

24. When you encounter something you don't like, accept it, face it, deal with it, let it go and be at ease!

25. Personality tendency X external environment X various education X life events X past karma (if you believe it) = life mode.

26. What are we after? What is what everyone in the world wants? Money-of course, who doesn't want it? Power-obviously is the goal pursued by many people! Ah, we need to be healthy. Of course, besides that, everyone is pursuing love and happiness.

27. A happy woman is a woman who can get along well with herself, knows herself very well and can be her most loyal supporter and observer. Zhang Defen's classic famous saying

1. Our habits are not established overnight, so it is impossible to break a pattern that has worked for years just because we read a book. I suggest readers, at the physical and psychological level, start with a good little habit that you can actually do. On the physical level, such as diet or exercise, the psychological level is to examine who or what makes me have negative emotions every day, and then explore the reasons.