The Jiang Yang family is finally reunited, which is the headline of many news on the Internet. Jiang Yang, a century-old shop, has experienced a hundred years of vicissitudes. The daughter left, and the lover left. She was very calm and calm. She wrote too many articles that we remember deeply. What I like best is the above sentence.
I also wrote an article called "It's really nothing important" before, which probably means that life is really nothing important except life and death. But after reading this sentence by Jiang Yang, I found that life and death are not a big deal.
Every day we will meet different people and have different stories. Some people came into our lives, and some stories changed our future. People always yearn for the wonderful life and hope to live a poetic life in the distance. People always love tossing, always afraid of boredom, afraid that their life is not as magnificent as others.
People like to edit their wonderful lives into words, pictures and videos and send them to friends or other social software, hoping to get praise and comments from people they don't know. Even if there are countless spits and slanders in the comments, people feel that they have received great attention. Yes, I read an article before that said, what would you look like if no one slandered you?
But what's wrong with being ordinary? Why do you have to go looking for trouble and torment yourself? What Jiang Yang 100 realized tells you: Calm down, calm down, the world is your own, there is no need to live in the eyes of others.
Some people may say that you live in your own world. Sunny didn't say you shouldn't communicate with the outside world. He just wants you to change your mental state. There are not so many things in the world that make you worry and feel sad.
There are always too many friends who can't walk out of the road of lovelorn, so why don't you think about this person who made you lovelorn? What is he doing at the moment? You are so sad that you can't extricate yourself. How is he? Probably having fun with friends and holding other girls in my arms.
One of the most difficult things for people to do is to keep inner peace and tranquility. People's emotions are always difficult to control by themselves. There are many chicken soups for the soul that a successful person will control his emotions first. If your emotions are not disturbed by the outside world, you can stay calm and think for a longer time. You won't do something you will regret in the future.
Think about it. When did you break up, you didn't say it suddenly because of emotional excitement, when you slandered others, you didn't blurt it out when you were extremely angry? Therefore, the most beautiful scenery in life is actually inner peace and calmness.
People make some achievements just to let people all over the world know, but what will those who know think of you? Have you ever thought that people's hearts are always full of envy for their better people and pity for their worse ones? Everything you show off is ostensibly flattering to others, but others always say in their hearts: What's the big deal? It's up to you.
Then why do you have to hear someone else's fake approval? Just tell our achievements to the closest relatives and celebrate with them. They are the most sincere. Not everyone in your circle of friends, Weibo and any other circles sincerely wishes you success and Excellence, but more often, it will lead others to envy and hurt you, so the world belongs to them and has nothing to do with others.
Have you ever lost your cell phone? After losing your mobile phone, most people will send a message on WeChat, saying that they hope their friends can send you your number. I lost all my numbers. But you really didn't find it? If you lose your mobile phone and the phone number of your so-called friend, all you can remember must be the numbers of your closest relatives, and most of them are the people who called you, so what if you lose those numbers? It doesn't affect anything Some numbers in the address book may not be dialed once in a lifetime.
Psychology is a very interesting science, which tells us that people are selfish, and all people will think of themselves first, then the closest people, and finally the outsiders. And people outside, there are always all kinds of transactions. In other words, the relationship has nothing to do with the position.
I have experienced that in the same position, my work ability is obviously strong, because the other party is a distant relative of the boss, so it is obvious that I lost, and my colleagues silently defended me, but I was very calm, which is normal. If the boss is my relative, the loser is the other party. Too realistic.
So there is a reason why you are unfair, but most of the time you don't know it.
Keep your heart calm and calm. There will always be different things in your life. No matter how excited you are, you still have to think calmly and face it alone.
Live your own life and be nice to the people you love. Many things are not that important, and you don't need to pay attention to them. Be nice to yourself, after all, you are the only one who will accompany you all your life.