Zhao Yun.

The allusion "Why does a gentleman suffer from no wife" comes from the 52nd chapter of Romance of the Three Kingdoms, in which Zhuge Liang made a remark that Lu Su and Zhao Zilong planned to take Guiyang.

Zhao Yun said, "A gentleman only suffers from fame and fortune, but why does he suffer from no wife?" Zhao Yun means that a man should worry about his career, not his wife and family.

Nowadays, the spoken language has become "Are good men afraid of not finding a wife?" It emphasizes that men should be ambitious and not delay the overall situation for their children.

Extended information:

Allusions about why a gentleman has no wife

Zhao Yun led 3, troops to attack Guiyang, and won the victory, capturing Chen Ying, the general of Zhao Fan, the prefect of Guiyang, and Zhao Fan had to surrender. Zhao Fan feted Zhao Yun, became brothers with Zhao Yun, and offered to remarry his widowed sister-in-law Fan Shi to Zhao Yun. Zhaoyun was very angry after hearing this, thinking that Zhao Fanhang was a nondescript thing, and reprimanded Zhao Fan. Zhao Fan was ill-intentioned, and motioned for him to kill Zhao Yun. When Zhao Yun found out, he punched Zhao Fan and got on the horse and went out of the city.

Later, Zhao Fan and Chen Ying Bao Long negotiated a fraudulent surrender, but Zhao Yun saw through it. Instead, Zhao Fan was taken alive, and Guiyang was completely included in the territory of Liu Beijun.

Afterwards, Liu Bei and Zhuge Liang came to Guiyang, and Zhao Yun recounted everything.

When Zhuge Liang asked why he didn't marry Fan Shi, Zhao Yun replied, "Since Zhao Fan is a brother, if he marries his sister-in-law, people will be reviled. His wife remarries, which makes it a big festival, and second; Zhao Fanchu surrendered, and his heart was unpredictable. The master has newly appointed Jianghan, but the pillow mat is not safe. How dare Yunan ruin the master's event with a woman? There are many women in the world, but I am afraid that my reputation will not stand. Why not have a wife? "