The famous literary giant Dickens once said: "Having a good attitude is more powerful than having a hundred kinds of wisdom." This wise saying that is familiar to the world illustrates a truth, that is, what kind of mentality you have, What kind of life will there be.
A philosopher said: "Everyone has an invisible magic weapon, which says 'positive attitude' on one side and 'negative attitude' on the other side. A positive attitude can make you achieve the best results in life." The peak, and a negative attitude will make you miserable and miserable throughout your life."
When people are alive, they must work hard to develop a good attitude, especially in the annoying trivial matters and the ups and downs of life. A good attitude can be developed through making choices.
The value created by having and maintaining a good attitude is unlimited. It can not only keep people in a state of continuous positivity and progress, but also make people develop self-confidence, self-love, strength, and excitement. and other character traits. Once you have a good attitude of self-confidence, self-improvement, positivity, optimism and open-mindedness, you can fully unleash your unlimited potential, create miracles and make remarkable achievements.
General Patton said: "The measure of a person's success is not the height at which he reaches the peak, but the resilience of him when he falls to the bottom."
Success is not easy. But his attitude in the face of failure often ultimately determines how far he can go.
The clever Jiangnan people used the West Lake to turn Hangzhou into a paradise; the meditative Newton established his unshakable position in the physics world because of the apple; the down-and-out Disney used the little mouse to , created an animation empire that is priceless and popular all over the world. , especially the scientist Edison became a world-famous invention king with a good attitude and strong will.
There must be no one who doesn't know the "King of Inventions" Edison. He made more than 2,000 inventions and more than 1,000 patents in his lifetime. Such a famous scientific genius was kicked out of school by his teacher as an "imbecile" when he was in school. With the careful help of his mother, and through the unique development of mental and brain potential, Edison eventually became the most famous inventor in the world. He completed more than 2,000 inventions in his lifetime, including phonographs, electric lights, telephones, and talkies. Many groundbreaking inventions such as movies have fundamentally improved the quality of human life. These facts are the results of the guidance and creation of a good attitude, and they are also the best proof that we should always remind ourselves to maintain a good attitude.
Having and maintaining a good attitude can also enable people to face setbacks and failures in life calmly.
As the saying goes: "Water has no constant shape, and soldiers have no constant momentum." A person's life cannot always be smooth sailing. It is inevitable to encounter setbacks and difficulties, especially in today's fierce social competition, setbacks and failures Everywhere. Don't magnify the pain due to temporary setbacks. The most important thing is to have a stable mentality and face setbacks calmly.
In 1966, Bo Yang became the president of Pingyuan Publishing House. His wife Ni Minghua (poet) is the editor-in-chief of the family edition of "China Daily", and he is responsible for the "Popeye Comics" column in that edition.
On January 13, 1968, a cartoon was published. The content was that a father and son purchased an island. They were the only two people on the island, established a kingdom, and the father and son ran for president. . This cartoon offended the Taiwanese authorities, who arrested him on March 4 on charges of "insulting the head of state" and "collaborating with bandits." This was the "Popeye incident" that shocked Taiwan at that time.
Bo Yang was sentenced to 12 years in prison. When he was first imprisoned, Bo Yang complained and hated him. He often couldn't sleep well at night. When he woke up in the middle of the night, he found that he was gnashing his teeth with hatred. This state lasted for about a year. Later, he realized that he could not continue like this, otherwise, he would either be suffocated to death or tortured to death by himself.
So, he made up his mind to adjust his mentality and face everything calmly. He began to read a lot of history books, reading "Zi Zhi Tong Jian" three times. These books gave him precious spiritual food, which enabled him to realize that history is a long river and individuals are just a very small point. He also learned from it that the essence of life is that there is more suffering than happiness. Everyone goes through success, failure, joy, and sadness over and over again. As long as you always keep love, beauty, and ideals in your heart, setbacks are the motivation to make progress. , and even become a redemptive force.
Having a good attitude and maintaining a good attitude can also enable people to experience a state of life in which they are not tempted by any vanity, are not sunk by all glitz, and can remain calm even when encountering honor and disgrace. .
"Cai Gen Tan" says: "This body is always placed in a free place. Who can send me to gain or lose honor or disgrace. This body is always in silence. No one can hide the rights and wrongs from me."
It means that if I always put my body and mind in a peaceful environment, all the glory, wealth, success and failure in the world will not affect me; if I always put my body and mind in a peaceful environment, all the world's fame, fortune and success Right and wrong can no longer deceive me.
Tao Yuanming's "The house is built in a human environment, without the noise of carriages and horses. If you ask the king what you can do, you will be far away and you will be biased" is a good attitude.
Marie Curie won the Nobel Prize twice. How did she treat herself to be famous?
After winning the award and becoming famous, she still went into the laboratory and worked hard, while giving the gold medal of honor and success to her little daughter as a toy. Some guests were surprised when they saw it. Marie Curie smiled and said: "I want children to know from an early age that honor is like a toy. You can only play with it. You must not keep it forever, otherwise you will achieve nothing."
With this normal mentality, when we make some achievements and become famous, we will not be complacent about our success and fame, and we will lose new goals from then on; when we enter and leave luxurious places, we will not need to feel that we are outdated. There is no need to nod and bow when meeting wealthy bosses, high-ranking officials and celebrities. Even if you have a humble status, you don't have to be sad, you should raise your head happily and enjoy the sunshine; even if you don't have impressive academic qualifications, you don't have to blame everyone, but maintain a positive and hard-working attitude towards life.
A philosopher once said: "Your mentality is your master."
When people live in the world, it is often a matter of mentality.
When your mentality is good, things will become smaller and the road will become wider.
In fact, nine out of ten things that are unsatisfactory in life must be faced with a good attitude.
We don’t need to envy others’ beautiful auras. As long as we have a peaceful mind, do our best, choose life goals and life, bravely face various challenges in life, and be worthy of society and society. If others are worthy of themselves, then the holy land of our souls will be sunny and the flowers will be in full bloom.
Mentality not only affects work, but also determines the destiny of a person's life. A person with a good mentality can be satisfied, at ease, and calm even if the job he is currently looking for is not his ideal goal. And this positive attitude will bring about a good work attitude, the work results will be good, and gradually lead us to the road to success. If you are distracted or distracted from your work, this negative attitude will lead to unpleasant or even bad work attitudes.
A positive attitude can also mobilize a person's spiritual power and bring his or her work level to a good state, or even a perfect state. On the contrary, a negative mentality often blocks the development of spiritual power, let alone the exploration of inner spiritual power. It can easily cause a person to fall into a quagmire of pessimism, disappointment, muddle along, trouble, pain, worry and helplessness from which he cannot extricate himself.
American writer Debbie Ford once said: Rather than being a good person, it is better to be a complete person; to be a good person is to live half of yourself; to be a complete person is to live the whole person Your true self.
I hope that you and I both have a good attitude and can learn to accept our true selves, because that is the most gentle tolerance of life and the most compassionate treatment of life.