Children who grow up with encouragement are confident and enterprising? We should learn to be a parent who applauds our children. Don't rush no matter whether your grades are good or bad. Encourage and trust children to do well, and children will do well. Let children know that it is his responsibility to read good books, not the responsibility of parents. The future and life belong to the children themselves. No matter how much parents love their children, they can't take the place of their children in their lives. Tell him that those who study well and those who don't study well will come to the social hierarchy. Tell him you have 100% confidence in him. If he studies hard, he will get excellent grades. Children will think that learning is your business. Even if he did it under your supervision, he thought he was studying for you, not for himself. Then once he loses your supervision, he won't study. Can you supervise him for life?
Believe in children, praise them constantly, and often say to them, "I'm glad to see you have been studying hard, son." I hope to make persistent efforts and make further progress. You have great potential. Give full play to it. You're great. "
Socialization: Let children participate in group activities such as ball games. Let him watch the ball game first to arouse their interest, and then let them take interest classes and gradually integrate into group interactive activities. Welcome children and friends. Engage in some family activities and invite your children's classmates and friends to participate. Let go, son
Should children be encouraged to break into houses if they want to? Chen Er ash? Is flattery a cangue dish? g？ D 忂 overseas Chinese title? Meimu, do you think this is a shame? So your ideas are very limited. Many parents in China like to set a course for their children, set a good direction and impose their ideals and will on their children. Under pressure, children can't give full play to their potential. Only by letting them struggle according to their own wishes can they maximize their potential and achieve success. If you want your children to listen to you, one thing is certain: it is difficult for them to surpass you.
Encourage reading and cultivate good reading habits. Understanding can only be improved by reading more. Cultivating children's good reading habits can benefit them for life. The method is as follows:
First, let children contact books in infancy. Put books in all areas of children's lives and read them to them. Let children hear and read books every day, and form an understanding that life and books are inseparable.
Second, take books as necessary luggage when you go out. Every time you go out, no matter where you go, you should bring books to the baby. Older children remind that it is a habit to bring books.
Third, parents set an example and often read aloud in front of their children. Strengthen children's understanding of the importance of reading.
My little daughter is very good at reading because I insist on doing so. The teacher said that her reading level in grade two has exceeded the average level of students in grade five. Only by cultivating children's sense of responsibility can we develop good behavior habits: assign responsibilities to children according to different age groups. Responsibility consciousness must be cultivated in the process of fulfilling responsibility. If children are never made responsible, they can't develop a sense of responsibility. Tell children clearly what their responsibilities are. For example: children, put your shoes in the designated place, older ones, how often do you clean, bowl chopsticks, and so on. For the children who go to school, I told Chi this way: Mom has the responsibility to do a good job according to the requirements of the company. As a mother, my responsibility is to earn money to support my family and ensure that your basic life is satisfied. You are a student. It is your responsibility to study hard and complete the tasks required by the school, not your mother's. It is your responsibility to help with housework at home and keep your room clean and tidy. You should do your duty to be a good student.
China's parents have a big problem, that is, they take their children's affairs as their own. Do it for the children and be responsible for the children. Children become irresponsible, independent and unconscious. Because they think everything they do is for their parents. It is not what they need to do, but what their parents want them to do. Under the pressure of parents' will, children are often unable to develop their potential. And it's easy to lose confidence.
We still need to work with our children. What? I hope everyone can express their opinions.