Or: "Yong is also kind but not gentle." Confucius said, "What's the use? Imperial people give with their mouths, and they hate people repeatedly, but they don't know their benevolence. How to use it? "

Some people say, "ran yong is benevolent but not eloquent." Confucius said, "Why be eloquent? Arguing with others by glib tongue often leads to others' dislike. I don't know if such a person is benevolent, but why should he be eloquent? "

The Analects of Confucius

Confucius said: Clever words make color, fresh benevolence. "

Liezi < Zhong Ni's chapter, teachers have both talents > (there are some amendments)

Zi Xia asked Confucius," Is Zi Gong a man who is ridiculous?

Confucius said: Give it to Qiu Ye.

Zi Xia asked after leaving the table: But what is a teacher who has four sons?

Confucius said: Give me the ability to argue, but not be slow.

Mencius once said: Is it argumentative for you?

Teacher Fu Peirong has a book "Is it argumentative for you: Four Books on Zhu Zhu Notes by Fu Peirong".