1. 10 positive attitudes you need to have (excerpted from Peake Phil’s "Aura") Determination: The most important positive attitude is determination. It is "determination" that changes your destiny. rather than the environment.

?Aspiration: Have a strong desire to achieve your desired goals, not just plans and hopes.

?Proactive: Only by taking the initiative can opportunities be grasped in your own hands.

?Enthusiasm: Pick up the spirit and treat others and work with a smile!

?Love: Be willing to contribute, do not ask for short-term returns, and love your career.

?Learning: Recharge at any time, maintain a continuous learning mentality, and never stop learning.

?Confidence: Believe in your own strength, constantly strive for success, and constantly imagine success. Maintain confidence at all times!

?Self-discipline: Cultivate your own self-control.

?Tenacious: Strong perseverance, not afraid of failure, never discouraged!

?Persistence: If there is only one secret to success, it must be these two words. Set a reasonable goal and then "stick to it". This is the most positive and effective way to strive for!

2. What is your core goal in life, and are you actively working towards it?

3. Imagine that one day you have a positive image, are good at speaking, have novel words and a humorous tone, and can fill the surrounding atmosphere with laughter wherever you go.

4. When faced with difficulties, your choice is to resign yourself to fate and seek help from others, or to stimulate your own potential and actively find solutions? Have you ever experienced escapism? You should stimulate your huge potential and face reality bravely. You can handle everything you encounter in life well.

5. The value of self-examination is that it can provide us with a window for communication between the soul and the eyes. Not only can we correctly detect our own mentality, but we can also clearly judge our actual abilities to decide the next step. Be effective, speak appropriately, and get twice the result with half the effort.

6. A person who is good at self-examination is like a flexible container that can be large or small. He can always set appropriate goals for himself, maximize his own energy release, and will never work in vain. , their lives must be far away from mediocrity and stupidity.

7. You must have the passion to "desire success as much as you desire air." Maintaining a state of desire and having a heart eager to succeed is a good start for us to achieve success. Your inner desire is just the beginning, what’s more important is your plan to achieve it.

8. Confidence is a mental state of a person. It is developed by adjusting the inner world and accepting infinite wisdom; confidence is also an adaptability that allows the power of infinite wisdom to match our clear goals. performance. Confidence is the driving force that allows a person to put his ideas into action! Successful people can always control their thoughts and express themselves confidently!

9. Regardless of whether your suggestions, plans or other behaviors and methods of life are correct or not, if you can learn an acting style based on showing confidence, in the long run, your subconscious feelings of failure and inferiority complex will definitely disappear. can be reversed. The key to success is that your subconscious mind must believe that you can succeed.

10. Everyone is full of charm, has a strong and unified internal and external aura, has an approachable demeanor, a firm will, adheres to the correct direction of life, and maintains a smart and kind heart.

11. Only those who are confident and willing to show their confidence can have a strong aura that radiates outward. Their self-confidence will affect the surrounding environment and form a unique radiation field with strong contagion, thereby easily conquering others!

12. First of all, please learn to smile confidently and be willing to work hard to package yourself to attract attention. Smile, be confident, be open-minded, have courage, persevere, and try boldly.

13. You should try to understand the meaning of smile with your heart and truly control your inner emotions. Did you know? Emotion is the key to our soul. When you do something with a smile or without a smile, the result is completely different. Smile with your heart, the smile that comes from the heart is the most charming.

14. In the "Everyone is Attractive" smile experiment activity, out of 200 people, only Chen Yu achieved the best result, and she was not rejected.

Dr. Phil asked her how she did it, and Chen Yu said calmly: "I just said to them, please, can you do me a small favor? I need a gift, no matter how humble it is. So they stopped Footsteps. Okay, madam, I may have some little gifts that you may be interested in. I hope you will always be as beautiful as you are now. "This is the infinite charm of a smile. A person who smiles sincerely is beautiful, and people can feel the charm she brings and be conquered by her.

15. "When life is as light and smooth as a song, it is easy to keep a smile on your face; and only those who can still smile when everything is going wrong will live a valuable life." Keep smiling at all times.

16. “I like those people whose stocks become a pile of waste paper overnight but can still keep smiling. Not only because they can see through the essence of stock market investment, but also because of their detached and calm attitude. Aura! “Optimists see an opportunity in every difficulty. Smile shows a person's heart. It is a noble symbol and represents the state a person can achieve when facing different situations.

17. Smile, be optimistic, and maintain a positive interest in tomorrow no matter what the current situation is (maybe a little bit pessimistic).

18. Whenever you are surrounded by frustration, disappointment and pessimism, please take out an apple. Look at it for 10 seconds, say what it tastes like, and eat it! This is a method that all employees in American companies know. It is simple, easy and extremely effective! The seeds of optimism are waiting for you in this 10-second process. It will quickly calm your wandering mood, help you regain a positive attitude, and make you involuntarily show a relaxed smile. "The Magic Apple Rule".

19. There is a famous saying: "A smile is the best way to end a conversation." In my opinion, a smile is the ticket that allows us to start a wonderful journey!

20. What can you do in front of 10 strangers, tell a joke, do an MJ dance, or confidently make eye contact with everyone and send a social signal of "I want to get to know you"? ...Bravely welcome the cruel "choice", let yourself express your best qualities in front of a fair rule, and force out the full potential of your inner self.

21. In the 1960s, Milgram, a social psychologist at Yale University, discovered after a large number of experiments and research: In modern society, you can get to know any stranger in the world through up to six people. ! This is the famous six degrees of separation theory. "There is no one you can't connect with, as long as he lives on this planet, even if he is John F. Kennedy or Admiral Nimitz." Gram said, "They are all strangers, but there is a channel of communication. You just need to find it!" After entering the information age, this theory has been verified time and time again in real life. Real strangers do not exist. The so-called strangers are actually people who can get to know each other through some way. Expanding the breadth of your interpersonal relationships, expanding your horizons and circles is to expand your connections and inject more nutrients into your life. As long as you have enough courage, take the first step and conquer their eyes and hearts with your unparalleled radiation power. If you have a strong aura, maybe you can shake hands with Obama with a smile in just two steps, and have a great conversation in the White House!

22. The world we live in is increasingly moving from a traditional society of acquaintances to a society of strangers, families are becoming smaller, and the advent of the global information age has made a person’s social interactions increasingly complex. Expand and make your life inextricably connected with strangers.

23. Sociologist Ronald Porter proposed the "structural hole" theory in 1992. He defined the gaps between social networks as structural holes. He said a smart person with an entrepreneurial spirit would occupy a "structural hole" by acting as a liaison between two people on opposite sides of the gap who had no direct connection to each other. The more structural holes a person occupies, the more important his position among the crowd and the stronger his ability to mobilize interpersonal relationships to serve himself.

24. When you take the initiative to approach a stranger, you are facing a process of "being chosen". No matter how proactive the behavior, its essence is like this.

25. When you find confidence, you will find that you are greater than you imagined.

26. The "3 Seconds Stranger" game stimulates a person's full potential in the shortest possible time, allowing him to focus on nothing but achieving the most direct goal of making the women or handsome guys opposite him more attractive. Look at me and give me a look of admiration and admiration. This is like a window, a sufficiently intimidating aura that can open this window, so that you can enter the world of a stranger, and he will decide to have an in-depth relationship with you within 3 seconds!

27. Through willpower training, we can make ourselves extraordinary people who can control our inner aura, enhance our beliefs, and ultimately achieve self-happiness.

28. Everyone has willpower, and it is silently lurking in our bodies. Willpower is the supreme leader of you, me and him. When it breaks out, we are invincible.

29. "Willpower is the commander of the body, and the human body is the slave of willpower. You have to know that willpower can be trained and improved. Through effective improvement, a strong will can become Your life habits make your life full of miracles. ”

30. Will is a unique art that can guide itself without external force.

31. You need to maintain a strong will throughout your life, and no matter what you do, you must urge yourself to be cautious and persistent. Keeping a strong will will last throughout your life, and you will not be allowed to relax for a day, unless you want to give up some desires and completely indulge yourself for a certain period of time.

32. Some facts you need to understand:

?Few people concentrate on something. If you can concentrate on one thing from beginning to end, you will be the first to cross the finish line. people.

?The power of self-confidence is to completely release the inner self-tension.

?No one is responsible for you except yourself. Everyone's destiny is controlled only by themselves, both you and me. Therefore, your heart is hope!

33. Willpower training, regardless of any occasion, is implemented in your daily actions, testing you every minute and every second, reminding you that you must pay attention to whether you have the power to persist!

34. 10-minute aura training each time:

35. Early morning: Deep breathing can make the aura change from weak to strong, set goals for the day, and stabilize the direction of the aura.

36. Noon: Calm your mind, strengthen your will, continue to strengthen your aura, and ensure the quality of this day.

37. Night: Reflection and organization are very important for us. When the aura changes from strong to weak and the body and mind are about to enter sleep, we should be fully prepared for tomorrow.

38. Aura is not only a reflection of a person's ability, but also can influence and infect others, making them have the same enthusiastic, positive and optimistic attitude as you. When your aura is strong, you can not only improve your interpersonal relationships, control your career, and overcome various difficulties, but you can also maintain good health and achieve family happiness. If you want to gain the support of your colleagues, the loyalty of your employees, lead the team towards a better future, have a healthy life, and realize your dreams in life, then you must first have a strong aura, which is what we often call charm. . Stranger training, designed to stimulate potential, boost self-confidence and improve image, can help us do just that.

39. Success is not about what you know or who you know, but how popular you are. A popular person is usually trustworthy, proactive, conscientious, decisive, and hard-working and conscientious in life.

40. Carnegie said: “It takes two months for you to discover the good qualities of others, and you will make more friends than it takes two years for others to discover your good qualities.”< /p>

41. Aura is not learned, but cultivated. Develop your aura! "First work for successful people, and then let successful people work for me." The process of cultivating aura is a process of improving temperament. The eyes begin to become firm, the steps no longer hesitate, the heart is no longer confused, and the whole person is positive and confident .

42. How can a person who cannot control himself become the protagonist in the eyes of others? More than 2,000 years ago, the ancient Greeks engraved "Know thyself" as an inscription on the Temple of Delphi. First, "Know thyself."

43. "I know exactly what I want to do, and I do it every day." Gates said quietly, even a little shy, "A person only needs to remember to be his own protagonist. .

The logic is very simple, because he must first understand himself and control himself before he can formulate his own life strategy and become the protagonist in the eyes of others. Therefore, I have only one suggestion, first recognize yourself, and then cooperate with others. "(A conversation between Phil and Gates) Back straight, chest raised, eyes leveled

?Bent back, slightly rickety

?Standing with hands on hips

?Stand with your legs crossed

?Stand with your hands in your pockets

?Stand against the wall

?Stand with your hands behind your back

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These seven postures include almost all the standing postures that 6.5 billion people around the world can think of.

44. Straighten your back, raise your chest, and look straight, unless you deliberately do so. The disguise shows that this person has strong self-confidence, gives people the impression of "high-spirited" and "optimistic and happy", and is willing to communicate with you about any problem.

45. No matter what the communication posture and aura, it ultimately reflects inner cultivation and unique understanding of life, which require both training and the ups and downs of life.

46. Inner cultivation! The hard work and strong life experience can be projected from the movements of your hands and instantly conquer the people present.

48. You must have a goal of longing for a strong aura and work hard for it. ! Only in this way can you hope to become a role model in the minds of others. A positive attitude and a rigorous grasp of details are very important to our lives. When you cannot be the protagonist in the rivalry between the two, you are destined to get along in the future. Whether it is work, life or love, striving to become the person with the strongest aura is our common pursuit. This is a world of strong people, and only a proactive spirit can help you achieve your goals. , no matter what you do, waiting for pie in the sky will only come to nothing!

49. If you have enough confidence, make a business plan for yourself! Only our inner self can do it! The best, each of us can be the person that others want to see when they wake up in the morning! When you start to think like this, you are one step closer to the most powerful aura!

50. “What is your heart’s request for life? Is it to achieve certain goals, or to enjoy the enjoyable process? Whether you can climb to the top of the mountain often depends on how strong your desire is; but this is not enough. Just like a rare sword, only a beautiful appearance cannot cut iron like mud. It must also be tough. The material has been tempered and polished for a long time! This is a harsh requirement on your inner quality! ”

51. Successfully selling yourself is the prerequisite for proving your aura and the basis for establishing a firm foothold in interpersonal relationships. You must have the awareness and courage to promote yourself. You must take the initiative Open your heart and don’t sit in your room waiting for God to arrive in the clouds. There are 6 billion people on this planet. Don’t expect God to find you who is huddled in your room.

52. Smile: Use the power of your soul to practice smiling in front of the mirror. This is very important to you and is something you should do every day. ” Eyebrows and eyes almost occupy the most important position on a person’s face. With bright eyebrows and eyes, a person’s aura comes out. Smile every day and make your smile more charming through practice.

53 .The power of spiritual inspiration is endless. As long as you are willing to smile, anyone can be infected by you.

54. Course training: Go to the street and strike up a random conversation with a strange girl. The condition is that you can talk to a strange girl within 3 minutes. This girl's conversation should be no less than ten sentences, and it should cover three different topics. It's not just a casual chat.

55. "I think the aura is not doubting one's courage. Let me believe that I can do my best. This is a gesture of life. ”

56. First learn to smile, walk boldly in crowded places, and look at them confidently, especially the opposite sex. Take the initiative to say hello to friends and classmates, and discuss any topic in the world, haha, you You will find that life is invincible

Quoted from "Aura" by Peake Phil