1. How many times can you get absolute love in your life? When you can love, love with all your life! If you can be loved, enjoy the moment of complete burning.

2. Every chance is inevitable, and every effect has a cause. Therefore, we should not just wait for random opportunities, but should actively create inevitable opportunities.

3. What is wrong with presenting the difficulties of the world and the weaknesses of human nature before our eyes? That will only make everyone see the world more clearly, understand human nature better, and reflect on themselves more...

4. From passionate, sexual love to warm, family love.

5. In order to protect the interests of ethnic groups, especially to show the power of minority groups, people often choose based on their stance, and they do not hesitate to choose the side they think is wrong.

6. Everyone is human, with human greed, selfishness and warmth. We can never forget that the other person also has human weaknesses just because he behaves kindly. Don't let his momentary despicableness lead to denying his lovely side.

7. Choose an individual before marriage, and a couple after marriage! The same goes for loved ones.

8. A strong mind dares to face sorrow, because he knows that all sorrow will fade away. All sorrow, one day, can be chewed, commemorated, transformed, and turned into great love.

9. Don’t say you can’t do it! Self-control actually starts from some inconspicuous little things. If you persist in these small things and form a habit, you will have endless treasures. Pythagoras said: "Self-control is the most powerful strength and wealth in the world."

10. People's hearts are too big. It can also be said that people's greed is often induced.

11. When playing against a master, you often make one mistake and lose the whole game; but when a master plays chess, the endgame you see may turn out to be a turnaround and bring you back to life.

12. Remember! One more ball to play, one more bite to eat, one more gamble, and one more minute of sleep may sound like trivial matters, but the "self-compromising" bacteria inside them may erode your bone marrow and make you unable to stand straight for the rest of your life!

13. In this world, it is not that those who are loved more will know how to repay love, but those who love more will be able to love more deeply! It wasn't until one day when he became a parent himself that he realized how great the love from his predecessors was!

14. If everything goes wrong, you can complain. But if only one thing goes wrong and everything else goes well, don't complain! Think about what is said in the fable: A dog with a piece of meat in its mouth saw the dog in the water holding the same piece of meat. He barked dissatisfiedly, and ended up losing all the meat in his mouth. Before pursuing more good luck, you must first hold on to the good luck you already have, and don't be jealous of other people's good luck. Always be grateful for grace and more grace will come to you.

15. Those who risk their lives for the sake of their own wealth and reputation are not brave. Those who disregard their own wealth and reputation and defend the truth are the real brave men!

16. A strong mind dares to face sorrow, because he knows that all sorrow will fade away; all sorrow, one day, can be chewed, remembered, transformed, and become great love. .

17. Even if you have not climbed the ladder to the moon, you cannot lose the arms that embrace the moon.

18. Is it true that there are some characters hidden deep in everyone’s heart, accompanied by joy and sorrow? They usually lock them up and dare not touch them, let alone others to know about them, until certain times. On the days when the soul is clear, or when the light comes back to light, the secular heart becomes weak and can no longer be locked, and finally the character emerges?

19. It is precisely because of the suffering that there is the happiness of being solved; it is precisely because of the pain that there is the joy of recovery; it is precisely because of the sorrow that there is the beauty of forgetting the sorrow; it is precisely because of today’s shortcomings that That’s why I look forward to tomorrow.

20. Using the word "hooked" may be too superficial. You must know that people who are really good at fishing in this world may not necessarily put bait on the hook first. He catches you first and then feeds you bait. He also eats poisonous bait to make you addicted and finally take the bait.

21. The most hopeless love is indifference, and the least progressive love is dawdling. As for those who quarrel three days a day and have a small quarrel two days later, they are either too good to death or hate to death. It is often not that they don't love, but that they love too much. They hugged each other and either drowned in love or went their separate ways after a big fight. It's not that they don't love, they just want to survive; one day they may get married out of nowhere, and then spend their whole lives thinking about the person they once loved and hated to death.

22. What will happen when justice meets profit? This is when human nature witnesses. When the responsibility of justice should speak, don't let money speak out.

23. The reason for not saying nice things is very simple - because he didn't think much about it.

24. The death of a loved one is sometimes not as painful as the pain of him leaving us. Because those who die must die, not because they want to abandon us. As the child who lost his mother said: "Mom is still lying there, why should we leave?" As far as the deceased is concerned, he has not left. It is the living people who really leave!

25. Whether it’s your secret or someone else’s, it’s better not to know it. When your secret is no longer a secret, you are controlled. Hearing the secret is also a gunpowder. I don’t know. When will it explode?

26. Many girls, with excellent conditions, marry a scumbag husband, or suffer the consequences of their shameless fathers, just because of their tutoring. Her tutoring is not bad, but very good. As a result, she became the most prudent investor, holding the money in her hands and raising her head, waiting and waiting, and finally became the scapegoat for the copycat.

27. Mature people don’t ask about the past, smart people don’t ask about the present, and open-minded people don’t ask about the future.

28. When you make the right choice, never "show" it to those who made the wrong choice. Department, school, career, and husband are all the same. Talk more about your sufferings and show less about your pride.

29. You can put on a show in front of the proud people without losing the battle; you can be generous in front of the frustrated ones and never forget your roots. Reaching these two points is at least half the battle in being a human being.

30. Lovesickness is longer than dreams, and can even span yin and yang.

31. Don’t be reasonable in an unreasonable environment. Don't act heroic when you must lose.

32. Love always hurts deeply!

33. Talking superficially while talking deeply is taboo for both gentlemen and villains.

34. If you keep a cat and a fish at the same time, and the cat eats the fish, you should not only blame the cat, but also yourself. In the same way, when you clearly know that human nature has weaknesses but do not take precautions and suffer losses, in addition to resenting that person, you should also examine yourself. Everyone is human and has human goodness and evil. We can never forget that the other person also has human weaknesses just because he behaves kindly.

35. Young people! One day you will find that your father, who is always running in front of you and is called the "not tired robot" by your classmates, will actually follow you and pant; one day you will find that others buy your face, but no longer Buy the friendship of your parents; one day you will find that the strong hand that always pulls you, weakly and tremblingly reaches out to ask for your support; one day you will find the old man in your heart who never declines , may write the last two words, which are already illegible: "Save me!"

36. If you keep a cat and a fish at the same time, and the cat eats the fish, in addition to blaming the cat, you should blame Own.

37. A woman’s chastity is like a lock on a box. It can block a gentleman but not a villain.

38. Maternal love is the most magical antidote and can cure many wounds.

39. As long as it can bloom, even for a short moment, it will be worthy of this life.

40. Once the book is printed, it is dead, but the human brain is alive. You must input these dead data into your human brain using the most effective language and method.

41. Talking to the seventh degree, drinking to the point of drunkenness; writing sparse and ink, speaking gracefully; being simple and broken, implicit and subtle, is the highest state of imperfection and beauty.

42. The more successful you are, the more careful you must be. Women are terrible traps.

43. We must constantly weigh the pros and cons to determine the weight and level of sacrifice. In order to work, we can sacrifice entertainment; in order to save our children, we can sacrifice sleep; in order to preserve life, we can abandon the things outside us. But when we encounter something more precious than life, we have to sacrifice life.

44. The United States is free, so free that you can choose to be a scavenger or a university professor. The United States is also open. A scavenger can earn more than a university professor. The United States is still equal, and there is no respect for positions. No matter high or low, as long as you work hard, you can have a good life.

45. As we grow older and realize the value of money more and more, we may use money to measure everything, even love. Little did I know that in this world, before there was money, there was love. Before we make any money, we have already earned love. We come to this world because of love, and when we leave one day, we can’t take money with us, but we can only take with us a heart full of love.

46. You can never climb mountains in your life, but there must be a mountain in your heart. It enables you to always climb higher, it enables you to always have a direction to strive for, and it enables you to see your own hope at any moment when you raise your head.

47. If you endure the long night, you can see the dawn; if you endure the pain, you can have beauty; if you endure the last winter, you no longer need to hibernate; if the cold plums fall, you can look forward to the new spring. .

48. When we laugh at others for being pedantic or incompetent, what we should probably be laughing at is the ignorance caused by our own lack of participation.

49. When your thoughts are messy and your mood is tense, your sensibility will become sluggish. If you can reach a state of calmness and concentration, you can see things you can’t see and hear things you can’t hear. , I feel something I can’t feel on a daily basis.

50. Beggars deceive people and take advantage of other people’s sympathy. If a person who is already more pitiful than himself is in trouble and refuses to help, he will really feel a little uneasy about his conscience.

51. People live like this for a lifetime! It's easy to say, but it's very profound to think about; I'm lucky to have it, and I can't live this life in vain!

52. If you can avoid spreading the word, it’s better not to spread the word; if you can avoid using clichés, it’s better not to use clichés; if you can avoid getting involved in “criticism behind the scenes”, it’s better not to get involved. Let yourself be like a beach. No matter how big the waves come, they caress the beach and recede one by one. Don't be like a rock that makes even small waves stir up high splashes.

53. Also because of many things that were unbearable to look back on and difficult to face, I realized that “you can’t change the world, you have to change yourself” and learned the principles of inaction and “don’t be stupid, don’t be deaf, don’t be an aristocrat”. I bow to the moon in my hand and my heart is filled with the wind." The freedom and ease.

54. Use care instead of questioning, use suggestions instead of blame, and use hints instead of outspokenness.

55. Those who hold candles for others are also in the candlelight, and those who bless others are always in the shadow of blessing.

56. Everyone should value themselves from an early age! Before others can affirm you, you must affirm yourself first!

57. People often blame God and others when they encounter misfortune, but there are also many people who still blame others when they thank God; or they still blame God when they thank others. In fact, God's help does not come through human hands, and human help does not come from God. Therefore, when you thank people, you should also thank God. When you thank God, you should not care about people's grievances.

58. There is a principle when giving gifts, which is to look at the recipient. For friends who are short of money, you'd better give them valuable gifts. For those who are well-off, you can give them something interesting. When giving gifts to the former, your "posture" should be low so as not to hurt others; when giving gifts to the latter, your "posture" should be flat so as not to appear flattering.

59. There is pain in childbirth, pain in growth, pain in parting, and pain in injuries. After one pain after another, we still have to face the biggest pain in life. In the cry of the beloved and the pain, He left this world in helpless grief.

60. People with the same destiny should not only pity each other, but also help each other. And in this process of helping each other, we transcend spiritual loneliness.

61. When we should thank God, we feel that the whole world owes us for our past dissatisfaction.

62. Things will not survive without frost, and people will not be virtuous without suffering.

63. How many children today are bargaining with their parents, wanting both American-style freedom and Chinese-style pampering, but without the initiative of American children and with the loss of traditional Chinese filial piety. However, after these children enter the society, they want both American-style corporate benefits and Chinese-style iron rice bowls, but they do not have the self-discipline of American employees and the traditional Chinese loyalty. I have been bargaining since I was a child, but when I grow up, I lose my principles. I will be reasonable when I should be reasonable, and I will intercede when I should be reasonable. This is the result of the lack of rational elements in many of our current family educations.

64. When we love someone and miss someone, we always hope that the other person misses us too. Little did they know that the highest state of love is: forget me! So as not to suffer as much as I miss you!

65. The highest state of love is not to remember me, but to forget me! So as not to suffer as much as I miss you!

66. Remember! You may be unable to escape the shadow of others throughout your life, but the most important thing is to never live in your own shadow.

67. Trees decay slowly, and so do people. And almost all corruption has a grand excuse, and all corruption has a personal cloak.

68. Many people who are incited and exploited are honest and upright. Because this kind of person is less wary and has the strongest sense of justice.

69. Making money is already unjust, and it is also greedy! It is said that those who do many unjust deeds will surely die.

70. Although reputation is called the second life of a person, the second life is not the first life after all!

71. If the world’s toils, sorrows, grievances and resentments cannot be resolved or tolerated, wouldn’t they disappear in just a few decades? If so, what is there that cannot be solved?

72. We have difficulty seizing opportunities because of hesitation and procrastination; we are easily satisfied with the status quo because we have no higher ideals; we dare not face the future because we lack confidence; we fail to make breakthroughs. Because we don’t want to break through; we can’t realize our potential because we can’t surpass ourselves!

73. Use public love to treat the loss of private love.

74. Seeing things creates feelings, seeing people, thinking about them, people are already drowning!

75. Regardless of beauty or ugliness, lightness or slowness, everything is perfect as long as it is created by God.

76. As their physical fitness declines, the elderly will feel increasingly useless and insecure. Therefore, when the old man does not arrive during the meal, even if he has already come, you should shout deliberately to make him feel valued. In addition, we should often mention the good things of the old man in public. For example, if it weren't for my mother's help, I wouldn't be able to focus on my career and achieve what I am today; if it weren't for my grandparents to take me, I wouldn't be able to grow up so well. The old man will be very warm after listening to it.

77. Tranquility is often determined not only by sound, but also by the feeling of the heart. The tranquility obtained among the crowd is sometimes better than being alone, because that kind of tranquility has more solemn and sacred power.

78. When you have it but don’t love it, you have made a double mistake: first, you should love but fail to love. Second, you deprive it of the right to be loved by others. Rather than possessing something without loving it, it is better to let the one you love possess it.

79. When justice and responsibility should speak, don’t let money speak. When the latter speaks out, the former often falls silent.

80. People who fail to cooperate often break up the team because they blame each other. People who cooperate successfully often break up the team because each takes credit.

It wasn't until we broke up the partnership and found that we were weak, that we started working together again, and the relationship became more stable.

81. Everyone wants face. No matter how practical your gift is, if you don’t give it enough face, you may get the opposite effect.

82. Even if there is no need to worry about food and clothing, no need to work, and you can live forever in heaven, what is the meaning of living? It is precisely because of suffering that there is happiness in solving it; just because there is pain, there is recovery. It is precisely because of sorrow that there is beauty in forgetting sorrow; it is precisely because of today's shortcomings that we look forward to tomorrow.

83. How many children want American-style freedom and Chinese-style pampering, but do not have American-style independence and have lost the traditional Chinese filial piety.

84. For everyone who hurts me, I always try to think after feeling sad: "They may have had unavoidable reasons for doing that." Understanding means that I can think positively, so that I can Thinking about things from other people's perspectives also allows me to see many things that others cannot. But I am not a "bad guy". While I understand, I also blame.

85. In this world, many of our beloved things will disappear one day and never come back.

86. I think of Shen Congwen’s autobiography, which writes that groups of people were tied up and sent out to beheaded. If there are too many people and they cannot be killed, they will throw bamboo shoots and those who avoid death will walk away on their own; those who are hit will not cry out and will obediently accept the fate of death. Life is so humble, so humble that it is just a dispensable existence between the rising and setting of the sun, the origin and destruction of conditions.

87. I am not teaching you to cheat, but I am teaching you to recognize human nature. Don’t forget their badness because of their goodness; don’t forget their goodness because of their evilness. We should never forget that the other person has human weaknesses because of his kindness. Don't deny his cute side just because of his temporary despicableness.

88. The ordinary can be affirmed because it is extraordinary; only the emotions that are affirmed in the ordinary are the most extraordinary and the most real.

89. Bravery or hard work alone are not enough! In this day and age, what’s more important is ideas!

90. Although praising people is the best way to speak, never praise person A and hurt person B at the same time, otherwise someone will secretly hate you.

91. Imperfection is a kind of perfection! We are old, rusty, and riddled with holes, and we need to see a doctor every now and then to repair our broken bodies. Why should we demand that the people, things, and things we own are perfect and have no shortcomings? Being used to seeing brokenness is also experience, open-mindedness, maturity, and a state of life!

92. I believe that the museum must have its good intentions in arranging such a program, but will its good intentions have the opposite effect? In the past, every time I took my daughter there, we walked around and looked at it slowly. We could stand in front of a ceramic toy in the Mesoamerican Pavilion and read the museum's description, knowing that the wheel might have come from China. You can also take a closer look at the Chinese genealogy in the Asia Pavilion and analyze it while teaching the little girl how to read Chinese. In addition to the soreness in our backs and legs today, we got that coloring book. We really haven’t even looked at the museum windows. Why? Because we lose our desire for knowledge and only think about realistic goals.

93. I am not as expert in everything as you are, so when signing official documents in the future, please don’t ask me what to do, but instead suggest me what to do!

94. "Poverty leads to change. Change leads to success." When we have no way to go, we show that we are not used to it. Then we have to face it. After facing it, we will of course find a new way.

95. Always be wary of strangers, especially those who take the initiative to help and appear overly enthusiastic. For things you are unfamiliar with, pay close attention to every move of the person helping others to avoid getting hurt yourself.

96. I dream that one day we can care for everyone fairly, sincerely, and in a reasonable and legal manner, instead of just being nice to ourselves. I dream that one day, we will no longer "love to live and hate to die", but can look at everything calmly. I dream that one day, Confucius’ “rationalized” golden mean can be truly implemented in our lives.

97. It is true that there are many unfair things in society. The way to overcome them is to redouble our efforts to stand out and empower ourselves to create a fair society in the future. If you only feel sorry for yourself, your short-term bad luck may eventually turn into long-term misfortune.

98. Walk faster on the road and stay longer at home; concentrate more on reading and play more; work harder and relax more on vacation. Half a day's leisure is stolen from busyness, not from idleness. People who are idle all the time and busy all the time not only do not have the freedom to relax and unwind freely, but it is also difficult for them to have creative ideas that fly from the sky. People can neither make progress nor take leisure; leisure is to accumulate strength for progress, and progress is to create space for leisure.

99. According to research by psychologists, they are really afraid of going to hell after death, so they take the initiative to "go to hell" first. Just like primitive humans were afraid of lions and tigers, but instead painted lions and tigers into murals. It can also be said that when faced with fear, instead of adopting a positive attitude, they bowed down and allowed themselves to be slaughtered.

100. When you suffer a serious blow or even lose your reputation. There is no need to look at the people around you, because those eyes with ridicule and insults will only cause more harm to you.

But don't stop, because people around you will take the opportunity to rush to fix you. You just need to stare at the road in front of you and move forward bravely towards the mountain in your heart. Gradually, the people who scold you will be left behind. When you look down at them from a height, those contemptuous eyes will become looking up to you.