Ask yourself, what is more terrible for you than not getting promoted at the age of 30? I guess you won't have an answer after smoking a cigarette. This is not only a philosophical problem, but also a life problem. Because, you never thought that you still need to think about such things in your life, and the result you need is to muddle along. If you don't want to hang out, you must be looking for death. Most people's lives are just muddling along, working during the day and sleeping at night. Wake up the next day, it's time to go to work, it's time to eat, it's time to fill your stomach. This is the ordinary life of most people, a quiet life.
For a few people who have not been promoted at the age of 30, it means that the workplace has reached a cliff, and the boundary between life and death is unobstructed. Where is the road? Are the efforts made in those years wrong? Do you still need to persist in this insistence? It's not terrible not to be promoted at the age of 30. The terrible thing is that you don't know where your road is, whether you should stick to it or not, and have no expectation for tomorrow. The last thing a person should give up is his own thoughts.
Despair of life is like a mosquito in summer. No matter how you protect yourself, you will still be bitten. There will be no anxiety when muddling along, and occasionally I will be swept away by my irrelevant mentality. Unless today is the end of the world, why rush tomorrow? At the age of 30, you are still an experienced worker. This is the only qualification that time has given you. Single dog, who has no car, no house and no savings, is a moonlight clan, but he lives comfortably and quietly. But I don't know, I am the last person to enjoy the quiet years. Nothing is not terrible. What is terrible is that you don't think about the meaning of life you are looking for with the mentality of a nobody.
We can compromise with life, but we can't compromise with your ideas. If we lose our heart, we will lose our only dignity in front of life. As little people, we can accept failure, let ourselves go on the road, and don't mix up. Once mixed, you can't get out of the Jianghu, and getting a knife is a knife that kills people.
At the age of 30, you were just young and in your prime. You deserve to stand on the stage and watch the scenery on the stage. Your position is the embodiment of your position in the workplace and your social status.