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Roland barthes's famous saying
There is always a helplessness in the world: the people I love don't love me, and the people who love me don't love me! Maybe you will be lucky to be loved by others, maybe you don't know at all, maybe you pretend not to understand, but in any case, being loved is also a kind of happiness, which is not only love, but also recognition, at least proving that you have the value of being loved and making you proud of being appreciated.

1. Two people have been together for a long time, just like right and left hands. Even if they no longer love each other, they will choose to be together, because it takes a lot of courage to give up for so many years. Maybe there will be someone you love in your life, but it will be a passer-by, and you will still walk with your left hand or right hand. Happiness really has nothing to do with love.

2. People who really love you will accompany you to the future; True love is not a moment's commitment and confession, but the years we have passed together afterwards; The true fate is not predestined arrangement, but the determination of two people to recognize each other.

3. Know that everyone is looking forward to a sincere love, a partner who will accompany you through a long life. Love is like a fleeting time, many things will be consumed in time, only love is eternal; Only love is the warmest place in your heart and mine.

Love is just one of the contents of life. In addition, there are family ties, friendship, sense of accomplishment, artistic aesthetics and various hobbies that bring you great pleasure. Only the sum of these is a rich life. If love outshines others, it is like a chair with long and unstable legs.

5. The best feeling is to find a partner who can talk. Various topics can never be finished; I don't feel tired if I repeat the language. Companionship is two of a kind's habit; Knowing is an attachment between two hearts.

6. What you need to love someone is to talk, not to blame; It is unforgettable, not forgotten; Communicate with each other, not explain everything; Pray for each other silently, instead of making many demands on each other; Can be romantic, but don't waste it; Don't hold hands casually, let alone let go. Please remember to cherish the immediate happiness.

7. Harmony is very important when two people are together. The so-called matching does not necessarily mean material things, but that two people have similar growth experiences and similar outlook on life and values, and can walk side by side for similar goals. When you speak, you always have to explain for a long time, or you can't say it at all. It's disgusting. It's really important to be able to talk.

8. In order to maintain feelings, it is always necessary to find a form of existence for feelings in real life. Maybe it is an ideology, such as spiritual love. It doesn't matter if you can't see each other, as long as there is that person in your heart, he has become a warm cloud in your heart; Maybe it's a form of daily life. If you can see each other's smiling face when you wake up in the morning, you can smell her hair when you open the door after work. Food is on the table and people are around you.

9. If you love someone, you always feel that he is stupid, and you should take care of him everywhere. If you don't like a person, you are sure that he is smart, make good use of it and don't bother anyone. Be kind to yourself. You don't have to expect to always exchange "hard work" and "sacrifice" for love. You can love yourself first. Love yourself and others, and love will not dry up.

10, like it, just to get a gift; And love, but to pay a future. Like is the starting point of love, and love is the end point of love. The reason why I care about a person is because I have feelings in my heart. The reason why you feel bad about a person is because love is intentional. If you like it, express it sincerely and leave no regrets; If you love, cherish your eyes and do your best to pay for your family. This world, true love, is irreplaceable.

1 1. People who really understand you will not be far away from you and share everything with you without asking indiscriminately. The person who really loves you will not abandon you, be tolerant of everything and have no regrets. People who know you are always kind to each other. People who love you will always be with you. Love is not really understood; But if you know, you will naturally love. Love is simpler than understanding, and understanding is more important than love. True love is wonderful when you touch it with your heart. Touching love is the harbor of the soul. Sincere communication makes love last.

12, love is not a sale, and you don't need to bear a conscience debt. Every girl has the right to pursue happiness. Why did she lose herself in a man she despised? You can't live together if you want different things. If you let go, you will be happier.

13, it is easy to fall in love with someone, but it is not easy to stick to that promise after it is flat. Love is never pandering. No quarrel, no scolding, is true love. True love comes to the end. If there is no result, it can only be called love. In fact, if you really love someone, you will fall into an uncontrollable whirlpool. He made you cry and let you down. Even so, when he stood there, you would still go over and hold his hand, involuntarily.

14, the hardest thing about feelings is not that two people really love each other, and love is hard to maintain and last, because life is not just one day. After all, life is realistic, and people have to go through such a test, not just saying I love you. There will be many unexpected things in life, so be patient enough to face them. You have to go through some things to understand some truth, and many changes have taken place in the experience.

15. Love is like debt. We are willing to accept the uncertainty of what we owe others, hand ourselves over to the other party for disposal, and let the other party decide how and when to pay it back. Its happiness comes from our own fiery emotions, and in this way, we fell in love with love.

16, love is afraid of fraud. True love may not be so smooth, colorful, beautifully packaged and boasted by advertisements, but it has inherent quality assurance. True love is not without short circuit and injury, but with a guarantee, a promise of two hearts, written between heaven and earth.

17, love is the most beautiful feeling of human beings. When two hearts finally come together after a long journey, they take care of each other like mirrors without suspicion. When they say to each other every beat: I will never leave you! Then, love has come quietly, and no force can separate them!

19, love is such a simple thing for two people, but we hope it is vigorous enough and beautiful enough. The essence of love becomes more and more blurred with too many gorgeous clothes and accessories, and it becomes more and more difficult in the end.

20. There is a kind of love called twists and turns, because love always takes several turns to come. There is a kind of love called regret, because when love is gone, I realize that I really loved it; There is a kind of love called touching, because love will take off its cotton-padded clothes in the cold winter to give you a certain degree of warmth; There is a love called heartbreak, because love is frozen in the cold season; There is a kind of love that is unforgettable, because the traces of love are like chains that lock the soul and never rot.

2 1, love, maybe not completely dead in my heart, I hope it won't bother you again. I once loved you silently and hopelessly. I endure shyness and jealousy. May God bless you, and another person will love you as much as I do.

22. No matter how difficult the road is and how the environment changes, love can't be changed, or it can be said that it doesn't love. To say love, we must be sincere, firm, tolerant in understanding, deepened in tolerance, unmoved by the secular, ambitious and unchanged, in order to achieve a happy future.

23. Love needs expression. Living together for a long time, the expression of love becomes some trivial living habits. For example, make a cup of hot tea for your lover, tuck your lover in the corner, play a little joke with your lover and put a tomato in your lover's mouth. Of course, it may be that the tea is hot, the quilt corner is unnecessary, the joke is a bit vulgar, or the tomato tastes terrible.

24. Now I don't blame anyone, laugh at anyone and envy anyone. Sometimes I really don't know if everything I insist on for you is worth it, when you are sad. I wish I could be by your side. Try to make you laugh. Love in your eyes is just a selfish insistence, but I love you all my life.

25. Whether we loved or missed, I will thank you. Because I met you, I knew what it was like to miss someone. Because I met you, I realized that feelings really can't be forced; Because I met you, I know my heart is not really dead; Because I met you, I know I can have good memories. Therefore, no matter how you treat me, I will forgive your kindness with my heart and remember your kindness with my heart.

26. If you love each other, get married quickly. Don't gamble on love with your youth. The longer the time, the weaker the love and the less the youth. If you bet your youth on love, you will lose. Love is not temporary, but a lifetime. Therefore, to grow old together, we need to love each other and be willing to sacrifice for each other.

27. The most important thing in love is the heart: it takes heart to make love last. Intimacy can make love sweet. Heart can make love last forever. Heart to heart can make love warm and bright. Sincerity can enrich the joy of love. Compassion can increase the thickness of love. The distance between heart and heart can be very close or very far. When you are confused by love, you might as well calm down and listen to your own needs for love and whether your sincerity is surging.

28. Love needs to take care of each other. When our loved ones are tired, we don't just sit together and chat. When the other party needs something, we try our best to meet the other party's needs, at least let the other party know that the feeling around us is so warm.

29. You will never meet a few people who are really nice to you in your life. Someone lights light up the world for you, and someone pulls the dust out of your heart. However, if there is a measured distance between people, it will easily lead to the absurdity of losing contact. The more independent we are, the fewer important people there are. You are not sure when you will lose them. The only thing you can do is to be kind to those who still stay with you and be patient with the dull and lively life.

30, love a person, from the sky to people and not from yourself. Involuntary because of unforgettable, and never give up because of irreplaceable. There is always expectation in my heart, and there is waiting in the dim light; Always be good to you, and you will be willing to pay all the habitual dependence. You may have nothing in the world, but in the hearts of those who love you, you are the world. Cherish a person who loves you deeply, but also cherish a heart that integrates into life for you.

Editor's note: because of the choice, it will be missed; Because you miss it, you will lose it; Because it is lost, it will be cherished; Because you cherish it, you will get ... everything is like a play, and if you don't force it, there will always be consequences. Because there is love in my heart, I can be loved!

There is love in the heart, and flowers are like flowers.

Life is so dull in the past, and it is also a great fate to stir up a few splashes occasionally.

In my hometown, there are people who miss you and people who miss you.

Love and affection are not vigorous vows, but dull companionship.

When I was young, I thought I would never forget my feelings for life. Will be eroded bit by bit. Although scars may last a lifetime. But it will never be as painful as it was at first.

Nine times out of ten, the unpleasant things in life face the world and the future with a positive heart.

The ebb and flow of tide is life.

There are pains, joys, cries, smiles, sorrows and joys. This is life!

May a beautiful, bright and fragrant flower bloom in your heart every day!

Like a person, there is no pain. Loving someone may be a long pain, but the happiness he gives me is also the greatest happiness in the world.

What is life? It is stop-and-go, the scenery and tasks that pass by, the cycle of hope and disappointment, a worrying momentary mistake, and a more worrying eternal miss. What is the truth of life? Every time I pause, I suddenly have a sense of absurdity in my mind. What is the unavoidable paradox of life? Obviously, it is you who are ridiculous, but you are resolutely pushed to the next round of stop-and-go by an irresistible habit.

I found the secret book.

A small tree fell in love with a boulder around it. The boulder also fell in love with the young tree. So they each made a wish, willing to exchange 500 years of practice for the same body and mind. The Buddha was moved by his sincerity and fulfilled their wishes. Immediately, the small tree became a boulder, and the boulder became a small tree. Love a person's fate, often just a little, just a little, but far away on both sides of the Ganges.

As you get older, you realize the transience of love, and you realize that it is wrong to rely on love or others. When love goes bad, so does commitment. When you have love, please cherish it as much as possible and learn to understand that it will disappear like all impermanent things; Only two people know how to cherish, it will stay and we will fly. As long as you live longer than it and can't see it leave, that's victory, that's forever.

The relationship between women and feelings is like a cat and a mouse. Young girls treat their feelings like a kitten that just debuted not long ago. When they see a mouse, they always think that there is no shop after crossing the village. They can't wait to swallow it in one gulp and cherish it for life. If you lose it, you will cry, and if you are caught, you will suffer.

After watching a video that I couldn't understand, I looked around and found that others were absorbed in it, and then I suddenly understood what loneliness was.

Being a good person is actually very easy, and having a happy life is actually very simple: First, don't punish yourself for your mistakes; Second, don't punish others with your own mistakes; Third, don't punish yourself for other people's mistakes.

Waiting to change, my heart is old, but my heart has changed.

We feel lonely, not because no one cares about us, but because the people we care about don't care?

Some people cheat for a lifetime, while others cheat a person for a lifetime.

I dare not grow old without you. . . .

There is always a feeling between us that lasts forever. Unfortunately, this is not love, or more than just love.

Some people dare to die bravely for their ideals; Some people live humbly for practical benefits.

I know when to stop, when to let go and when to move on. But just because I know doesn't mean I can

The heaviest burden in life is not work, but boredom-romain rolland.

Love and love are like shells on the beach. Don't pick the biggest and most beautiful. If there is, pick your favorite and you will never go to the beach again.

Camouflage is futile and will only increase the pain.

Sometimes, one person, half a pack of cigarettes, two people, and several cans of wine. Strange old streets, gray old roofs. At this time, the silence and thoughts in the distance filled my mind. Worry for no reason. . . . .

Looking at the dark night sky, I began to wander.

Maybe I'm too persistent

Watching the noisy city alone

Only to find myself lonely all the time.

I grew to like the night.

Is it too quiet at night or too tired?

Perhaps the quiet night infected the tired heart.

What we cling to is often deceived by something; We are often hurt by whom we attach ourselves. So we should learn to let go, look down on everything, don't care, don't care, right or wrong doesn't matter.

Youth is a state of mind, not time; Youth is not on the peach face and lips of a gorgeous, flexible and energetic body, but a feeling of lofty ideals, daydreams and exciting spirit. The fountain of life is endless and evergreen all the year round.

Young people should be brave, not timid, and should be proactive, not complacent. This spirit, although there are twenty generations, is even worse for people in their sixties. When you are old, you may not be old. If you lose your ideal, you will be old.

Years are long, and aging only reaches the skin; Give up enthusiasm and decadence will reach the soul. Worry and panic, self-distrust bows the heart and turns people to dust.

No matter how old you are, whether you plan to be 28 or 28, there is curiosity in people's hearts, and the joy of life is as naive as a child. In the center of everyone's heart there is a wireless station, so long as it receives signals of beauty, hope, joy, courage and strength, it will last forever.

If the antenna goes down, your spirit is covered with ice and snow, and you are cynical and self-defeating, even at the age of 20, you are old! But as long as your aerials are up and you catch signals of optimism, you will still be young when you die at the age of 80.

I think I'm far away from you, and I can't help being sour. Will I be abandoned in the desolate snow? Even a prosperous area like New Albat can't hide this sadness at dusk here, otherwise it will be too late. I am walking alone in this sadness, but no one can help anyone. This is the ultimate question: in the final analysis, no one can help anyone, and we don't know what will happen in the future. At some point, we feel that as the years go by, there will be another decade of depression and boredom, even longer and longer. Who will think of me in the years to come? Just for a second. How many more moments will there be, blink of an eye, blink of an eye, I heard you say. Chinese has been lingering in my mind for less and less time, and in many cases it has even been squeezed out. They are no longer in my ears, and they are no longer as smooth and abundant as streams and fish in streams. There may be only a little defect, but I feel very serious. Here I am isolated from the original people and things to a certain extent, and the postal communication network is very inconvenient, just like my arm has been pressed for a long time, and countless small blood vessels are numb when they are blocked. My friends are wandering around. When I look up, I can see them reflected in the clouds and mist piled up in the sky. And the group of people who used to play online games together are still there. I'm afraid I will feel paralyzed for a while. I'm afraid I'll deviate from your track. I don't want to be apart from you. Suddenly I know a little about what my mother tongue is, and suddenly I have more understanding. So I walked down with joy and a little worry and melancholy.

The original appearance of life is colorful, and red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple coexist. But when we look at the problem, we often only see one color. If we only see red, maybe we will whitewash our lives. If we see gray, we may expose life; If we really have the ability to express the richness of life, the standard of judgment will be different from our traditional standard of judgment.

There is love in the heart, and the world is heaven.

1, there is love in the heart, and the world is heaven. 2. It is better to beautify the soul with morality than to dress up the body with wealth.

A person's biggest challenge is how to overcome his own shortcomings.

4. People who master the secret of happiness are those who regard others' happiness as happiness and others' happiness as happiness.

5. Be kind, say good things, do good deeds, build good relationships, be good people, people have good thoughts, and God will bless them.

6, angry-the most hurt is yourself, forgive others, in order to release yourself.

7. When you can't see other people's shortcomings, you can gain infinite wisdom from other people's behavior, language and thoughts.

8. People who love themselves will protect themselves carefully and spend one-third of their time deeply reflecting on themselves.

9. Worry and depression are killers of life.

10, life doesn't ask us to do our best, just ask us to do our best.

1 1. If you have the courage to commit suicide, why don't you take the courage to commit suicide and continue to live?

12, respectable people have common characteristics; Know how to take care of others' feelings; Understand and sympathize with the situation of others; Gentle in speech, humble in behavior, and always maintain their good qualities.

13, some words can only be kept in your heart. As an education of wisdom, they seem to punish each other, but they show your stupidity. Do it yourself and respect others.

14, now is not the time to get to know someone, but to unload their guard.

15, knowing how to care about others is the real beginning of growth.

16, the courage to bear, is a moving force.

17, only after experiencing all kinds of hardships in life can we realize the value of life.

18, compassion can benefit people; With understanding, we can tolerate others; Patience is the only way to be a man.

There is love in my heart! Take good care of your woman.

Finding a wife still makes you tired. I can't stand it at any time. I can't stand it any longer. I said she had a big temper. I'll ask you how angry a little girl can be. Did you hug her when she was coquetry? Did you comfort her when she was wronged? Her little arms and calves are full of tears. What can you offer to compete with her? How dare you!

Do you think she wants to be angry with you every day? Do you think she doesn't want to play the role of fresh little princess in front of you? You are so old, you should understand. If you say she is ignorant, I will ask you, and she will think ahead in front of you every day. Don't feel inferior! It always means that she can't talk or do things. She can't. How smart you think you are! If she can really do it, you don't know where to cry.

In this world, which woman is unrealistic, who is more stupid than who! Except for you, no one around her will call her stupid. Only those who are willing to be stupid and play the fool in front of you are the ones who really love you. I don't understand this truth. You have lived so long in vain.

Say she doesn't care about you, don't care about you, I will ask you, are you blind or heartless! When you are sick, who will be anxious except your mother? You came home late. Who else is urging you besides your mother? In your dictionary, what is care and concern? Don't wait for her to leave with tears, you will remember that a little girl is really good to you.

Say that she is disobedient and doesn't pay for you, so I will ask you, is it humble to be obedient and compromise? The most precious thing for a woman is youth. She consumes her most precious things and chooses to stay with you. Do you think she can't live alone when she is full? What do you want to prove, how proud your love is, or do you want to prove that you have the ability to make her love so delicate?

I don't think you dare to blow your beard and stare when you are chasing her. You use your dedication as a reason to breed desire. You take her contribution as a deserved benefit, not because she loves you. She had to be a slave to love. The pet in your mind, a mature man, must first learn to respect his woman. How old is he? He is still playing with the old socialist ideology. A woman is a perceptual animal, and most of what she wants is irrelevant.

Someone chasing her shows that she is capable and others can't crush her. No one is chasing her, which means you have a problem. what do you want to do? A woman who truly loves you will have her own bottom line and judgment standard. If she is really afraid that she will run away with someone else, take out some men to love her, be kind to her and let her find someone better than you.

Don't think that she can't resist temptation, loneliness and confusion. You underestimate a loving woman and always think that you are too good to your wife and suffer. Are you deformed or something? That's your own wife, not someone else's. Who will hurt you if you don't hurt? Blame others for always looking for opportunities to hurt you. Ask yourself, are you man enough? There is love in my heart! Cherish your woman!