Water flows downwards and people go upwards. It should be said that this is a basic law and human nature. Everyone hopes that the more they develop, the better, and the higher their material conditions and social status, the better. This is understandable, but in terms of love and mate selection, the higher the other person's conditions, the better. Whether men and women really love each other should be the basis of love and the standard of choice. This is not only a simple concept of love, but also the most real measure of mate selection. However, in today's materialistic world, the ancient and pure concept of love has been shattered by the ruthless reality. Many young people, especially girls, agree with Mano's "BMW Theory" very much, as qq Personality Signature Online said: I would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle.
The seaweed and Song Siming in Dwelling House just illustrate this "BMW theory". Seaweed chose Song Siming at the expense of his true love for Song Siming. Beckham is a typical generation of young people in today's society, because he is still young, he needs to fall in love, he needs to get married, he needs to start from scratch, he needs to start from scratch. He will go from infancy to development and then to maturity, and the road will go step by step and develop step by step. Suddenly, Beckham's girlfriend Haizao met Song Siming. Song Siming is a mature man who has experienced many vicissitudes. He has the right to be rich. He can give seaweed a lot, and he can give things that girls of this age can't get, whether it's money or spirit. Song Siming has a lot and gives a lot. Song Siming, like a brand-new BMW, is quite attractive.
Seaweed went home and saw Beckham, another childish face. What she can get from Beckham is far less than what she can get from Song Siming. Seaweed saw a mature and stable man with social status from Song Siming. For girls, no matter what they think, they will be full of admiration for Song Siming, and they will feel that there are many invisible things and many mysterious and beautiful things in him. At this time, girls will suddenly come back with a glass of water, and they will feel that Beckham is too bland, while Song Siming is too strong and has a heavy taste. After comprehensive analysis and comparison, the girl will definitely make a choice. The choice is 99.9%, and she will choose Song Siming instead of Beckham. Beckham is like that bike, no matter how good it is, it is not as good as BMW.
In fact, a girl who likes Song Siming is a girl who likes BMW. At present, such girls are still relatively common. It has become the basic pursuit of some girls to propose marriage instead of marrying a poor man. It has become a fashion for female college students to apply to marry the rich. It is also a girl's life creed that marrying well is better than growing well. The most typical is that some female stars choose rich old men to marry. Fu Mingxia, Wang Nan, Zhang Yining and other sports stars have all married rich old men. They chose BMW. What they need is the most realistic benefit. They don't have time to think about the future in 50 years. They must get it first and enjoy it first. Eat, drink and be merry is their greatest pursuit. How many girls are still lamenting that they can't meet "Song Siming" and regretting that they just can't meet "BMW" every day?
The author thinks, "I would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle." It is a static view of development, a distorted view of love and a short-sighted life choice. This kind of choice, on the whole, can't escape the life ending of sweet first and bitter later. Doesn't the bloody reality of seaweed illustrate this point? Even if Song Siming really loved her, cared for her and hung her up, she didn't live a perfect life in the end. Seaweed really can only "sit in a BMW and cry". Beckham, who looks dull at first, may become Song Siming after 40 years old. Of course, it's not necessarily Song Siming in the play. He may be a real success. In the end, seaweed will definitely regret it. We might as well ask: If Beckham's bike really turned into a BMW, what would the original girls think? Yesterday, the media reported that Wuhan boy Xiao Hu broke up with him because he couldn't afford a wedding room. Who knows that a month later, Xiao Hu won the lottery prize of 8 1.7 million yuan. Now facing Xiao Hu, a young man with huge sums of money, what should his girlfriend think when she leaves him?
We believe that sitting in a BMW without crying and sitting on a bicycle with a smile is the best choice in life.