You know, we have the right to say no to other people's demands at any time.
When I touched that sadness, my fingers were cold, my sadness fell in the curtain, and I lost that simplicity. I learned to refuse and stop blindly accepting.
4. A truly high-level person must know how to be gentle and cruel, with both the charm of attracting others and the ability to reject others.
Writer Bi Shumin said: Rejection is the right to live, a test of one's courage and mind, and an art.
6. Learning to refuse is a sign of maturity.
7. When they treat you with the attitude of consuming you, they actually don't respect you.
8. I know that I no longer long for someone to understand me, and I will refuse the youthful and frivolous dream that some people occasionally impose on me. Because I am enjoying loneliness, grasping the future together, studying, making mistakes on the road and constantly correcting. Do your best before being discovered by the whole world.
9. Learn to live and die, be a man, and learn to refuse.
10. People who know how to refuse are always the coolest, and refusal is always the cleanest shortcut to the answer.
1 1. Learning to listen is an irresistible attitude in our life, and learning to listen is also the best way for us to find happiness and get out of loneliness.
12. Because of you, I like basketball. Because of you, I learned to watch classic TV series over and over again. Because of you, I refuse any boy except you ... all this, just because you like playing basketball, you are nostalgic and I love you.
13. I learned to refuse to be busy in vain, but I haven't had time to understand the real coldness.
14. If you are good at something, don't do it for free, because you don't know how to refuse to pay, which is a low-value pay. Those kind people spend all their time and energy thinking that they will touch the whole world, but in fact they can only touch themselves.
15. When you learn to refuse, your kindness begins to become meaningful.
16. True kindness is not unconditional help, but principled dedication. A person who does not know how to refuse, your acceptance is also cheap.
17. My misfortune lies in my inability to refuse. I am afraid that once I refuse others, I will leave a rift in each other's hearts that will never heal.
18. You don't know how to refuse. You are always worried about hurting others' hearts unintentionally. You are always afraid that your words and deeds will make others unhappy. You always try your best to meet every request of others. Although you are not completely willing, no one appreciates you. However, in the eyes of others, you are just a free worker. There is nothing to be grateful for what you have done. You unknown so, in fact, you are too lonely because of yourself. Who told you to care too much about others and forget yourself? You have a soft heart. You should be hurt all the time. Try to learn to refuse.
19. If you don't like a song, we will cut it: If you don't like someone, maybe we should all learn to refuse. Author: Lu Sihao Source: Please wake me up before you leave.
20. Life is limited, so don't waste it in hesitation. Learn to refuse.
Rejecting the pursuit of the opposite sex is a woman's innate privilege. Even if she refuses the warmest love, it will not be considered cruel. However, if the goddess of fate makes a mistake, let a woman break her shy nature and give her love to an uncertain opposite sex desperately, the result will be unimaginable. When a man refuses a woman's pursuit, he hurts her noblest. Self-esteem by Zweig
22. Don't refuse mercilessly: Ruthless refusal means indifferent expression, harsh tone and no room for accommodation, which will make people embarrassed and even turn against each other.
23. Life is a process of choice. In order to succeed in your dream, you must learn to persist and resolutely refuse all kinds of temptations, even if a person repeats boring days and chews loneliness and cold. We should believe in ourselves and constantly motivate ourselves. Even if the things you insist on in the end are not realized, you can calmly face the generosity after giving up wholeheartedly, at least much happier than the regret of giving up lightly.
24. Rejection is a benefit, just as survival is a right. (Bi Shumin)
25. In life, have the courage to say no.
26. Don't be afraid that others will be unhappy. If your life is unhappy, what's the use of others being happy? Learn to refuse to think that others can be shameless and please everything. How can I give him face? Your job is not to help others, okay?
27. People who don't know how to refuse often hurt others and embarrass themselves.
28. Don't hug another person just because you are cold, and don't make do just because you don't know how to refuse.
29. The last person who will refuse others is the damn Libra.
30. We finally learn to smile and bow our heads and refuse what we like.
3 1. It is easy for others to take advantage of your ignorance of rejection. You are the one who got slapped in the face at last, and you are the one who lost everything. Did anyone else lose?
32. Release the unbearable, reject the unacceptable, learn to be silent, and learn to live seriously. Stay away from people you don't like, pursue what you love, don't please people who don't want to please, and don't live for others. Don't try your best to get along with the whole world, don't try to make everyone like you, and don't believe that you are made of iron and are not afraid of grievances and injuries. May you not comfort others, and may you know how to feel sorry for yourself.
33. People who know how to refuse are always the coolest, and refusal is always the cleanest shortcut to the answer. Life will be much better after learning to refuse.
34. Soft-hearted people don't know how to refuse others. Soft-hearted people are good at swearing. Soft-hearted people will feel that it is their fault to refuse others.
35. It's really not cute to be afraid of rejection, embarrassed and not taking the initiative.
When I see you, I will never leave. My best friend and sister went to the army. She just wants to prove that girls are really no worse than boys. I will accompany you from shoulder-length short hair to waist-length long hair, so you should accompany me from innocence to calmness. I'm sure whoever touches my sister will be killed by hook or by crook.
37. Not everyone has a kind nature. Some people hurt you without guilt or anxiety. They just laughed at your stupidity. When you learn to refuse others and learn to answer blows with blows, they will respect you and even fear you.
38. Don't help others, hate yourself, learn to reject others, and respect others' rejection.
39. You are destined to learn to be smart. Step bricks won't refuse to scratch the window grilles, and you can't turn off the sunset.
40. I finally learned to refuse. I also want to thank you for letting me learn how to treat feelings.
Excerpts from 2022 literary sentences (50 sentences) that euphemistically refuse to be confessed by others.
I don't like you, I hope you can find happiness that really belongs to you, and I hope you can meet a very good person who is better than me and likes you.
At the age of 2.7, he decided to become a git, but when he grew up, he became a foodie; Be endowed with lovely eyes, be endowed with big fat waist; Life is like this. You can overeat, but you can't refuse to get fat. Hang in there, it means everything! Yes, I am not a chubby "Dragon Warrior". Not at all, I am a lifeless and strong "panda Po"!
It's very kind of you, but I'm sorry I can't read it in detail.
We are only fit to be brothers.
I want to know what you are doing and thinking all the time. Because I'm only interested in you.
6. I was lucky enough to fascinate my husband but regretted not being moved.
7. Thank you for rejecting my sincerity and letting me know.
8. Well, when the national football team wins the World Cup, I will promise your confession.
9. Sorry, I don't like people paying too much attention to me.
10. Sorry, I already have someone I like, please don't pester me any more! You will make me hate you.
1 1. It's very kind of you, but I can't accept it.
12. The purest feeling: You are like a sister in my heart!
13. Sorry, I have a toothache today, so we are not suitable.
14. You know, I'm a Virgo, and I'm strict, but you're too loose.
15. Please make a wish to the gods and dye you as my bear! But the gods may not have time to talk to you.
16. Wow, you have a good eye. Haha, but I still have no feelings for you. Keep it for the time being.
17. Reason for refusal: I don't know you well. Sorry, I already have someone I like.
2022 euphemistically refused to be confessed by others. 18. Reasons for refusal: What do you like about me? Can't I change it?
19. But I will remember your tenderness. (lover! It's no use being gentle, you need Qian Qian)
20. I treat you like a brother, and you still want to sleep with me.
2 1. I'm afraid we will get married for a long time.
Don't worry, we can be friends first. I want to find my prince charming at this time.
23. Sorry, I didn't actually plan to fall in love with anyone.
24. No feeling! Be thorough.
25. I hold my time in my hand. I will remain humble in every entanglement, refuse the cry of conflict with you, and promise not to give you a lonely place to turn around and be quiet. I hope my sincerity in spring can be exchanged for your warm reply.
Thank you for liking me, but I don't like anyone.
27. Thank you for your liking, but I'm not suitable for you. I will take what you said today as a big adventure. Good luck!
28. Our ages don't match.
29. That's very kind of you. Being my friend is much more suitable than being my boyfriend.
30. Er ... I have someone I like.
3 1. For boring friends, how to refuse others' confession is enough!
32. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
33. I don't want to date my colleagues.
34. If only we had known each other earlier. (Maybe you will wake up earlier)
35. You embarrassed me. I used to treat you as a good friend/best friend!
36. I just rejected another one yesterday, saying that I made up with my boyfriend.
37. Hypocrisy: I am now focusing on my studies (career) and have no plans to have a boyfriend at present.
38. I can hear faint breathing as if I were close at hand.
39. Sometimes friends are closer than lovers, aren't they?
40. Jasper's little girl is afraid to climb your virtue, feels good about her husband and daughter, and is ashamed of her beauty.
4 1. I only like being short, poor and ugly. You are rich in Gao Shuai. Sorry, you are not up to the standard.
I think your tenderness is more suitable for other girls.
43. The teacher said: Don't quarrel with puppy love soon after the senior high school entrance examination, so as not to affect your mood; Don't confess without puppy love, lest rejection affect your mood.
Meeting you always reminds me of my childhood happiness. It feels like an aunt met her little brother. )
45. Sorry, I don't like you. Forget me.
46. It is easy to meet each other, but difficult to communicate. Two hearts are far apart, there is no need to disturb each other's safety.
47. Can I go to Thailand before going to Korea?
48. I have always regarded you as my brother or younger brother!
49. It feels good to be single, and I don't want to have a boyfriend for the time being.
50. I don't know my feelings yet, and I don't want to start a relationship accidentally.
Euphemistically refuse others' words
Euphemistically refuse others' words
First, our ages don't match. At first glance, you are definitely Jurassic.
Second, I have always regarded you as my brother. I just need your care, not your love.
Third, try to agree first. This may sound a bit contradictory, but you can think of it as a psychological war. You can agree to this request (suppose your situation is that you want to accept this job, but you don't have enough time at hand), and then do one of the following two things:
Fourth, I am lovelorn ~ ~
5. Understand your promises. In order to know when it is necessary to say no, you must know what you have done now. You must list all your current projects and tasks, and also list activities and tasks that do not belong to these projects in a week or so. With these two complete lists, you can decide whether the task at hand can be squeezed in. Keep this list safe and add entries only when necessary.
No matter which of the above two you choose, you have not flatly rejected them, but returned them with the initiative. I only say this when I really want this job, but I really can't live without it. This will help you solve the pressure brought by initiative, so that you don't have to really say "no".
Seven, girls often use euphemistic text messages when refusing love.
I have the opportunity to introduce you to a good girl ~
You are very kind ~ but I am not suitable for you ~
Or you can say: Sure, but can you do X, Y and Z first, so that we can see if it is feasible.
Eleven, one step ahead. If you think someone will ask you something, you can tell them that you are busy before they ask you. If you meet that person, you can talk first. I must let you know that my schedule is full this month, so let's not talk about any new plans for today. This is equivalent to giving a warning to people who will ask you for something, so they can't blame you for refusing their request afterwards.
It's not your fault, it's mine. (It's your fault)
I'd love to, but. Similar to the first method, this method shows that you are interested in the plan, but there is nothing you can do because of the schedule or other tasks. If the plan sounds really interesting, you can say something. If it sounds really great, I hope I can join in. If possible, you can recommend some other suitable candidates or feasible ideas. Some people actually think this rejection is not bad, at least you helped them solve the problem.
Be polite but firm. A common mistake many people make is that they are too good or too indecisive. They may refuse others, but their refusal sounds a little shaky. If you respond to others like this, there will be more powerful people to put pressure on you until you nod, because they think things are still negotiable. So if you want to refuse, you have to let others know clearly that you won't change your mind again. But don't be rude. A simple no, there is nothing I can do now.
Fifteen, my life is very complicated now. I don't want to see you talking and laughing with other girls in the office all day.
You can say: no problem, but I have a lot of tasks now. Can you come to see me again in a month or so? I won't be so sure unless I'm really good at it.
I already have a boyfriend. My male cat is cuter than you.
Eighteen, delay. Similar to the first method above, if you choose this method, you don't have to make a decision, nod or shake your head, just ask the person who invited you back. For example, you can say: My schedule is full now. Can you come back to me in two weeks? If this person is nice, he will add the fact that he will come to see you again in two weeks. If this person is not authentic, they must have forgotten you long ago. Sometimes if you procrastinate twice in a row, that person will give up. Of course, it is not good to procrastinate all the time, which will make others think that you have a personality problem. Generally, after two delays, when someone asks you for the third time, you should give a clear answer.
Nineteen, never say sorry. You should still cherish your time. If you apologize, it's like apologizing for doing something wrong, so your reasons for refusing are not sufficient. In this case, the word "I'm sorry" is very tempting. We often say "I'm sorry", but I wish I could help you, but I'm sorry I can't. In that case, it's because we feel uncomfortable after rejecting other people's things. However, it's still the same problem. In this way, you will send the wrong message to others. Reviewing the article can give you some help.
I don't want to date my colleagues. Even if you are outside the solar system, I won't date you.
Treasure your time. One reason why many people find it hard to refuse is that they (perhaps subconsciously) feel that their time is not as precious as others. For example, if someone asks you to do something that they can easily do, and you agree, it is equivalent to admitting that his time is more precious than yours. Why else would you do it for them? So, you should cherish your time. Your time is limited, it may be your most precious wealth. Learn to refuse things that don't require your knife, and tell others how much you cherish your time.
Tell him you are excellent, but I don't like men. I am gay.
Twenty-three, there is a way to help you deal with such problems and eliminate such troubles. This is a record-breaking method created by Dr. Fu Jie Mandel. This method tells you that as long as you are like a broken record, repeat the same sound over and over again.
Twenty-four, your three tricks: Secret 1: Listen first. When your colleagues ask you something inappropriate, they usually have some troubles or worries, fearing that you will refuse immediately and that you will give him a look. So, before you decide to refuse, you should first listen to his story. A better way is to ask the other person to explain the situation and needs more clearly, so that you know how to help him. Then let him know that you understand his difficulties. If you were in his position, you would certainly understand. Listening can make the other person feel respected first, and when you politely refuse, you can also avoid hurting his feelings or making people feel that you are coping. If your refusal is due to overwork, listening can make you clear whether the other person's request is your job and whether it is included in your current work focus. Maybe after listening to his advice carefully, you will find that helping him will help improve your working ability and experience. At this time, under the principle of taking into account the current work, sacrificing leisure time to help each other is absolutely helpful to the cause. Another advantage of listening is that although you turned him down, you can suggest how to get appropriate support according to his situation. If you can make effective suggestions or alternatives, the other party will appreciate you. Even if you find more suitable support under your guidance, you will get twice the result with half the effort. Tip 2: Say no gently and firmly. When you listen carefully to your colleague's request and feel that you should refuse, you must say no tactfully and firmly. For example, the same pills, sugar-coated drugs are easier for people to eat. Similarly, euphemistic refusal is less acceptable than direct refusal. For example, when the other party's requirements do not meet the requirements of the company or department, you should euphemistically express your work authority to let the other party know, and imply that if he helps this, it is beyond his work scope and violates the relevant regulations of the company. On the premise that his work is full and he can't help, let him know his work order, and imply that if you help him, it will delay his ongoing work and have a great impact on the company and himself. Generally speaking, when colleagues hear you say this, they will definitely back down and think of other ways. Tip 3: Be more concerned and flexible. When you refuse, you can not only put forward alternative suggestions, but also take the initiative to care about each other's situation every once in a while. Sometimes refusal is a long process, and the other party will make the same request from time to time. If we can change passivity into active concern for each other and let them know their difficulties and positions, we can reduce the embarrassment and influence of rejection. When the situation of both sides improves, it is possible to meet each other's requirements. This proactive skill is more important for business people, for example, when the insurance industry can't meet the requirements of customers.
Excerpts from sentences that politely refuse others' confession in public (50)
I am not fit to be a lover.
If you seduce me like this, I will have more than one man.
Don't use youth to plant seedlings upside down. Where does love smell like rice?
I think it's good to be single, and I don't want to have a boyfriend for the time being.
If only we had known each other earlier. (Maybe you will wake up earlier)
6. You are a good person. But I'm a bad person, so you'd better stay away from me.
7. Sorry, I'm not the gummy bear you asked for.
I hope you find someone who cherishes you more than I do.
I don't think I can give you what you want.
10. I feel your sincerity, thank you for your sincerity.
1 1. There are three thousand beauties in my harem. Are you waiting in line?
What do you like about me? I will change it. You are not my type.
13. Sorry, I have never been in love, and I don't intend to.
14. Thank you for your love. I received your kindness, but I don't think that way about you. I'm sorry and I wish you a better girl in the future.
15. The purest feeling: You are like a sister in my heart!
16. However, this is really strange. You ugly bastard, you want to eat swan meat so strangely.
17. I have always regarded you as my brother.
Sentences that politely refuse others' confession in public (Chapter II) 18. I can't force my feelings. I have my own things to do. Forgive me for not agreeing to accompany you.
19. I know. Go back and wait for the notice.
20. Push me again and I'll show you my makeup!
2 1. I'll introduce you to a good girl sometime.
22. Sometimes friends are closer than lovers, aren't they?
23. I only like myself.
24. Reasons for refusal: Now is not the time to talk about this. In that case, let's talk about it in a few years.
25. Jasper's little girl is afraid to climb your virtue, feels good about her husband and daughter, and is ashamed of her beauty.
26. I like you too. I just liked you before, but I won't like you anymore. Men should be free and easy.
27. Why do you like me? I am neither excellent nor excellent. You are brave and deserve to be with better people.
28. Know too little about each other.
29. You embarrassed me. I can't force myself to say the answer I don't want to say.
You will meet better people than me in the future, and I can't compare with them.
3 1. What do I care?
32. I haven't fully determined my feelings, and I don't want to start a relationship hastily.
I don't want to hurt our friendship. There is only friendship between us forever.
I am a bad boy, and you are a good girl.
File it now, and then read the document for discussion when you are free.
36. The epidemic situation is not easy to talk about the importance of children and state affairs.
37. There is a person in my heart. That man is what I use to stop people like you.
I am very happy to be with you, but I always regard you as my friend.
There is nothing special about my type.
40. I think we are more suitable to be friends!
4 1. I have someone I like, and I may not, but I don't have that idea, so I can't.
42. The heart belongs, but it's not you.
43. Sorry, I don't know you. Get out of the way, okay?
44. You like me and I like others, so you can only like others.
45. You are like a sister in my heart.
46. The coldest thing: I don't think we are suitable for each other. Let's be friends!
47. My mother won't let me hurt others.
48. It is illegal for fairies to fall in love with mortals.
49. We are only fit to be brothers.
50. You even value me. What else can't I do?