A great person has two hearts: one heart bleeds; the other heart is forgiving. -- Kahlil Gibran
Those who cannot tolerate others do not deserve the tolerance of others. ——Bernay
Treat others with the spring breeze and treat yourself with the cold wind.
Be generous with others, but be generous with yourself; be generous with yourself, and be generous with others.
It is large enough to accommodate the masses, and virtuous enough to hold a long distance. "Huainanzi"
Da: magnanimous and broad-minded. Huaiyuan: Comfort those far away.
Five mountains stand on the ground, one pillar holds up the sky, the air presses the heaven and earth, and contains the universe.
Describe the image as tall, broad-minded, and heroic.
Cao is as bright as frost and snow, and his measurement is as wide as rivers and seas.
Cao: integrity, virtue. Quantity: measure. Describes high integrity and broad mind.
A gentleman's capacity is limited, and his chest swallows hundreds of rivers.
Tang Dynasty 6.1 Meng Jiao's "Gift to Pei Shuduangong" is not extremely: boundless. Extreme, the end. Swallow: accept. Describes the magnanimity of a gentleman.
The spirit of a gentleman's vastness is not as great as that of his greatness, and the spirit of complacency of a villain is not greater than that of his smallness.
Xue Xuan, Ming Dynasty 6.1 "Book of Readings 6.1 Gentleman 6.1 Villain" The awe-inspiring spirit: the spirit of uprightness and uprightness. Complacency: Arrogance and arrogance. Sheng (shēng): to win. A gentleman has a big spirit, while a villain has a little spirit.
Human beings need tolerance, but there will be no tolerance for laziness, ignorance, and selfishness! Personal intolerance does not create prisons and has no executioners; but official intolerance, once it gets angry, can kill innocent people and never do anything to make amends.
Tolerance is like freedom. You can’t get it just by begging. You can only have it by always being vigilant. Wang Guozhen "Tolerance and Meanness"
Compared with tolerance and meanness, I choose tolerance. Because what is lost by tolerance is only the past, but what is lost by being harsh is the future.
A person who does not understand tolerance will lose the respect of others, and a person who is blindly tolerant will lose his own dignity.
We should be ashamed of ourselves when we treat others tolerantly; we should know self-discipline when we treat others tolerantly.
Tolerant people make others happy and themselves happy; mean people make others suffer and feel uncomfortable themselves.
If others are already intolerant, don’t beg for tolerance. The tolerance obtained through begging is never true tolerance.
If you still want to be tolerant to others, don't wait for others to beg. Remember the old saying: Giving is always more pleasant than giving.
Only brave people know how to be tolerant; a coward will never be tolerant, it is not his nature. Stern
There are many occasions in life when what you intend to achieve with resentment may be achieved through forgiveness. (Sidney? 6? 1 Smith)
Broadness helps with strength, strength with strength helps with width, width with strength helps with strength. ("Zuo Zhuan")
Rebuke yourself with the same heart as you blame others, and forgive others with the same heart as you have forgiven yourself.
Try to forgive others, but never forgive yourself. (Silas)
You must let go when you have to, and be merciful when you have to.
If others are not as good as others, you should not be able to treat them yourself. (Ming? 6? 1 Xue Xuan)
People should tolerate each other: everyone has weaknesses, and in his weakest aspect, everyone can be cut and mashed. (Keats)
The vision should be broad, and one should travel through famous mountains and rivers; the measurement should be broad, and one should be familiar with the Five Classics and all histories. (Qing Dynasty? 6? 1 Jinying)
Measurement is like the sea containing spring growth, and it should be connected like flowing water and clouds. (Qing Dynasty? 6? 1 Jinying)
Being harmonious to others, being lenient to others, and being forgiving to others is a gentleman. (Song Dynasty? 6?1 Lin Bu)
I raise my eyes and look around at the vastness of the universe. I can climb the sun, moon, stars and morning. (Song Dynasty 6 1 Su Shi)