Mr. Lao She said that we should look at ourselves pessimistically. There is nothing wrong with pessimism. Pessimism can help us see ourselves more clearly. If we think of ourselves lower than others, we are all secondary and objective to others, so that we can be more calm when facing some things that happen to us.

Don’t get too close to each other

Except for family and loved ones, don’t get too close to other people. Even if it’s between the sexes, don’t overestimate yourself. place in his mind. People have their own shortcomings, and no one can compare with themselves. Always take yourself seriously first, and then treat others. When getting along with friends, we must believe that the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and there are some things that cannot be overcome. Don’t think too highly of yourself. We are just ordinary people. To others, we have our own relatives and close lovers. We are just ordinary friends. When it comes to issues involving some interests, he may be the first. Those who will give up are ordinary friends, so we should not think too highly of ourselves and should not be too close when we get along. In this day and age, anyone can live without anyone, so you have to look at your position pessimistically

If you want to occupy that position in someone else’s home, you have to keep working hard, be yourself, improve yourself, yourself If you work hard and are excellent, others will take you seriously. On the other hand, your status in the hearts of others may not only be labeled by others in the past, but also called you lazy or unwilling to make progress. If we underestimate ourselves, our position in others' hearts will be better than if we overestimate our position. If you don’t want to let yourself down too much, then don’t have too much hope. This will prevent your disappointment from being greater than your hopes, which will leave you with a big gap in your heart. Try to get along well with each other. No matter what kind of emotional management is in place, others will also value you. Instead of overestimating your position in the minds of others from your own perspective, the fantasy will always be the one that kills us. A sharp knife.

If you are in full bloom and butterflies come, if you are wonderful and peaceful, all your efforts are to make tomorrow more brilliant and brilliant. If you want others to care about you, you have to find ways to make yourself look like others care about you.