Li Lou: Heaven; If you think sincerely, you will learn from others. Those who are sincere and motionless are not there; If you are dishonest, you will not be able to move.

Mencius talks about interpersonal relationships in the workplace.

Mencius said, "If the position is low, you can't get it, and the people can't get it." . There is a saying in the world: if you don't trust your friends, you will win the world. Believe in friends, there is a saying that if you are close to your friends, you will be happy and you will trust your friends. There is a saying that insincerity makes kissing unhappy. There is an honest way: if you don't know what is good, you won't be honest. Therefore, sincere people, heaven also; If you think sincerely, you will learn from others. Those who are sincere and motionless are not there; If you are dishonest, there will be no porters. "

Mencius said: "As a low-level manager, you can't effectively manage your subordinates if you don't have the ability to be recognized and appreciated by the leaders above.". There is a way to get the recognition and appreciation of the leaders above. The solution is that you should be an honest person first. If you can't be honest with your friends, the leader won't trust you. There is another way to be honest with your friends. The solution is that you should be filial to your parents first. If a person is not filial to his parents, he cannot be loyal to his friends. There is also a way to be filial to parents. The way is sincere, not sincere. That's false deception. False deception will hurt parents' hearts. How to be sincere and honest without cheating? There's another way. The way is that you must understand good and evil, and if you don't understand the cause and effect of good and evil, you will give up on yourself or yourself. "

"So, from leaders to friends, from friends to parents, from parents to their own attitudes, the root of all this is a kind of goodwill. You should know that kind people are sincere. Honesty is the sky and the standard of being a man. If you are kind and honest, you can't impress people, and you can't be recognized and appreciated. I tell you this is impossible. "

This analysis of interpersonal relationship between life and workplace is very specific. The truth of the problem was stripped off layer by layer. People who can't get the approval of their leaders will not be too good to their friends. Which leader doesn't like sincere and kind people, and people who don't have close friends around them are basically bad for their parents. Who wants to be friends with a baiwenhang? It's not good if you don't show filial piety to your parents. Is it a big day and place, and is there great kindness from their parents? Ungrateful, ungrateful guy won't make any progress.

Mencius' statement is the same as that in "University", that is, if you want to level the world, you must rule it. If you want to govern the country well, you must settle your family and your body well. Everyone knows the famous saying "University", but few people know it. It's only the second half. It also has the first half sentence. The first half of the sentence is "knowing the truth and being sincere", that is to say, how to repair the body? First of all, be sincere, upright and correct. How to cultivate that mentality? To learn from things, learning from things means cutting off selfishness.

Just like that, everything has principles and roots, and it starts small and grows bigger. We should look at the essence through the phenomenon and find the root cause. Step by step, if there is still a pillar missing before the building is completed, it can be capped directly. Isn't this an overwhelming victory?

Sincerity is the foundation of the relationship between life and workplace.

Honesty can win the world.