In a person's life, there will always be many storms. For example, learn to do one thing, understand one thing, know one thing and so on. However, I have some such experiences. After experiencing some things, I understand a noble quality of human beings-forgiveness.

It was a Saturday morning, because my parents were at work and my cousin came to my house. I looked at him with a schoolbag in his hand and said to him, "Sit there and do your homework." He shook his head and started chatting with me about online games. Suddenly, he saw a small red box on my desk. He took it off himself and said to me, "Cousin, what's in it?" I immediately grabbed the box, opened it, pointed to the card inside and said, "These are some recharge cards I collected." He nodded, and suddenly, like discovering a new continent, he took out two prepaid cards inside and said, "Huh? Why haven't you recharged it yet? " I disagreed and said, "So what?" His eyes flashed sly, and he said with a cheeky smile, "Cousin, why don't you give me these two cards?" I flatly refused and said, "Don't think I don't know your purpose, forget it!" " He bowed his head in disappointment, so he left my room and began to do his homework.

In the afternoon, a "hoo" came. I took the tutorial package and said to my cousin, "Do your homework well, don't come into my room casually, and don't mess with my computer!" " He didn't look up at his homework, as if he had a deep hatred with me. I left home and started my "tutorial journey" ... At my tutor's house, I kept thinking about those two recharge cards, for fear that they would disappear. Finally, after cramming for an afternoon, I ran home quickly. Sure enough, as I expected, my cousin was playing with the computer and drinking with relish ... I ran into the room quickly, and he stood up like a mouse when he saw a cat and immediately gave me his seat. At night, he was finally taken home by my third aunt, and I finally put my hanging heart down. However, it didn't take long for my anger to burn: my cousin really charged my recharge card! I told my mother, and my mother immediately called my third aunt and started talking about it. Dad found out and sent a serious warning to my cousin. I was still very angry and thought: how can there be such relatives? How uncultured! After a night of tossing, I sulked and sent him an email from the Internet, hoping he could give me a complete explanation. ...

A few days later, we had dinner together again. I ignored him as if I didn't know him. My mother looked at me for a long time, and finally pulled me into the room and began to make a long speech: "Tingting, I know you are angry that your recharge card was wasted." But, you have to think about it. Didn't he apologize to you afterwards? If that's all you're arguing about, you're actually wrong. It was wrong for him to deduct your recharge card, but he later corrected such a mistake. You lost your temper over this incident, and it was you who made the most mistakes, not others. We are relatives, and we will have a support when we grow up. I hope you can control your emotions and stop being so awkward. You must learn tolerance and forgiveness. Instead of being stingy because of a little thing, understand? "I paused, listen to my mother, I finally understand. I walked up to my cousin, smiled brightly and said, "Let's make up!" " "Cousin paused and smiled. The room was filled with happy laughter. ...

Look, forgiveness is so simple. As long as everyone's heart is a little wider, tolerance will naturally live in your heart ... This seemingly simple thing is dissolved in the words of forgiveness and tolerance, and an unpleasant thing is painted with a satisfactory sentence because of forgiveness. ...

There is a fable about two horses walking together. One bit the other's neck, but the bitten one comforted the horse who was ashamed of biting himself. Although the story is small, it reveals the touching character between heaven and earth, that is tolerance.

In the fable, the tolerance of animals is good for evil, while in Buddhism, the tolerance of Maitreya is "the stomach can hold the world". How to understand tolerance in our real life? In fact, tolerance is a realm.

Tolerance is like water.

The usual "tolerance" means forgiving others' temporary mistakes, not haggling over every ounce, not complaining about others, and being a generous person in a friendly way. Tolerance is like water, and encountering contradictions is often more effective than excessive retaliation. It is like a clear spring, slowly erasing the temporary hostility of the other party, making people calm down, so as to see the original reason of the matter clearly. At the same time, I also saw myself clearly. The bitten horse in the fable rationally chose tolerance, and finally they made up. Imagine, if it is tit-for-tat, what can be brought about by fighting back at each other in the same way, in addition to both losses and cross the rubicon? Therefore, it can be said that the legendary national horse is actually very wise. Its wisdom lies in "returning evil with good".

Tolerance is like fire.

Because a higher level of tolerance not only means not caring about personal gains and losses, but also means warming others' hearts with your love and sincerity. It is rare to be calm as water; The bearing of giving charcoal in the snow is more valuable and moving. From the fable, we can see that the horse that made the mistake has realized its absurdity and felt ashamed. At this time, the tolerance and comfort embodied by the bitten horse is like a flame, bright and warm. Tolerance can not only melt each other's freezing, but also radiate the heat of love to each other's hearts. In that era, which was criticized by some people as "materialism", what people with shrinking space from bottom to top lacked was not the tolerance between the two horses. If you choose tolerance, you choose understanding and warmth, and you choose the vastness of life.

Tolerance is poetry.

Tolerance is a poem of life. The highest tolerance is not only manifested in the handling of an event in daily life, but sublimated into a kind of mind for the universe and a poetic tolerance for life. The meaning of tolerance is not limited to people's understanding and care, but the generosity and fraternity of the heart to all life between heaven and earth. The legendary horse can't reach this realm, but this realm is so real and profound for human beings.

Those who are worried about the dullness and misfortune of life, please choose tolerance. This does not harm your dignity at all, but helps people to cross mediocrity in the long river of life. With the ideological realm of tolerance, we can understand the true meaning of life, and tolerance is also an art of life.

Of course, there is no contradiction between tolerance and "being strict with yourself and being lenient with others". Forgiving yourself easily is not tolerance, but cowardice. "Treat people in an all-round way" depends first on the object. Tolerance does not cherish tolerant people, which is promiscuous; Tolerance to those who are not worthy of tolerance is tolerance; It is indulgence to tolerate unforgivable and immoral people. Therefore, tolerance itself is also a kind of knowledge of life.

On the road of our life, it is not as simple as two horses. Life is often complicated and often boring. It is precisely because tolerance is like water that complicated things become pure after filtering; It is because tolerance is like fire that insipid becomes more and more distinct through calcination; It is precisely because of this poetic tolerance that life is endowed with art and eternity.

1. Tolerance

Learning to be tolerant of others is learning to be kind to yourself. Resentment can only keep our hearts in darkness forever; However, tolerance can liberate our hearts.

It was an ordinary autumn. I wore a new pair of white sweatpants from my mother and went to school in high spirits. At school, many teachers and classmates praised me for my white pants. I'm very proud. I feel very chic today.

That day, there happened to be physical education class. I was so excited that I didn't even care that I was wearing white pants, so I started playing. I was playing basketball with some girls when suddenly a figure jumped out. I passed the ball without seeing it clearly. Just at that moment, Qiu hit his clothes impartially. When I looked intently, the unfriendly classmate left a black mark on his light blue shirt. I quickly apologized, but he flew into a rage and kicked my leg. Look at my white trousers, and they have left two deep footprints. In the past, I would pay him back, but this time I calmed down unexpectedly. I don't know what suppressed my anger, but I continued to play ball ... After school, my classmates went home one after another. This is when I found a classmate anxiously looking for something. I walked over enthusiastically, and when I saw it, it was the classmate who kicked my pants. I turned to go, but I thought: Why? Just help him find it together and embarrass him. When I reached out to help enthusiastically, I was greeted by that classmate's grateful smile, and my heart was full of warmth and happiness.

I remember another time, just after class, two junior high school students who came to primary school bumped into me. I only heard them swearing: "You are looking for a fight!" When I heard this, my face turned red with anger: it's outrageous that you should be so righteous when you obviously hit me. I was about to get angry, but I thought, forget it! Forget it. I smiled and said, "I'm sorry!" "You see that unreasonable middle school student, who is also ashamed at the moment, walked slowly. I also do it one brace up, tolerance can change human nature!

When one foot steps on the petals of a violet, he leaves the fragrance on that foot, which is tolerance. A mental patient broke into a house in the mood for love and shot his three daughters, but he still cured the mental patient. This is also tolerance. If a person chooses to care, he will spend the rest of his life in darkness; And if a person chooses tolerance, then he can shed sunshine on the earth. There is an old saying: "If you know your mistake, you will change it. There is no benefit at all. " In that case, why not tolerate a person's unintentional loss? When our hearts choose tolerance for ourselves, we get what we deserve, because we put down the burden, and we should give our friends or enemies a sweet smile. Tolerance can make friends. When you can tolerate other people's mistakes with an open mind, you will naturally have more friends. Let's be more tolerant, make life more relaxed and happy, and make more friends.

Forgiving others means liberating yourself and keeping your mind pure.

Learn to be tolerant

Tolerance is a kind of accomplishment, a quality and a virtue. Tolerance is not cowardice, but generosity. Be tolerant, but also learn to be tolerant.

In history, there was a minister named Lin Xiangru, whose official position climbed all the way because of his meritorious escort, which aroused the jealousy and dissatisfaction of General Lian Po and turned against Lin Xiangru everywhere. But in the face of Lian Po's unreasonable troubles, Lin Xiangru just laughed it off and avoided it, so there was a story of "offering a humble apology". Lian Po was deeply ashamed of Lin Xiangru's generosity. Since then, the two have joined hands to help Zhao. Therefore, learning to be tolerant is good for both people and themselves.

On the other hand, people who are good at jealousy in history complain about others when they encounter a little dissatisfaction. No matter how good their knowledge is, it is difficult for these people to achieve great things. Zhou Yu is an outstanding strategist, with outstanding talent and resourcefulness, who managed the huge Soochow Navy in an orderly way. But when he learned about Zhuge Liang's coup, he knew that he was not as good as Zhuge Liang, but he was not willing to lose. So he spent all day thinking about how to win Zhuge Liang, issued a lament of "He Sheng Liang Chu", and finally died of vomiting blood. Oh, why bother! If Zhou can be as tolerant as Lin Xiangru, I think his ending will never be like this!

In life, we will inevitably have friction with others. When someone accidentally steps on you, you should wave and say it doesn't matter. When someone breaks your things and apologizes to you, you should also smile with tolerance. Life is so short and hurried, why waste every day on these unnecessary frictions? The world is so vast, and what is broader than the world should be the human heart!

Learn to be tolerant If we can be tolerant, then our life will become more harmonious and beautiful!

Tolerance 3

Before I begin my speech, I want to tell you one thing: I really feel guilty about losing my classmate Wang Chunwei's pencil box two days ago. I didn't apologize then. I think Wang Chunwei is angry and will have ideas. But strangely, he laughed and laughed with me, but he also blamed me for telling me about the loss of his pencil box, but the friendship between classmates was great. This pencil box is not worth it, what's more, I didn't mean it.

I am very grateful to my classmate Wang Chunwei for forgiving me. Think more about the entanglements in life, think more about each other and understand others' mistakes. You have also taken a tolerant step.

There is a famous saying: "The sky is wider than the sky, and people's minds are wider than the sky." Ears seem to hear calluses, but it is often only in language that giants act. How many people in the dwarf's life have the courage to breathe all the rivers?

I once told someone that a noble family taught girls to take a taxi together. The driver took the wrong route, so she looked at the driver nervously. I'm confused. Maybe I'm not as gentle as her in social situations. However, at the moment when the driver repeatedly apologized, I just said from the bottom of my heart: "Never mind". Maybe I'm not familiar with the terrain. Maybe I accidentally drove at the wrong intersection. In short, work and driving are just like work and study. I lost points on the test paper, but it took a lot of effort to ask ordinary taxi drivers. Why do you think it is the worst?

It can be seen that tolerance is just a simple word, but after all, it is different from the category of "laughing without showing your teeth". You can train endurance in a short time. You must understand others with your heart and learn to put yourself in your own heart.

As I said just now, understanding is only a step of tolerance. What about tolerance in a deeper sense? Always have to deal with people you don't like, and often say "I don't like people" because you don't get along with someone, and you often don't get along in character. I think sometimes people are accommodating each other's personality or doing things, but think about whose fault personality is. Perhaps the only question about who is right or wrong is whether there is room for people around you. Simply asking others to cater to what you are used to, then selfishness and autocracy will get in the way. You learn to say, "I'm not used to people, but I also have the right to choose." Then you will get out of tolerance.

But the most difficult state of tolerance is to allow others to be better than themselves. People will ask, "Tolerance allows only the shortcomings of others at most, and allows things different from yourself to be related to the advantages of others."

In fact, the last line of defense is the weakest-jealousy is so good? Better than me? You're right. So, like many people, you have a prescription for pinkeye. Yeah.-Tolerance. Imagine that those people above you in the world have gained countless things. How can it be compared? I'm one step ahead of you, people should respect you, narrow-minded people can't tolerate being better than you, and people can only respect you in their hearts, so you will always surpass others and yourself.

Tolerance is indeed necessary, but blindly tolerance loses its principle and slips from tolerance to connivance. So how should the boundary between "tolerance" and "connivance" be divided? When not, everything is self-evident; But in some cases, it is extremely difficult to grasp the "tolerance" section of this great book, which is still not easy!

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