1. At a certain age, you must throw away four things: meaningless wine, people who don't love you, people who look down on your relatives, and hypocritical "friends", but at the same time, you must have four things: self-confidence on your face, kindness in your heart, backbone in your blood, and power engraved in your life.

2. KFC never scolds McDonald's, and McDonald's never talks about KFC, so both of them have become the world's top 500; Mercedes-Benz never denigrated BMW, and BMW never denigrated Mercedes-Benz. Both of them became famous cars. Therefore, we don't need to slander others or defend ourselves. When people are alive, shine their own light, and don't blow out others' light!

3. You are lucky to have someone to help you; It's a just fate that no one helps you. No one should do anything for you, because life is your own and you are responsible for yourself.

Learn to be calm when talking to people. Even if you are angry, don't shout, because your loud voice can't make things better except disturbing your thoughts. Hysterical shouting can't conquer others, it will only make you lose your mind in madness.

People's feelings are sometimes like sweaters. You should be careful when knitting. Just pull it gently when you open it, maybe it's just a joke, maybe it's an unintentional misunderstanding, and all the feelings will never be seen again! There are not many friends, but you are in the storm; No matter how long you have been in love, it is important to be responsive.

6. People have two ways to go, one is necessary and the other is desirable. You must take the path you have to take beautifully in order to take the path you want to take.

7. Do useful things, say brave words, think beautiful things, sleep soundly, and spend time on progress instead of complaining.

8. Water is clear, not because it contains no impurities, but because it knows how to precipitate; The permeability of the heart is not because there are no distractions, but because you understand the choice.

9. Talk less about complaining and more about tolerance. Complaining brings resentment, and tolerance is wisdom. Forgive others more, be kind to yourself, respect others more, and be solemn.

10. A person's maturity is not reflected in how many achievements he has made, but in the face of people and things he hates, he does not cater to them, does not contradict them, and just smiles indifferently. When the heart can accommodate a lot of things that you don't like, this is called aura.

1 1. There are many things in life that you don't want to do but can't help doing. This is responsibility; There are many things in life that you want to do but can't do. This is destiny.

12. In fact, nothing can't be let go. As time goes by, when you look back on the past, you will find that what you thought you couldn't let go was just a springboard in your life, allowing you to grow.

13. Wise people think positively in everything and think about happy things with joy, which naturally leads to a happy life; Stupid people always think the worst of everything, and the more they think, the more bitter they get, and eventually they become a troubled life.

14. It is normal to be misunderstood, even by the closest people. Don't always expect others to think with you, after all, yet I feel the harmonious heart-beat of the Sacred Unicorn. When there is a contradiction, you might as well laugh it off, believing that time is the best running-in agent.

15. Pain is comparative, and happiness is cherished. The more we care, the more unbalanced our psychology is, the more troubles we have, and the more restless we become.

16. A person's quality is good or bad, his temper reveals his accomplishment, and his silence reveals his taste. One's greatest achievement is to know others without judging them.

17. People are alive, not all grievances need to be told to everyone, and no one can feel your pain, so don't always use your own experience to win the sympathy of others, but learn to use your own experience to win the respect of others.

18. Complaining is a kind of negative energy, just like shooting yourself in the foot, which is bad for others, bad for yourself and useless.

19. On the road of life, there is one road that everyone must take, and that is the detour when he is young. How can you grow up without tripping, hitting the wall or breaking your head?

20. Human nature has weaknesses. The more you care about something, the more it tortures you. When you are no longer afraid of your hands and feet, when you summon up courage and make up your mind to be loyal to yourself, every day will be the best.