Since the women's liberation movement, women have shown great value in all social strata through their knowledge and ability, which really holds up half the sky. However, the emancipation of the mind has also caused more and more women to become the remaining fighters in marriage. So what is the experience and feeling of a woman who has been single for a long time? Many female friends will say: I am single by strength, and I am proud and confident. Indeed, a woman who has been single for a long time has forgotten what it feels like to be dependent. If the light bulb is broken, change it yourself; Repair the broken water pipe by yourself; I went to the hospital when I was sick ... I was used to solving everything by myself, even including hiding my emotions, and thought it was a kind of melodrama to expose my vulnerability to others. Gradually became a "little superman". When a woman becomes strong and excellent enough, she will feel that she no longer needs a man. What is the truth?

The following are excerpts of some female netizens' experiences and feelings about being single for a long time:

Sunshine BY: Living like a female warrior, fighting all kinds of difficulties, shouldering everything by herself, unable to resist hard, not easily asking others for help, and being able to solve almost all problems by herself. Don't want to fall in love. Dinner, movies, shopping, traveling, etc. can be done with Laotie, and it is extremely comfortable. Don't worry about whether a person will be back, what he is doing and what he is thinking. You can have a walk-and-go play, and you can be happy by yourself. Have more time to read more books, learn more skills, improve my ability and meet all kinds of people. Pursue your ideals more recklessly and strive to realize your inner thoughts. I feel that a person is also very good, great, comfortable and happy. < P > Li Bai, a fairy, said: 1. Changing sheets and quilt covers is always done by one person. 2. When watching a movie, I hope someone will sit in the empty seat next to me, so that no one will notice that I am single. 3. I have never enjoyed the second half price, and one person can't eat two. 4. Never eating in a crowded restaurant at the meal point often means to spell the table. 5. I don't travel with a group alone, but I have to pay more for an order for a single person ... < P > Pan Jinlian, who sells baked wheat cakes: I was walking alone in the street at night, and I thought shamelessly, "If only a handsome guy could jump out of the roadside and molest me!" I can pester him, hold him responsible, and then marry me ... "

_ Huang Qiting: As a senior single dog. When you see this topic. The terrible thing is to think for a long time. I find that I really don't feel anything. You are used to the life of this single dog. Worried about the habit of being disturbed

terry sleeps: Sometimes I think anyone can do it, but when someone is really chasing me, I don't want to make do with it ... I am used to it alone ...

Mr. He Sen: My best friend always thinks I like her, and sometimes I think it may be true.

I'm a rice noodle girl: when I put dumplings, they stick together, so I have to separate them with a shovel.

Nuoyi is so cute that she says everything is right: Tell the truth. Now when I see couples quarreling, I feel that they are showing love, and that all the second cups are half-price cruelty to dogs.

thank you Say_: I envy my lovers occasionally, and I am glad to be free occasionally.

Silent: I've been single for a long time. Today, a boy touched my hand on the bus, and I even thought about where my children go to school.

Maruko: I really want to have sex, but someone really confessed, but I rationally refused. I can't fall in love because of sex.

In fact, being single for a long time doesn't really mean that many women don't need to fall in love and get married. It's just that they have a strong discriminating ability and a high vision. Without emotional entanglements, they are naturally more sober and calm, and they demand more and more from their other half. Those means of deceiving little girls can't escape her eyes at all. Most girls fall in love and seek romance for a sense of security, but women who can be single for so long must have practiced. Because of becoming a female man, I will unconsciously enlarge the slightest fault in a man, which is unbearable. So over time, I am not used to getting along with men, or I am more comfortable alone.

It is a common problem for every single woman to avoid socializing while longing for love, because their preset alarm bells make them more and more cautious about love. What she wants is not only the man himself, but the harmony between heart and mind is the same as the concept. She is not afraid of not having a man, because she is full of infinite power, and she can go on the road of the future alone and make herself more radiant. But there will still be a hope in her heart, longing to meet the long-awaited person around the corner and meet each other again.

Love is a science. If you don't want to be single all your life, you should learn to make some changes. Don't be too smart when dealing with men. As long as he is not bad in nature, you might as well pretend to be stupid, show more weakness at ordinary times, and remember not to do everything by yourself, which will definitely make men have no presence around you. It is only when men are faced with weak women that they will burst into a desire for protection. Therefore, the real cleverness is actually a foolish man. It is said that men conquer the world and women conquer men. A truly excellent woman can control not only her own life but also men.