What kind of man can't marry?
As the saying goes, "Men are afraid of going into the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man". Modern women are economically independent, and getting married is no longer to find a "meal ticket for life", but for modern women who have a higher pursuit of quality of life and emotional life, it is more important to get married correctly. In the face of all the men, it is inevitable to look at the flowers in the fog. When you are looking at the moon in the water, once you are mistaken, you will marry an inhuman person. Even if you turn around, you will inevitably waste your youth and empty your feelings, and you will lose your blood. In this way, I would like to find gold in the sand with my care, responsibility and patience in choosing clothes. There is a famous saying: "Good men are the same, but bad men have their own disadvantages", but there are six kinds of bad men who are absolutely forbidden to marry-this is not the words of a concerned family, but after consulting the experience of many love experts and listening to a lot of lessons from bitter enemies, it is deeply discussed and carefully summarized. In order to make it clear and eye-catching, let's use six kinds of animals as metaphors for the time being. Please forgive those who love animals for infringing on their reputation. There are two kinds of differences in the wild dog type. One is to love beauty. Before you, he had many romances. Even when he was madly in love with you, he was still entangled with new friends and old friends. He was always proud and relished his romances. "Color" is his opium, and he is your opium-such a man is often charming and affectionate, and all the women who are fascinated by him think that they will be his "only eternal romantic love story", and finally become a "sad sister" and regret "falling in love with someone who doesn't go home". The other type of wild dog is a man with a friendship knot. His happy thing is to get together with his friends, and he is always on call to his friends, going through fire and water, and never hesitating. Falling in love with you is just an amateur life, and this amateur life will soon become a group activity-he chooses the place where his friends meet, and they are drinking beer and talking about topics that you can't get in touch with, and they have long forgotten you. Unfortunately, if you marry such a man, you will find that your home has become a post station for him and his friends. He must play exhausted every day before going home. When he recovers, he goes out to find friends. He will bring his friends back to surprise you after a few days of disappearance, for example, he will bring eight or nine friends back in the evening and ask you to cook for them if you have nowhere to buy food. Snail type he is very honest, like Liu Xiahui near-re-embodiment to you; He is 1% steady, and the sky is still unhurried; He is so deep, he refuses to say a word about big and small issues, and his emotions are invisible-this kind of gentleman is the easiest to make an outstanding woman capsize in a small river ditch after a big storm in love. You will find that you have married a man who doesn't know his depth at all. He is either a genius or a person with "physical and mental defects"-"Liu Xiahui" may not really sit still, but has a "unspeakable secret" that can't be ignored. The sky is falling, and his face doesn't change color and his heart doesn't jump because he is heartless, insensitive and indifferent to everything outside himself; As for his reticence and deadpan, it's just that he lacks enthusiasm and spirituality for life, and his nature is withdrawn and indifferent. Living with such people, you can't get clean and quiet, let alone happy life, only boring, sad and boring. A man like a stubborn donkey is very "character". He sticks to his principles no matter how big or small, and sticks to his usual way of doing things and refuses to bend. He can neither stretch nor bend at the crucial moment. Living with him, there is no room for discussion about big things. Only when you compromise, there is no time for him to change, and you are often serious and follow the rules, so boring that you are crazy and aggrieved and can't communicate with him. The hero in the movie "The Sound of Music" is this kind of man. He manages the children militarily, but in the end, he is transformed by a lively, enthusiastic and relaxed tutor. After all, the movie is a movie, so don't take such risks easily in life, unless you are a very "old-fashioned" person who can completely "marry the chicken" and has no interest. Lion-roaring type This is a kind of man who is self-centered. His words are the law. If he disobeys a little, he will be furious, or he will yell at you for a little thing. Such a man has at least three fatal defects: short temper, narrow mind and lack of self-cultivation. Men who are capable or not are likely to suffer from this kind of "barking disease", and even some men are kind to outsiders, which is another kind of face for their lovers or old women, because their root cause is the male chauvinism that has long been moldy. This is the kind of person who is most likely to create domestic violence, so it must be reminded that if any man will beat you before marriage, no matter how he cries and swears to love you afterwards, don't marry him, because beating people is always a matter of two. The lone wolf type can be divided into two types, one is the wolf born and the other is the wolf after China's entry into WTO. Chyi Chin's masterpiece "Wolf in the North", which was all the rage a few years ago, is a classic portrayal of the wolf born. They often appear as prodigals with no trace of idleness, arrogance, scars and talents. Or pride wins, binge drinking and singing; Or melancholy and sentimental, sitting alone in the corner. Romantic girls full of fantasy are easily confused by this kind of man, and even think that they are his savior, can heal his wounds, and can wander with him if they really can't. In fact, if he is a real prodigal son, the house can't shut the fence that can only make him bored. Why should you marry him? Just be his confidante, both sides have a detachment and freedom. I'm afraid that he is a master who is less than half a bottle. He is arrogant and arrogant without real skills. Everything about him is a deliberate melodramatic and unintentional cover-up. The result of your "passion for jade" is that you find yourself married to a "baiwenhang". Not only do you have to earn money to support him and take care of him in life, but you also have to put up with his various "prodigal" temper and "frustrated" domineering-because he can neither lead a normal life seriously nor be chic. As for the "wolf" after China's entry into WTO, in today's commodity society, which advocates "men's ability is charm", it has a wider scope and greater lethality to women. Because on the surface, they are all "very capable" people. But they are ruthless, and they can use any means to achieve their goals without being ashamed-you have to be careful that you will be thrown at the gambling table as a chip one day. Many of them are workaholics, but what he loves is not his job, but the fame and benefits he gets from it. For this reason, he has devoted all his heart and time-maybe he can give you everything except his feelings. Without feelings, everything you get from him is empty and unreliable, because he can take it away at any time and give it to other women; Even if you are willing to fight with him to kill the mall, he may become a "Zhongshan Wolf" who is "rampant if he succeeds" and bite you in the fatal place of "emotion", which is really heartless and meaningless! -such a wolf is afraid to avoid it. Why do many women send themselves to the wolf's mouth helplessly? A lazy pig is a man who is willing to use his hands and brains at work, and everything in life is hard to do. Of course, his requirements are not high; The meal doesn't have to be very good, as long as it can be delivered to the mouth; He doesn't care how long he wears clothes, as long as he doesn't let him wash them; It doesn't matter whether the room is messy or not, he can push the things on the bed away from the gap of a large person and fall asleep. Don't think that he is lazy and you are diligent. This kind of man is often helped by his mother before marriage. When you are exhausted by housework, he also turns a blind eye or takes it for granted-no one can pay unilaterally like this. Over time, a good woman of yours is also in a mess with him. What's more exasperating is that this kind of man often has a full stomach and his wife and children are still hungry. Too lazy to be lifeless, how can you expect him to give you care and consideration in life?