from The Analects of Confucius-Chapter 24 of Wei Linggong. The famous words of Confucius, an ancient thinker and educator in China. If you don't want to be treated like this, don't treat others like that yourself.
don't impose on others what you don't want to bear. "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" is a principle first established by Confucius, the founder of Confucianism. That is, when you ask others to do something, first of all, you are willing to do it yourself, or you have done it yourself like others, then your request will be at ease; The popular understanding is that if you can't do it yourself, you can't ask others to do it.
What this sentence reveals is the important principle of dealing with interpersonal relationships. Confucius said that people should treat others with their own behavior as a reference. People should have a broad mind. When dealing with others, don't be narrow-minded, but be generous and forgive others.
2. Don't do it because of the small evil, and don't do it because of the small good
Don't do it because of the small evil, and don't do it because of the small good from the posthumous edict of Liu Bei, Emperor Zhaolie of Shu Han Dynasty, from The History of the Three Kingdoms Shu Shu Shu Zhuan. It means don't do it just because it's a minor bad thing, and don't care about it just because it's a minor good thing.