Many years ago, former US President Mrs. Bush said in a speech at the White House:

This sentence is quite right. We are not good ourselves. Why should we make our children good?

Children of scholarly family will not be too poor in cultural literacy when they grow up. On the other hand, a very good child, his parents will not be idle.

In addition, a person who only drinks, likes to relax and hates work has no energy or ability to train his children into adults.

In modern society, many occupations need employment certificates. For example, doing finance requires accounting certificate, doing nursing requires nurse certificate, teacher qualification certificate and so on.

There is only one occupation, and you can work without a certificate, and that is being a parent.

Moreover, many people become parents unconsciously, which shows that many parents are incompetent, which is also reasonable.

What is a competent parent?

First of all, it doesn't mean high education and high income. Of course, it doesn't mean how big your career is, but whether you have a successful and correct way to educate your children.

In my opinion, whether a child has good habits, mature attitude and sound personality from childhood has a great influence on his life and has far-reaching significance!

Good parents only need to do these three things. Children with these characteristics will have a beautiful and wonderful life in the future.

The first is to shape children's sound personality, and good personality is the basis for stepping into society.

A warm, cheerful, positive, optimistic, generous and confident child is very important to his later life.

Good children talk big, children who grow up with flowers and applause are the most confident, and the biggest sin of education is to stifle children's self-confidence.

One thing many parents love to do is to compare their children with others' children, so as to weaken their self-confidence. This is the biggest mistake of parents.

Think about it, among the 7 billion people in the world, he is the only child who calls you mom and dad, and you don't appreciate him. Who appreciates him? If you don't support him, who will?

"A leopard cannot change his spots, but a leopard cannot change his spots." Once a child develops an unruly and willful character or a timid and introverted character, it is difficult for you to reverse it.

Rome was not built in a day. A child's character is not formed in a day, and of course it cannot be changed in a day.

Therefore, it is very important to shape a child's sound personality from an early age.

The second is to cultivate children's good habits, which will benefit people for life.

Cultivating children's good personality habits is better than thousands of trainings.

Why do some mothers always find it difficult and particularly tired to take care of their babies? It is because children have developed bad habits that they have dragged their feet.

Why do some children know to change slippers as soon as they enter the door, wash their faces and feet at night, brush their teeth before going to bed, wash their hands before eating, and greet people actively, because they have developed good living habits since childhood.

Put the toys back after playing, don't throw the floor, and let mom be the captain of the fire brigade in the back. Are you so tired?

Of course I'm tired.

Play after finishing your homework instead of following your child's ass every day, which is the result of bad habits.

The biggest problem with children's bad habits comes from parents' failure to play an active guiding role.

Thought determines behavior, behavior forms habit, habit forms character, and character determines fate.

Therefore, a small habit often determines the fate of a child's life.

The third is to let children have a mature attitude.

In 2002, Milu, the magical coach who led the national football team to the World Cup, famously said: "Attitude determines everything."

This sentence explains many things. Usually when we evaluate a person, we will say whether this person has the right attitude.

Whether it can be done is a question of ability; Whether you want to do it or not is a matter of attitude.

In the adult world, there are no easy words, and nothing is difficult in the world, only if you put your mind to it. We say that a person is not serious in doing things, and that is an attitude problem.

The best way to cultivate children's attitude is that parents should always set an example and be the best example for their children.

Parents are the children's first teachers and the two most influential people in their lives. Our words and deeds, bit by bit, will be subtly imitated by children.

In a sense, children are a mirror of parents. Through this mirror, we can see many shortcomings and deficiencies of our parents.

It is never too old to learn.

Because of the arrival of children, parents are enriched, and it is with children that parents gradually mature.

In modern society, competition is fierce. As parents, they don't want their children to lose at the starting line.

Excellent parents in the new era will not let their children get high marks, so the children they cultivate are often high marks and low abilities, but pay attention to their character education.

Parents' vision determines the future direction of their children.

Shaping children's sound personality and cultivating good habits and mature attitudes from an early age will undoubtedly make children stand higher, see farther and have stronger competitiveness than other children in the future.

The competition of children is, in the final analysis, the competition of parents' vision and strength. Parents' eyes determine their children's future!