Many people are chasing you, so it depends on what you think. Don't use objectivity as the standard for this, otherwise you will be shocked.

For example, if you are determined to be aloof, but you actually have a sweet face, you may have countless troubles. It is said that beauties can conquer the country, but they may not really want to. Carrying a beautiful skin and having starlight is sometimes a very troublesome thing.

It is said that during the war, many family members taught beautiful women how to avoid disaster, smearing their faces with pot ashes so as not to reveal their female features. When we go to work, our parents often teach us not to wear colorful clothes, behave dignifiedly, and avoid being overly attractive to men, so as not to affect our normal work or have a bad reputation.

There are no ugly girls in youth, and it is very normal to be chased. Whether you are excellent or ordinary. Everyone understands this truth and feels relieved.

So neither be overly confident nor overly inferior. Just look at where your choices lie. If you want to start a family as soon as possible, you can naturally choose wisely. So what if others think you are versatile? The key is to see how you want to match it. Picking the most desirable husband at a young age and getting married quickly is actually the best choice for an ordinary girl. Because you can take your time and appreciate the process of life.

Of course, for pursuing girls, being chased during youth is also a troublesome thing. For example, many beautiful women complained to me. Although I obviously work very hard and have good abilities, I am always said to have risen to the top because of my looks. This happens to many white-collar workers. The missing incident has been blown out, so we can't let girls really take the blame for going to work.

I often hear others compliment each other on their excellence at work. And often in family settings, people hear that this girl is excellent and worth pursuing. But if you think about it, excellence has nothing to do with feelings. That's just other people's expectations magnifying their own extravagant expectations.

It is quite normal for girls in their youth to be chased by others. But after the beautiful adolescence, if you still have die-hard loyalists, you have to reward yourself with a big cake no matter what. That is the real strength to win!