The TV series "Everything Is Fine" has finally come to an end, and following the show is also a physical job!

The title of the play is "Everything is Good". What's so good about it? How can you say "it's good" when things are bad from head to toe? Could it be based on the ending of the plot, where Mingyu calls his two brothers who are far away in another country and don’t have to worry, everything is fine at home?

I feel that as the plot progresses, I feel that life is not easy for family members. From an objective analysis of the nature of the characters, they all know how to contribute to their families, they all know how to be grateful, and they are all kind-hearted people. "It's all good".

I heard that "Everything Is Good" is very popular, a must! Humanistic feelings touch the softest part of people's hearts.

I can’t recite the Tao Te Ching, but I have been taught a family motto similar to the Tao Te Ching since I was a child: There are no bad parents in the world! The implication is that parents are never wrong! The sentence "It's all for your own good" covers your parents' good intentions, even if your growth experience is scarred.

"Everything Is Fine" is uncharacteristically contrary to my country's traditional moral line, blatantly exposing and criticizing the impact and harm that original ecological families bring to children.

Su’s mother, Zhao Meilan, recounted from Su Daqiang that Zhao Meilan married him in order to obtain an urban household registration. When she discovered that Su Daqiang was cowardly and incompetent and could not give her the life she wanted, she secretly prepared to leave her two young children and husband and elope with a Shanghai man.

But later I found out that I was pregnant again, and for four months, I couldn't have an abortion. She sadly discovered that the Shanghai man quickly ran away after learning about the situation.

What Zhao Meilan couldn't accept even more was that the child in her belly had caught up with the national family planning policy and was fined a large sum of money, making their family life, which was not very wealthy, even more difficult. .

Therefore, Zhao Meilan firmly believes that the fetus in her belly is a stumbling block for her and a burden to the family. Even before the child was born, she already hated this "scourge".

Due to the favoritism and injustice of mother Zhao Meilan, the consequences of the deterioration of family relations run through the entire plot. Zhao Meilan's character is questionable. Maybe Zhao Meilan herself is also a victim of the original family? It can be deduced from her brother's years of exploiting her family and the scoundrels' extortion of money.

It is said that Zhao Meilan favors boys over girls, maybe so. But I believe she hates that Mingyu's arrival hinders her pursuit of a better life, and Mingyu is a stumbling block to her happiness!

Su Daqiang is a cowardly, incompetent, selfish man who avoids responsibility. As people get older, their vanity increases day by day. If something goes wrong, they will make trouble in front of their children and sow discord.

Special praise should be given to the veteran drama teacher Ni Dahong. He vividly interprets Su Daqiang’s wretched, stubborn and arrogant character, making people hate the characters in the play but at the same time have to fight. I admire Teacher Ni’s superb acting skills from the bottom of my heart.

Su Daqiang's "composition" skills are so perfect that he is invincible. At first, I thought it was a symptom of early Alzheimer's disease, and I went online to look up relevant knowledge about the disease. It turned out that the disease had nothing to do with "Zuo".

This shows that selfish and cowardly people have been suppressed for a long time. Once they have the opportunity to stand up, they will intensify their efforts to highlight their existence and highlight their status. To put it harshly, it means that the villain succeeds!

There are many such men in real life, just like our neighborhood. Before the demolition, they seemed to be diligent and dedicated to their families. But once you have money in your pocket, your mentality suddenly turns 180 degrees and expands to the extreme. A huge gamble? It’s okay, I have money so I can’t afford to lose! Keep a mistress? A must! Men only have money to spend on women! At the end of the game, all the money was gone and the house was sold to pay off the debt. Even if my wife and children are separated, I will be able to eat enough for myself and the whole family will not be hungry!

The character Su Daqiang was later cleared and his counterattack was successful. After he learned that he was ill, he made a series of arrangements for the family and fulfilled the responsibilities of a father. However, as far as the plot is concerned, the plot of cleaning up Su Daqiang is relatively rough, the connection is not smooth enough, a bit far-fetched, and a bit too impatient. I don’t know if it was an oversight during editing.

Su Mingzhe, a nerd who has no ears for housework and only wants to be an international student. He knew very little about everything that happened at home. Regarding the conflicts between Mingyu and his mother, he always believed his mother's side of the story. Therefore, Mingyu's image in his mind is stubborn, unreasonable, and unreasonable.

Mingzhe was very sad when his mother passed away. When Mingyu picked him up at the airport, he originally wanted to be hugged and comforted by Mingyu, but he didn't expect that Mingyu's demeanor when talking about his mother's death was as if he was talking about the housework of Lao Wang's family next door. This indifference made Mingzhe at a loss.

Mingzhe is a man with outdated ideas and is absolutely out of touch with reality. He is chauvinistic, likes to do everything in his power, and he has more than enough ambition but not enough energy. He is pedantic, foolish and lacks the ability to distinguish right from wrong. When communicating with family members, they blindly kidnap family members and are unable to solve substantive problems.

Su Mingcheng is a mother's baby, a naughty old man, a giant baby, impulsive, immature and willful. But there is one good thing about him: he can make his mother happy! After returning home after living on campus for a week, he clung to his mother and talked about all kinds of things, making her happy.

Such children are what every parent likes.

I can quite understand why Su's mother prefers Mingcheng, gives him money, and is willing to let him eat her old age.

Children who cry are fed by milk. This is an eternal truth.

I sympathize with Su Mingcheng. His exploitation of his parents stems from his mother's doting, which has been the case since childhood. This had become an inertia for him and was so natural that he was completely unaware of his own behavior. If the hard-working Comrade Su Daqiang hadn't carefully recorded every account, he would not have known that he had sucked up so much of his parents' hard-earned money.

He is a victim of his mother's doting. We cannot simply look at him as aggrieved for bullying Mingyu. Everything can be analyzed using dialectics. Of the three children in the Su family, the eldest immigrated to the United States, and the third has almost no contact with his parents. Only the second child always stays with his parents. In other words, the second child is the child that parents can see and touch.

We all know a common sense. As people get older, their material needs are no longer so strong, and relative spiritual comfort is more important. Of the three children in the Su family, only Su Mingcheng is seriously fulfilling his responsibilities as a son of man!

Everyone is familiar with the story of "playing and entertaining relatives" in Twenty-Four Filial Piety. If Su Mingcheng was not his constant companion, Su's mother passed away suddenly. Things would have changed in the future, and the brothers and sisters had settled their differences. Thinking back on not being able to fulfill your filial piety to your mother, how much guilt and self-blame do you feel in your heart? !

So, Su Mingzhe, Su Mingyu, you owe Su Mingcheng a "thank you"! Thank him for always being with your parents for you, thank him for making up for your regrets.

Su Mingyu is cold, independent, decisive and unkind. These are her appearances to arm herself. In reality, she is a good girl who is cold on the outside and hot on the inside, kind-hearted, and responsible.

Mingyu has a line that I can’t let go of, “I have worked hard for so many years to get rid of that person, but now I have become the person I hate the most.” (The approximate content may be different from the original one. The lines are wrong, I can’t remember them).

Why not! For family members, for whom we both love and hate, the reason why we are painful and resentful is because we still long for something in our hearts. We long for the person we love and hate to become what we think we should be; we long to get the affection we deserve from our family members; we long for our efforts to receive the response we deserve.

However, in reality, the more you desire, the more you will be disappointed.

Mingyu is strong, she struggles with disappointment and resists in reality. She kept fighting in the struggle and resistance, and she succeeded, realized her self-worth, and let her life bloom in the most gorgeous season.

Reading history is wise, and so is watching stories.

When watching the last episode of this drama, the first thing that comes to mind is that the impact of original families on children is beyond our imagination. As a family member, you should bear the responsibility for the mistakes you make, and you should not vent your anger on your family members.

Everyone knows the "kicking cat effect".

The family positioning of "Everything Is Fine" is somewhat high-end, and many things are solved by Mingyu's money and power. For us ordinary people, money and power are far away. What we should do is to be more understanding and less blaming towards our families. There is no problem that cannot be solved between family members. With more communication and more understanding, no matter how poor or old the home is, the warmest and sweetest flowers of family love can bloom.