The love that parents have for their children, working tirelessly, asking for nothing in return, and even risking their lives, is the most selfless love in the world. They just want their children to be healthy, happy and happy. Parents' love has a powerful and warm energy: it protects children's healthy growth, encourages children to be fearless of difficulties, and urges children to work hard...
When parents get old, even if they long to be cared for, I don’t want to be a drag on my children; even if I am sick or have something to do, I still want to bear it and don’t want to cause any trouble to my children. At this time, children often think that their parents are in good health and do not need to visit them much. If they need help, their parents will definitely tell them.
In fact, this is a huge misunderstanding, which often causes children to lose the best opportunity to enjoy family happiness with their parents. Therefore, we should slow down our pace appropriately. Even if it is a little harder, we should contact our parents more, care more about our parents, be sensitive to the health risks and safety risks of our parents, and eliminate them in time.
Seeing their children being so filial, parents will also be nourished by the energy of love, they will feel happy every day, their bodies will stay healthy, and they will ultimately realize their highest wish of longevity. A family is like a big tree. Parents are the roots, and children are the trunk, branches and leaves.
When children grow up, most of them will proudly walk out of their original home, start a family, and start a business. But in the minds of every child, the warmth and beautiful memories of their parents' home will always linger. It was your first home, a home that will never abandon you or give up on you.
Because of the existence of this home, you can create your own home happily, enjoy the world, and pass your happiness back. How joyful and happy that is!
However, when your parents are no longer alive, this first home will no longer exist. No matter how great their achievements are, their children will not have the same complete happiness as before. What is missing is the melancholy of losing their parents.
Some people would say that even if the parents are gone, there are still brothers and sisters, and they still have the original home. This is also a misunderstanding. For example: when you go back to your parents' house, we call it "going home." And you go to your brother or sister's home, what is that called? That's called "going to a relative's house", which is fundamentally different from returning to your original home.
Therefore, children must be grateful that their parents are still alive, stay with their parents as much as possible, and arrange as much time as possible to eat and travel with their parents... ..
Only in this way, when you lose your original home, will you be glad that you spent more time with your parents, and you will be deeply grateful to yourself for spending that time with your parents.
The love of parents for their children is like the sun, which is not only warm and nutritious, but also has powerful energy. In other words, if the parents are alive, the children will benefit. Especially if the parents are very healthy, relatively speaking, the children will have more time and energy to work hard, and only then can they create superior conditions to take care of their children.
Grandparents are in good health and can take care of their grandchildren, allowing the love of their ancestors to continue to be extended and passed on. This is also the proudest moment in the life of the ancestors. On the other hand, as grandchildren, they are often accompanied by their grandparents, and their happiness index skyrockets. They also get the words and deeds of their grandparents, and they are safe in everything they do. What a wonderful happiness it is to have three generations of grandparents living under the same roof!
Many people keep emphasizing: "As long as parents are alive, there is still a way back in life." The next sentence is the most insightful, that is, "If parents are gone, there is only a way back in life." Its profound meaning Because: If our parents are gone, we as children will become "orphans". Even if we are mediocre or successful, no one will encourage and appreciate us. In the second half of our lives like "orphans", what is left is only the final helpless way home.
If you think about it carefully, it is indeed true. When parents give birth to children, they use the most valuable love to establish a lifelong relationship between parents and children. It is this inseparable family love that allows children to grow up healthily and happily, allows children to realize their own value, and has a life of their own. There is no sigh, helplessness or regret. Everything is perfect. Full, everything is the best.
So, as children, we must especially cherish that our parents are still alive. As long as our parents are here, our first home is here. We will never become poor "orphans", and we don't need to ask about the way home.
Summary:
When parents are alive, love is there; when parents are alive, they do not travel far away; when parents are alive, filial piety is fulfilled in time; when parents are alive, it is the greatest blessing for children! The love parents have for their children is greater than heaven! Deeper than the sea! As children, we should be filial to our parents as much as possible while they are still alive! Spend as much time with them as possible! Try to keep your parents’ life events in mind as much as possible!