Time has rounded our edges, changed our personalities, and taught us some truths.

When I was young, I was busy fighting for superiority, fame, and benefits. Only when I suffered a loss, stumbled, and broke my head with blood, did I realize that I can’t do anything without arguing, arguing, or showing off. It is the great wisdom of life.

"I won’t argue with anyone, and I don’t care to argue with anyone... I warm my hands with the fire of life. When the fire dries up, I am ready to leave.

This is Mr. Yang Jiang translated the poem by the British poet Rand. Some people say that this poem is also a portrayal of Yang Jiang's life.

In this bustling world, many people are struggling to get ahead. Yang Jiang is not like this. She reads, writes, translates and studies just because she is interested in it, without any desire for fame and profit.

In the turbulent times, Yang Jiang only hopes to have a quiet desk. . When translating a book manuscript, she did not compare herself to others who could translate 1,000 words a day, but conscientiously translated 500 words every day.

It is this kind of calmness, unhurriedness, and non-compliance. The mentality of competition gives Mr. Yang Jiang's translation of "Don Quixote" such quality and weight that it is called the best translation.

Lin Yutang once wrote in "The Wind and the Crane": If you don’t fight, you will fight. If you don’t fight, the world will not fight with you.

When you reach a certain age, you will understand that when we are caught up in the struggle for fame and wealth, our greed will swell.

Fighting with life will add to the burden of life; fighting with relatives will intensify conflicts, alienate feelings, and the gain outweighs the losses; fighting with loved ones will make life more trivial and less peaceful; fighting with friends will make friends They will drift away...

What you fight is reason, what you lose is love, and the one who gets hurt in the end is yourself

Bai Luomei said: "The game of chess in life is about winning and losing. , we are always powerless. When you are confused, you are mostly on the inside. When you realize it, you are already on the outside.

If you look at everything in the world with a peaceful mind, it will be simple and clear. If you look at the world of mortals with a complex mentality, you will be fascinated by the world. ”

Life is only a few decades, and time flies by. If you dwell on an awkward thing for too long, you will be annoyed, in pain, tired, and sad.

Therefore, we must learn to let go and not fight in order to get away.

Once upon a time, our tempers were as stubborn as donkeys.

A little friction in love. It can make us turn around and leave; a little dissatisfaction at work can make us submit our resignation the next day; someone else's bad words can make us feel angry all day long.

As time passed, the same thing happened again, but we found that we not only learned to be tolerant and forbearing, but also learned to laugh it off when faced with gossip, and were too lazy to take it seriously

A few years later. Recently, Jay Chou was called "trash" by Chen Nian, the founder of "Fanke" for no reason. When Kunling attended the event, she was asked about Jay Chou being scolded. Unexpectedly, Tianwang's wife calmly replied: "I feel that saying these words is a bit irresponsible. , but just ignore him. "

"Ignore him" is enough to tell the pattern.

There is a Korean proverb: If you kick a stone in anger, your toes will only hurt.

As the saying goes: When a person is angry, his brain is congested and he loses his mind. 80% of the decisions he makes at this time will be wrong, and the price he needs to pay is heavy. .

Violent people always go from one extreme to another, while good-tempered people are like sunny days, spreading light everywhere.

Everyone has a temper, and losing temper is instinctive. , the key is to suppress your temper.

I hope time can also give you peace without quarreling.

Some time ago, an Internet celebrity posted a photo of herself sitting in the cockpit of an airplane, which caused news that her boyfriend, the captain, was grounded for life, causing a stir on the Internet.

A plane is related to the lives of hundreds of people on board. Unrelated persons are not allowed to enter the cockpit.

But the female students are eager to give it a try for their own vanity and to show off on the Internet; the boyfriend, in order to satisfy his girlfriend, knowingly commits a crime and jeopardizes his future.

Is it sad? To be honest, it's really sad.

But there must be something pitiful about poor people. Even if the trees are beautiful in the forest, the wind will destroy them. Being so arrogant and arrogant, I should have expected that it would end like this.

In fact, truly outstanding people often do not show off their talents and publicize them, but are low-key, cautious, modest and polite, and are willing to be an unknown ordinary person.

Because they deeply understand that only by being humble can you go further.

Just like when we were young, we loved to compare and show off in a high-profile manner, and we often felt proud of ourselves for a small success. Later, after more experiences, I finally understood that there is a world outside the sky, and there are people outside the world. Things are unpredictable and the situation is changing. A high profile can cause disasters, but a low profile can ensure peace.

Be low-key and humble, there is no need to show off; if you live to the extreme, you must be simple and simple.

An old saying goes: "Strong things break easily, soft things last forever." Being low-key is an attitude, not showing off is a kind of wisdom.

Don’t show off, it’s your absolute recognition of yourself.

As a saying goes, the more a person lacks something, the more he likes to show off. Ripe rice will always bow its head; truly wealthy people will not show off to others.

Money is just a piece of paper, it will not be used after a hundred years; fame and fortune is just a dream, it will be empty after people leave.

As a human being, there is no need to show off, because the masters are often hidden around you. Only modesty can make you fly higher; only being low-key can make you go further.

No matter how beautiful or wealthy you are, don’t be arrogant and humble, and the world will be friendly to you.

***Mian.

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