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It's time to turn
Today, I read an article written by a girl in the newspaper, which deeply touched me. Because of the failure of her first love, there is no pain of lovelorn, and she has always had the idea of suicide. At the moment when she wanted to commit suicide, she saw a short poem on the bus. The content of this poem is: "This is not the end of the road, but a turn!" "And let her give up the idea of suicide.
Finally, she wrote: sophomore, disturbed by an uninvited guest, but unintentionally redeemed by another uninvited guest. There are always setbacks in life It's not the end, it's just a reminder that it's time to turn.
"Not the end of the road, but the turn! This sentence is actually very interesting!
When you encounter something that can't be solved, even when it has affected your life and mood, why don't you stop and think about it? Is there room for you to change temporarily? Maybe it will be easier to go the other way. However, usually at that moment, we don't have time to think about it. We just keep marking time and turning around, and let ourselves fall into the abyss of pain. There are always setbacks in life That's not the end, just reminding you that it's time to turn! Letting go doesn't mean giving up. Let go just to find a better way for yourself!
In a training, the instructor asked the students, "Have any of you ever thought about suicide?" . After a while, several students looked at the teacher with puzzled eyes and raised their hands. The teacher said to them, "You are the bravest, because you have defeated death!" " "
After reading it, I remembered the question: "Should I persist or give up? When should I insist? When should I give up? " In fact, giving up doesn't mean giving up, just solving it in another way.
Turn a corner!
Analysis of eight lovelorn problems
There was a lovelorn girl who cried in the park because she was unwilling. A philosopher said with a smile, "You just lost someone who didn't love you, and he also lost someone who loved him. His loss is greater than yours. What do you hate about him? " He should be the one who doesn't want to "
Let's play a simple game of turning to thinking-turn your head and think. The joys and sorrows of life can be different from different angles. Things that seem complicated will become simple from another angle. ...
Question 1: If there is a restaurant near your home, the food is expensive and unpalatable, and there are cockroaches crawling on the table, will you come again and again for convenience?
Answer: you will definitely say, what kind of bad question is this? Who would be stupid enough to spend money on it? But in the same situation, on another occasion, I might do something similar. Many men and women have complained that their lover or partner is immoral, half-hearted and irresponsible. Knowing that there is no happy ending together, I hate more than love, but I "don't know why" and I can't live without it. To put it bluntly, it is for unwillingness and habit. Isn't this different from going to a restaurant? As a man, why bother yourself? !
Question 2: If you accidentally lost 100 yuan, only knowing that it seemed to be somewhere you walked, would you spend the 200 yuan fare to get it back?
Answer: This is another super stupid question. However, similar things happen constantly in life. I did something wrong, knowing that I had a problem, but I refused to admit it. Instead, it took twice as long to find an excuse to make others' impression of themselves greatly reduced. Being scolded by others, but spending countless hours feeling sad, is the same. Angry for one thing, at the expense of others, at the expense of blood, at the expense of time, just for revenge, isn't it just as boring? Losing a person's feelings, knowing that everything is irreversible, is still so sad, and it will be sad for several years, and it will be ruined as soon as you drink. In fact, it's useless at all, just losing more. Be a man, why bother yourself. !
Question 3: Are you afraid to go out because you open the newspaper and find that there are car accidents every day?
Answer: What kind of bad question is this? ! Of course not. It's called giving up eating because of choking. However, many people said: Look at the high divorce rate now, I dare not fall in love. That's natural. There are also many women who see many reports about extramarital affairs and worry about their other half. Isn't that a similar reaction? The so-called optimism is to believe that although the road is difficult and dangerous, I am still the one who will cross the road safely. As long as I am careful, I don't have to be afraid to cross the road. Be a man, believe in yourself.
Question 4: Are you willing to believe that success is very brainless? Can everyone succeed casually?
Answer: Being overly optimistic is a kind of stupidity. However, it is observed that after listening to the advice from successful people who have racked their brains, some people always ask another question, such as reading more books and practicing more? Isn't that hard? We all want to learn English well in 3 minutes and solve all the problems in 5 minutes. Is it that easy to succeed? Of course, change is difficult. Success is outstanding only because it is not afraid of difficulties. Once I took a taxi, I heard that the taxi driver saw that he was a high-end car before and after, and sighed, "Alas, why are others so rich and my money so hard to earn?" I had a whim and asked him, "What kind of money do you think there is in the world?" He smiled, but he couldn't answer. It was a long time before he said that it seemed that other people's money was easier to earn. Dig deep, there is no successful person who does not work hard. We really shouldn't complain about difficulties. Being a man, most of the time, you still have to rely on yourself!
Question 5: Do you think people who have never played basketball can be good basketball coaches?
Answer: Of course not. A layman cannot lead an expert. However, there are many people who don't know anything about an industry. They just heard that the industry is easy to make money and started a business immediately. I have met people who have no taste in clothes or don't care at all, but their dream is to open a clothing store; People who never know how to operate a computer want to make money on electronic stocks, but they don't reflect on their lack of professional ability, only complain that time is running out. Be a man and do your best.
Question 6: Similar but different question: Do you think a basketball coach can lead a perfect victory without going to the basketball court and closing his eyes?
Answer: Sick, of course not. However, many friends have no time to manage, but they are also trying to invest in cafes, restaurants and companies they don't understand, eager to spend their spare money and become partners. I always lose more than I earn, but I also feel that I am just unlucky, not wrong. Be a man and remember to reflect on yourself.
Question 7: Would you rather regret than try to turn the crisis around?
Answer: I'm afraid no one will say "Yes, I am such a coward". However, we often try our best to give in when we shouldn't, because we are afraid of failure and dare not try to succeed. Take China figure skater Michelle Kwan as an example. She won the world figure skating championship in 2000. She was bent on winning the first place, but before the last game, her total score was only ranked third. In the final song selection project, she chose a breakthrough rather than fewer mistakes. In the 4-minute Long song, I combined the most difficult three-week jump and boldly jumped twice. She may have lost badly, but she succeeded. Her famous saying is: "Because I don't want to wait for failure, I regret not playing my potential." Be a man, why not give it a try.
Question 8: You have unlimited time and live forever, so what you want to do most will be postponed indefinitely?
Answer: no, no,no. Who will say yes? However, we often say that when I get old, I want to travel around the world; When I retire, I will do what I want to do; I can relax when the children grow up. We all mistakenly think that we have unlimited time and energy. In fact, we can approach our dream step by step, so we don't have to wait until we have time to approach it. If we can approach our dreams and ideals step by step now, our life will not be halfway through, but we will become the last person in our dreams. Be a man and live in the present.
Finally, the mood is still my own, others can't take away my happiness, and it's not worth ungrateful for one person. I wish you happiness