Those who cannot tolerate others are not worthy of being tolerated by others - Bernay
Only when you are not arrogant can you be arrogant, not by favoring others. Author: Zhuge Liang
The past is forgotten like smoke, and the world is wide with selflessness in my heart. Author: Tao Zhu
Life is empty and dull only in the eyes of dull people. Author: Chernyshevsky
The heavy night is the prelude to day. Author: Guo Xiaochuan
People full of joy and fighting spirit always welcome thunder and sunshine with joy. Author: Aldous Huxley
When you are angry, shut your mouth tightly to avoid increasing your anger. ——Socrates
Good temper is the best clothing a person can wear in society. —— Du De
No matter how you express your anger, do not do anything irreparable. —— Bacon
We should be careful not to hurt other comrades with words, but we should also be able to bear it when others use words to hurt us. ——Liu Shaoqi
Those who have a humble, cheerful, sincere attitude, and at the same time a spirit of patience are very lucky. —— Seneca
The vastest thing on land is the ocean, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky.
Tolerance contains the principles of life. Life without tolerance is like walking on a knife's edge. Children, if you can choose virtues, please choose tolerance first!
——Franklin
Tolerance is not only a kind of magnanimity, civilization, and mind, but also a state of life. Tolerating others is equivalent to tolerating oneself. While being tolerant, it also creates the beauty of life.
——Emerson
Tolerance is a kind of light of kindness, a supreme blessing, a relief for others, and a kindness to oneself. Only how many people can a person's mind accommodate, can he win as many people as he can.
A short story of tolerance
Zigong, a student of Confucius, once asked Confucius: "Teacher, is there one word that can be used as a lifelong principle?" Confucius said: "That is probably 'Forgive'. ""Forgive", in today's terms, means tolerance.
The prime minister can punt a boat in his belly
During the Three Kingdoms period, the Shu Kingdom appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the government after the death of Zhuge Liang. One of his subordinates named Yang Xi was withdrawn and slow to speak. Jiang Wan spoke to him, but he only responded. Some people couldn't stand it and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "Yang Xi is so disrespectful to you!" Jiang Wan smiled calmly and said: "Everyone has their own temperament. Let Yang Xi It's not his nature to praise me in person; if he criticizes me in front of everyone, he will feel that I can't stand up, so he has no choice but to keep silent. place." Later, someone praised Jiang Wan as "the prime minister's belly can hold a boat."
Asking for punishment while carrying a thorn
Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing because of his meritorious service in "returning the jade to Zhao intact", ranking above the incorruptible ones. Lian Po was very unconvinced and threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru in person. After Lin Xiangru learned about it, he tried his best to avoid and tolerate it, and not to conflict with Lian Po. Lin Xiangru's retainers thought he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said: "Qin did not dare to invade Zhao because of me and General Lian. My tolerance and concession to General Lian was to put the country's danger first and my personal safety." Put your personal grudges behind you!" This was heard by Lian Po, and the story of Lian Po's "asking for forgiveness" began.
Renyi Hutong
During the Ming Dynasty, Dong Duxing, a native of Jiyang, Shandong Province, served as an official in the capital. One day, he received a letter from his family saying that he had a quarrel with his neighbors because he was building a house as a foundation. He hoped that he could use his power to come forward and resolve the matter. After reading it, Dong Duxing immediately revised a letter and said: "Sending books thousands of miles away just for the wall makes me laugh; you are kind and we are close neighbors, so why not give up two feet." After reading it, his family felt that Dong Duxing was right. So he took the initiative to give up a few feet when building a house. When the neighbors saw what the Dong family was doing, they also had some insights and followed suit. As a result, the two families gave up an eight-foot-wide space. After the house was built, there was an alley, known as "Renyi Hutong" in the world.
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Liszt accepted free students
A girl was going to give a concert and said on the poster that she was a student of Liszt. The day before the performance, Liszt appeared in front of the girl. The girl was horrified and sobbed, pretending that it was for livelihood and begging for forgiveness. Liszt asked her to play the music to him and give him some guidance. Finally, he said cheerfully: "Come on stage and play boldly. You are now my student. You can announce to the theater manager that the last program of the evening will be performed by the teacher." Played for students." Liszt played the last piece in the concert.
The Legend of Liuchi Lane
During the Kangxi period of the Qing Dynasty, Zhang Yingguan, a native of Tongcheng, became a bachelor of Wenhua Palace and the Minister of Rites. The neighbor is Ye Mansion, another large family in Tongcheng. The owner is Ye Shilang, who served in the same court as Zhang Ying. The two families had a dispute over the courtyard wall. Mrs. Zhang repaired the book and sent it to Zhang Ying. Zhang Ying was deeply worried when he saw the letter and replied to the old lady: "The letters from home are only for a wall, so why not let people move three feet away? The Great Wall is still there today, but Qin Shihuang is nowhere to be seen." So Madam Zhang ordered the servants to move back three feet to build the wall. Ye Mansion was very moved and ordered his family to move the courtyard wall back three feet. From then on, the barriers between Zhang and Ye's houses were eliminated and the friendship between the two families was established.
Peng Dehuai is magnanimous
Peng Dehuai, the commander-in-chief of the three Red Army Corps, and more than 30 people inspected the terrain at the front, and the messengers held red flags and ran while shouting to give way. Only one warrior sat still. Peng Dehuai shouted a few words when he saw someone blocking the road. The soldier stood up and punched Mr. Peng twice. Mr. Peng let him go in a hurry. Afterwards, the soldiers were ordered to bring the soldier to see Mr. Peng. General Peng immediately asked him to go back. The soldier knew that he had caused trouble and was afraid. Seeing that General Peng didn't care, he was deeply moved. Later he said to everyone when he met: "The commander-in-chief is really magnanimous!"
Jesus: You guys I heard it said, Love your neighbor and hate your enemy. But I am telling you to love your enemies. Pray for those who persecute you.
Christianity breaks through the Jewish law of "an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth" and is also a form of tolerance
The philosopher Kant said: "Being angry is punishing yourself for the mistakes of others." The elegant Kant probably would not have storms, and his mood would always be clear and clear. When others make mistakes, we are furious about it, and it is ourselves who make the mistakes.
Modern Dale Canet Carnegie did not advocate tit-for-tat. He said: "There is only one simple way to truly hate others, that is, to play to the other person's strengths." If you hate the other person, you must not eat flesh, sleep, skin, bones, bones and marrow. The result will only make yourself exhausted and exhausted. Carnegie The "hate" mentioned is another form of "tolerance". To hate others is not to gnash your teeth and feast on your opponent, but to absorb the other person's strengths and turn them into calcium for your own physical strength.
How can you act like a wolf?" Even if the "kind grandmother" vows to "be vegetarian from now on", it is difficult to change the nature of eating sheep. However, if all the sheep are killed, the sheep will be prone to plague; when two tigers fight, the situation will not be equal, but once the hero Loneliness doesn't have to be locked in a fence, a ferocious tiger will degenerate into a sick cat. Treating opponents as friends is a higher level of tolerance.
President Lincoln is known for his tolerance towards political opponents, which finally caused a stir When a congressman was dissatisfied, the congressman said: "You should not try to make friends with those people, but destroy them." Lincoln smiled and replied: "When they become my friends, isn't it that I am destroying my enemies?" "To hit the mark, be more tolerant. Open opponents may be our potential friends.
The Three Gorges Project has successfully closed the river. Who has made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project? The famous hydraulic engineer Pan Jiazheng answered this Question from a foreign reporter: "Those who oppose the Three Gorges process have made the greatest contribution to the Three Gorges Project." The existence of opponents can keep a clear and rational mind and work more thoughtfully; it can inspire you to have the courage to accept challenges and unleash your life potential. .This is not simple tolerance, this tolerance is like a hammer, sharpening your will and sharpening the edge of your life.
Although I do not agree with your point of view, I have an obligation to defend your right to speak. Many people know this sentence, which contains the democratic core of tolerance. A good word will warm you in three winters, and tolerance is like the warm sun on the snow-capped mountains in winter; a bad word will hurt people in the cold weather of June. If you have a tolerant heart, you will be warm in the scorching summer. Just think of it as a cooling air conditioner.
Tolerance is a kind of beauty. The deep sky tolerates the temporary raging of thunder and lightning storms, and only then can the wind and sunshine be beautiful; the vast sea tolerates the temporary rampant waves. , only then can we have vastness; the vast forest can be lush and green only after it has endured the law of the weak and the strong for a while. Only by digging at the soil can Mount Tai become as high as possible; only can rivers become as big as they can by not picking at small streams. Tolerance is the Mount Tai that stands thousands of feet high. The rivers and lakes that can accommodate hundreds of rivers.
Tolerance is the gold that Bao Shuya gave to Guan Zhong when interacting with friends. He did not care about Guan Zhong's selfishness, but he could also understand Guan Zhong's greed for life and fear of death, and recommended Guan Zhong to Duke Huan of Qi. His own boss.
Tolerance is the torch that Emperor Guangwu used to burn the letters of surrender to the enemy. Liu Xiu defeated Wang Lang and invaded Handan. When he checked the official documents of the previous dynasty, he found a large number of people flattering Wang Lang and insulting him. Liu Xiu even wrote a letter plotting to kill Liu Xiu. But Liu Xiu turned a blind eye to this and burned them all regardless of the objections of his ministers. Regardless of past grudges, he could turn enemies into friends, strengthen his own power, and eventually become an emperor. This fire, It burns away the rifts and forges a solid foundation for your career.
You have to tolerate others’ discord, exclusion and even false accusations. Because you know that it is your strength that scares your opponents. You also need to know that Shi The grass growing out of the cracks can best withstand wind and rain. The cold words given to you by the wind can give you a "cold compress" for your heated mind; the small shoes given to you may allow you to dance a wonderful "ballet" on the stage; the blows given to you , just like the barbell on an athlete's hand, it will only increase your explosive power. Retaliation will only show that you cannot be open-minded; harsh words are a double-edged sword, and will eventually cut yourself; retaliating with teeth will only show that your "teeth" "It will fall off soon; blood vessels are very strong, which is most likely to cause "hypertension". "A violet is crushed by one foot, but it leaves the fragrance on the heel. This is forgiveness." Andrew Matthews in " There is such a saying in "Tolerant Heart" that can inspire people's minds.
Tolerance is used to counteract fierceness, and fierceness is used to counteract leniency, and government is based on harmony.
The will is as strong as iron and the strength is as large as the sea.
Only by respecting others can others be respected.
Those who cannot tolerate others do not deserve to be tolerated by others. ——(Russia) Turgenev
A great man has two hearts: one heart bleeds and one heart forgiving. ——(Lebanon) Gibran
Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others. ——"Mencius Li Lou Xia"
The famous writer Fang Long once quoted the definition of tolerance from the Encyclopedia Britannica in his famous book "Tolerance": Tolerance means allowing others to act or judge freely; patience And tolerate without prejudice opinions that are inconsistent with one's own views or accepted views. The definition of tolerance in my country's modern Chinese dictionary is: being generous and magnanimous, without caring or pursuing.
1. Tolerating others is actually tolerating ourselves. Being more tolerant of others actually gives us a little more space in our lives.
A life with friends will provide love and support, and there will be no loneliness and loneliness; a life with friends will have less wind and rain, and more warmth and sunshine. In fact, tolerance is always a sunny day.
2. Tolerance is to forget. Everyone has pain and scars. Every time you open them, you will create new wounds. Old scars and new wounds are difficult to heal. Forget yesterday's right and wrong, forget other people's previous accusations and abuses against you, time is a good analgesic. Learn to forget, only then can life have sunshine and joy.
3. Tolerance means not caring about things and letting them go. Everyone has mistakes. If you stick to your past mistakes, you will form ideological baggage, distrust, grudges, and inability to let go, which limits your own thinking and the development of the other party. Even betrayal is not intolerable. Those who can withstand betrayal are the strongest people, and will take the initiative in the atmosphere with their strong will. Their majesty can give people confidence and motivation, and thus they can better prevent or reduce betrayal.
4. Tolerance is chic. "Green poplars everywhere are good for horses, and every family has a road to Chang'an." Treating others generously and tolerating criticism is the way to a successful career and a happy family. Worrying about everything, worrying about gains and losses, life is tiring. It is rare to live in this world, and the most important thing is to be free and unrestrained.
5. Tolerance is a kind of strength, not weakness. Tolerance requires retreat and active defense. The concession reflected in tolerance is purposeful and planned, and the initiative is in one's own hands. Helplessness and necessity cannot be considered tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all living beings.
6. Tolerance means not forcing yourself when others disagree with you. From a psychological perspective, every idea has its origin. Every motivation has certain inducements. By understanding the origin of the other person's ideas and finding the basis for their opinions, you will be able to put yourself in their shoes, and the proposed plan will be more in line with the other person's psychology and be accepted. Eliminating obstacles and confrontation is the only way to improve efficiency. Everyone has their own views and experiences on life. We must respect their knowledge and experience, actively absorb the essence of others, and make good efforts to discard them.
7. Tolerance is patience. Criticism from peers, misunderstandings from friends, excessive arguments and "counterattacks" are not worthwhile. Only calmness, patience and understanding are the most important. I believe in this famous saying: "Tolerance is the grain that grows among thorns." If you can take a step back, the world will naturally become wider.
8. Tolerance also requires skills. Giving a chance does not mean condoning, nor does it exempt the other party from responsibility. Everyone needs to be responsible for their own actions; everyone must bear various consequences. Otherwise, the other party will make the forbidden mistake again and again, showing weakness.
9. Aphorisms about tolerance:
The violet leaves its fragrance on the ankle that crushed it. This is forgiveness and anger. ——Mark Twain
The way of a gentleman is to be loyal and forgiving. Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you. I do not want others to do to me, and I do not want to do to others. ( The Analects of Confucius)
Mountain Tai does not allow soil, so it can become big; rivers and seas do not accept small streams, so they can become deep. (Li Si)
“Tolerance is like the gentle rain from the sky. Touch the earth. It blesses those who tolerate and those who are tolerated. ——A line from Shakespeare's famous play "The Merchant of Venice"
●Tolerance is the only test of civilization (Helpers)
●The art of wisdom is the art of knowing what to tolerate ( William James)
●The magnanimous spirit is the greatest of all things (Owen)
●There are many occasions in life when the goal you intend to achieve with resentment, It is entirely possible to achieve goals through forgiveness, it is entirely possible to achieve through forgiveness----(Sidney Smith)
●Forgive sincerely and then forget about it (UK)
< p>●Forgiveness is human, but forgetfulness is divine (James Grant)●Tolerant people are the most impatient, and tolerant people are the least tolerant (Bernay)
●The noblest revenge is tolerance (Hugo)
●Those who have lived without tolerating others are not worthy of being tolerated by others.
But who can say that tolerance is not needed? (Turgenev)
●God of justice, tolerance is the most perfect thing we can do (Wordsworth)
●Only brave people know how to tolerate; cowards He will never be tolerant, this is not his nature (Stern)
●Tolerance is either good for people or harmful to people (Burke)
●It hurts other people's teeth Eyes, but opposed to retaliation, people who advocate tolerance should never get close to him----(Lu Xun)
● Desire to be gentle and smooth, do not want to observe and understand clearly (Book of Jin) < /p>
●A hundred flowers bloom, a hundred schools of thought contend
●Strictness is love, laxity is harm, indifference will turn bad
●Pampering is harm, strictness is love
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●Training you is to love you, pampering you is to harm you
●Love is deep, responsibility is strict (France)
●A lax family attracts thieves, people If you are not strict, you will be in danger
●If you are not strict in teaching, you will be a teacher
●If you want to be a square, the rules must be strict
●A gentleman loves others with virtue, and a villain loves others To be tolerant
●Be lenient to those you blame, and be strict to yourself
●Be strict with yourself and be lenient to others
●Forgive others with affection and reason Discipline
●Be hard on yourself and be kind to others
●Treat others with the spring breeze and treat yourself with the cold wind
●Be generous with others and humble with self-responsibility; Be generous and blame others lightly
●Rebuke yourself with the same heart to blame others, forgive others with the heart of forgiveness
●Forgive others as much as possible, but never forgive yourself (Sila Si)
●You must let go when you have to let go, and be merciful when you have to
●If you are not as good as you, you should not be able to get sick (Xue Xuan, Ming Dynasty)
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●People should tolerate each other: everyone has weaknesses, and in his weakest aspect, everyone can be cut and mashed (Keats)
●In order to be able to be with all For men and women to live in harmony, we must allow each person to maintain his or her individuality (Schopenhauer)
●To be generous is to complement the fierce, and to be generous is to be generous, and to be generous is to complement the fierce
●The combination of generosity and fierceness can achieve success
●Be broad yet firm, strict yet gentle
●The way to govern a country is to be strong and broad (Zhu Xi of the Song Dynasty)