1. "You can avoid the suffering of this world. You are completely free to do this, which is in line with your nature, but it is this avoidance that is the only pain you can avoid. " All people in the world, their lives can't be smooth sailing. People will always encounter some difficulties. When encountering difficulties, we can choose to face them bravely and try to solve them, or we can choose to escape. This is the freedom that every one of us has. If we choose to escape, that's normal, because human nature is to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. But if you avoid them, can you escape these sufferings? No, what you avoid is the only pain you can avoid. Therefore, we are born with the courage to face difficulties, because if you solve the difficulties, you will face infinite possibilities, but if you want to hide yourself in the shell like a turtle, your chances will be much reduced.
2. "Don't complain, don't explain, it is definitely a talent." The superficial meaning of this sentence is that such a person must be a talent who does not complain about life and is not eager to explain because of misunderstanding of others. This sentence also tells us that nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory. If we keep complaining about how unfair the world is to ourselves because of things in our lives, it will not only have no effect and solve difficulties, but will only make your life worse. People can't live independently from others, so communication between people is also essential, so there will be misunderstandings and frictions. If you trust a person, he will always believe. If you don't trust a person, it's useless for you to explain, so when you encounter such a thing, don't explain it in a hurry, just believe that your approach is correct.
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