There is an ancient saying: "A good man does not have a good wife, and a bad man marries a charlatan", which means that in ancient times, the wives of young men with good features and good looks were often mediocre and inconspicuous; Later in life, the daughter-in-law often looks like a flower and is as radiant as a jade.
Even in today's society, if you walk on the street and observe carefully, a man with an ordinary appearance will often have a beautiful and noble white swan beside him; if you walk side by side with a handsome guy on the road, there is a high probability that he is a swan. An ugly duckling.
Everyone knows the reason why this "strange" phenomenon occurs, and it is mostly related to money and status.
It doesn’t matter whether you are handsome or not. As long as you have money and status, or have high emotional intelligence and outstanding talents, beauties will flock to you. No, something unexpected happened to the wives they married, the ancient national hero Yue Fei and the peasant uprising leader Li Zicheng.
Yue Fei is a great hero, a great loyal minister, and a very loyal and good friend.
After Yue Fei put down the rebellion of Prime Minister Yang Yao in 1135, he obtained a lot of trophies. He did not forget his good brother Han Shizhong, so he sent envoy Wang Zhong to send some trophies to Han's military camp.
Han Shizhong smiled happily when he saw so many gold and silver treasures, and said to Wang Zhong, your coach's wife is in my military camp, will you take her back?
This time Wang Zhong was in a dilemma, because after understanding the situation, he discovered that Mrs. Yue Fei was not placed here by Marshal Yue, but eloped here on her own.
Yue Fei was a patriotic soldier. When the country was in trouble, he resolutely went to the front line and was reluctant to leave his wife before leaving.
Yue Fei told his wife: Soldiers are responsible for the rise and fall of the country. I am going to the battlefield. You have taken good care of my mother for me. I will not forget you when I have made meritorious service. I also have half of your military medals. I have been promoted. I want you to enjoy wealth and glory, and I will love you even more.
"The reunion of all families is your wish, and it is also my wish." The wife nodded with tears in her eyes and watched as Yue Fei's figure gradually disappeared from her sight.
But some women can endure any hardship, but they can't bear the pain of separation, and the pain of separation is far away. Yue Fei's wife couldn't bear the loneliness and eloped with someone.
Some people say that what Yue Fei’s wife did was very hateful and she felt sorry for her heroic husband. But if you think about it carefully, a husband is only considered a husband if he is within one foot of each other. If they are far apart, they can’t count on anything at home. How can a female generation help you fulfill your filial piety if you have no humane feelings? So Mrs. Yue, who dared to love and hate, chose to elope bravely. She was not secretive. If she really hid it from others, she would not let Wang Zhong and other outsiders know.
In ancient times, there was no civil affairs bureau, so divorce was difficult, and in ancient times only men could divorce their wives, so Yue Fei ran away decisively, which saved everyone's face and was considered responsible.
So when Wang Zhong secretly told Yue Fei the news, Yue Fei was not angry. Instead, he asked Wang Zhong to send 500 yuan to his wife (precisely his ex-wife) so that the current husband could treat his wife well. Many people have watched Kunqu Opera "Fifteen Guan", which tells the story of a man who took risks and killed people for 15 Guan. It can be seen that these 500 Guan were a lot of money back then.
It can be seen from this incident that Yue Fei's title of hero is really not for nothing. Why should a man worry about not having a wife? Why bother with a woman who does not belong to him physically or mentally? After talking about Yue Fei, let’s talk about Li Zicheng. Li Zicheng was the leader of the peasant uprising in the late Ming Dynasty. He was the one who overthrew the Ming Dynasty. He was also an upright and upright figure.
But life is not so satisfactory. Although Li Zicheng has a successful career, he is a failure emotionally. He has a problem with choosing women and has made mistakes twice.
When he was cheated for the first time, Li Zicheng was still a rural courier, working at a post station.
His wife at that time was named Han Jin'er. She was already married for the third time and was probably engaged in the service industry. She started her career at the age of 14 and had an affair with her ex-husband's housekeeper.
Generally, men would look down on this kind of woman, but at that time Li Zicheng was a typical poor loser and lacked the initiative in choosing a mate. If someone liked him, it would be a high price, and everything else would be fine. He ignored her and married Xiao Han.
Li Zicheng’s parents died young and his family was poor. He was also a young man who was “not doing his job properly”. History records that he was “good at riding and shooting, was a rogue in battles and broke the law several times.”
Han Jin’er just got married. When Li Zicheng was in power, he was obsessed with Li Zicheng's prowess and behaved himself for a while.
But Li Zicheng was very busy at work at the express delivery company, so Xiao Han relapsed and had a story that shouldn't have happened with a guy named Gai Hu (the name is not simple).
There is no airtight wall in the world. Li Zicheng found out about this and killed the two men in anger. Later, he rose up and launched an uprising. Soon he married a young and beautiful woman named Xing. .
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However, because Li Zicheng was surrounded and suppressed by the Ming Dynasty government troops all day long, with few wins and many losses, and great ideological pressure, he couldn't help but neglect the beautiful Mrs. Xing.
Li Zicheng had one of the fierce generals, Gao Jie, who was tall and mighty. He was not afraid of thieves but was afraid of being missed by thieves. The hero was saddened by the beauty. Gao Jie quickly boarded Mrs. Xing's boat and could not get off.
So Li Zicheng was fighting a fierce battle with the Ming army in the front, and Gao Jie and Mrs. Xing were not idle in the rear. The relationship between the two gradually heated up, and it reached the point where they were inseparable. In order to stay together day and night, the two eloped.