Discuss the value of integrity
People fulfill their responsibilities and are honest and trustworthy
"Three cups of wine will make a promise, but the five mountains will be lighter." This is Li Bai's "Xia Ke Xing" "The poem describes that the weight of a promise is heavier than a mountain, and expresses the importance of honesty. China is an ancient civilization with a long history of 5,000 years. Integrity has always been a virtue that the Chinese are proud of. "A person cannot stand without trust." Honesty and trustworthiness are the fine traditions of the Chinese nation. China has a long history of civilization advocating "integrity". As early as thousands of years ago, Confucius said: "If a person has no faith, it is not just what he can do." The extended meaning is: "If you believe, you will know what you can do." For thousands of years, people have valued and respected integrity. The style of integrity is simple and honest. As far back as the Three Kingdoms period, everyone may have heard the story of Liu Bei's three visits to the thatched cottage: Zhuge Liang assisted Liu Bei and was entrusted with the important task of Gu Gu. As the "Chu Shi Biao" said: "In pursuit of the late emperor's edict, I can't bear to be grateful. I should stay away now. His expression was full of tears and he didn’t know what to say. “He dedicated his life to the Han Dynasty and spent seven years out of Qishan. He spent his whole life and left behind an eternal reputation. What is integrity? Zhuge Liang is honest. Honest and trustworthy, able to fulfill commitments and gain the trust of others. Integrity is also the foundation of moral construction and is a very valuable quality. There is a saying in our country that "a promise is worth a thousand pieces of gold": "A gentleman's words are hard to follow." But in today's society, some people are influenced by Western ideological trends and "don't care about eternity, only care about what they once had." They have lost themselves in life, seeking temporary quickness, disregarding future generations, and desperately overdrawing their little integrity. It is conceivable that the consequence of this kind of behavior is to become like Cheng Kejie: ??infamy for thousands of years! In the thousands of years of Chinese history, there have been many discussions about integrity, and many stories of integrity have been circulated. These precious discussions can also give us profound enlightenment today. Integrity is the prerequisite for all morality to be maintained. If you break trust with others, no work will be carried out. As the old saying goes: Those who search for things in a dark room are better than fire; those who search for things in the world are better than sincerity. In other words, it is best to use light to retrieve things in the dark; and only with integrity can we win the trust of the world. "DeDaoDuoZhu" the ancients could understand so well, but as we, contemporary middle school students, we should be more honest! Adolescence is the golden period of life, the most true, pure and beautiful period in life. Integrity is the easiest virtue and the one that should not be ignored. We should regard integrity as a coordinate in life, be honest, tell the truth, and do honest things. Honesty to others, honesty to oneself, honesty is like a full moon. Only when it is accompanied by the brightness of the sky can it set off the attitude towards life. Honesty is like a weight, put it on the balance of life and it will swing. The uncertain balance will steadily tilt towards him; integrity is more like mountain water, which can wash away the lead, wash away hypocrisy, and reveal sincerity in a floating society. Therefore, we should vigorously promote integrity in the whole society and do our part to purify the social atmosphere!
The Beijing Municipal Party Committee and Municipal Government designated September 19 as Integrity Day. Let us advocate together. This is a good starting point for us to learn! Advocating integrity is very important for our reform, opening up and modernization today! Jiang Chunyun pointed out that we must standardize the market order and strengthen the construction of the integrity guarantee system. Society calls for integrity, and we must abide by it!
Here I want to tell you a real thing that happened around us: In a class at a key university, there were several students who had financial difficulties at home and applied for national aid. Student loans, from them I first heard the term "personal credit system". I also learned that in this university, due to the weak credit of the graduates in repaying the loans, they were not approved for loans from the Industrial and Commercial Bank of China this year; and those students who are in financial difficulties because their senior brothers and sisters graduated and left. After taking up the job, I abide by my credit and won the trust of ICBC, which enabled me to successfully obtain loan approval from them. This incident made me deeply understand the importance of integrity to a person and even a school.
There is no doubt that cheating in the examination room is the most typical behavior lacking integrity. Some people think that cheating is a trivial matter, and they consider themselves unlucky if they are caught. They take advantage if they are not caught, and do not take it seriously mentally. But we have to say that cheating is not only a manifestation of a person's despicable moral integrity, but also a manifestation of a person's lack of the most basic principles of doing things. In the modern society with fierce competition, "integrity" is promoted as the imperial principle in economic activities.
When talking about the way to recruit talents, Kaifu Lee, the president of Microsoft China Research Institute, said: "For a company, the first thing is honesty and trustworthiness, and the second thing is talent. If you have talent but are not trustworthy, you will bring more harm to the company than if you have less ability." People are bigger.” It can be seen that social employers welcome people with real talents, honesty and trustworthiness! There is another Chinese saying: Don't do evil for small things. Because accumulating small evils can turn into big evils. We are not fully aware of the dangers of cheating in exams and plagiarizing homework. This current "little evil" will gradually become the most stubborn part of our personality. Will it change after we enter the society with this "little evil" habit? A plagiarizing professor from Peking University who was exposed not long ago? When such people fill society, what will our country look like? Whether it is for us personally or for our country, cheating in exams is a shame for our college students in the new century! They are all a stain on our image of integrity! The occurrence of many dishonest facts in China is an accompanying phenomenon during the transition period. This is a temporary phenomenon. Young people in particular have seen a lot of dishonesty and should not think that China will always be like this. China will establish a credit system, and young people must set an example for China's credit system. As contemporary teenagers, the future of our motherland and the future of our nation are entrusted to us. "Integrity in China, Integrity Youth" not only requires us teenagers to have such a sense of historical appointment, but also to do some practical things for the Chinese nation. , make a little contribution to the future of our motherland.
Integrity is our responsibility. The new century brings new challenges. The development of a basic literacy across the century requires not only supervision and guidance, but also requires us to start from ourselves! Classmates, let us take integrity as the principle of life and conduct, focus on moral integrity, start from not cheating in exams, and let honesty and trustworthiness become our habit! Let us work together to create a good school spirit! *** Let’s promote the spirit of integrity!
(This article won the first prize in the “Integrity Cup” essay competition)
Brief review
Society calls for integrity! This article focuses on the big picture and touches every aspect of society; it focuses on the small and touches every corner of reality. With keen eyes and profound social insight, the author traces the origins of the virtues that the Chinese nation was once proud of, laments the lack of integrity in modern society, and cheers for the return of integrity, intending to warn people: a nation without integrity It is a nation without hope; urge everyone: No one is a bystander in the reconstruction of integrity!
Economic ethics: It is the basic principles of ethics and morals that people must follow when engaging in economic activities. It is a series of ethical principles and moral norms that directly regulate and regulate people engaging in economic activities. Ethical thought is not general economic ethics, but its fundamental principles, core and essence; it is the philosophical connotation of law, the principle and basis of ethics formed by law, and the moral basis for people to recognize and internalize laws and regulations.
Case:
In order to capture market share, some telecommunications companies in my country have resorted to the most despicable means - cutting off their competitors' communication cables. This incident of cable cutting originated from the fierce competition between China Telecom and China Unicom in Suining City, Sichuan Province. This is not the first time that the two sides have come into close combat over their share of the communications market. Suining China Unicom's aggressive efforts to develop local phone services eventually led to the "cable-cutting operation" by relevant personnel of China Telecom Suining Branch.
According to China Unicom, although the cable has been repaired, a new problem has arisen: when making calls to China Unicom's local calls on the public telephones owned by Suining Telecom, the meter shows that the charges are dozens of times higher than the normal charges. "What Telecom is doing is actually to make people afraid to call China Unicom's local calls, which indirectly squeezes us out." said the person in charge of Suining China Unicom. In the early days of the socialist market economy, it was inevitable that some phenomena would occur that exceeded the normal values ??and moral permissibility of society. This is the so-called "cost of modernization" theory. This theory can explain many practical problems. From the frequent incidents of employees being searched by foreign investors and private business owners, to industry bosses hoarding and joining forces to limit prices to squeeze out competitors in order to seize huge monopoly profits, to this time China Telecom's Suining branch took the risk of violating criminal laws. Cutting off other companies' communication cables, if such morally bankrupt and dishonest business practices spread, the cost of modernization will be too high.
On the contrary, in the "Microsoft split case" in the United States, the U.S. Department of Justice launched a powerful legal offensive, and the series of lawsuits made Gates very anxious.
Faced with the government's "all kinds of difficulties", Microsoft still responded to the lawsuit, defended, hired lawyers to cooperate with the investigation, actively reached an out-of-court settlement with the Ministry of Justice, and even launched the globally popular Windows XP operating system during the lawsuit. , allowing people to see the style and self-cultivation of giant multinational companies.
Case analysis:
If "a villain's heart is used to judge a gentleman's heart", Microsoft can rely on its own technical power to paralyze all computers in the US government. Because its products have penetrated into the government's most sophisticated intelligence and defense systems. Political economics theory also tells us that oligarchs like Microsoft can actually control politics through various channels. This is the money essence of capitalism. However, Microsoft took neither technical nor political measures, but calmly chose legal resistance.
Value scale: A gentleman loves money and gets it in a proper way
If you get it in a proper way and get rich, that is the real "noble", that is, it is not just "economic" "Human" is also the value of "moral person" and "social person". The modern market economy is of course profit-driven, but it also requires "seeing profit before thinking about righteousness" and "taking righteousness first." The kind of behavior that does not care about righteousness or injustice, and makes money first, and making money is the last word is not allowed; the kind of "money theory" that has money can make ghosts grind, and "ghosts are attached to power and seek profit" is not allowed; The kind of behavior that only makes people rich with a black heart and only takes ill-gotten gains is even more unacceptable.
"Those who win the hearts of the people win the world"
From a business perspective, if you win customers, you will definitely win the market, and the company will definitely be able to prosper.
The purpose of running a business: "Serving the society and making the country prosperous". This purpose fully embodies the Confucian view of "people-oriented" and is universal. "The purpose of business is to serve the society, and profit is the reward for service." Respecting consumers and understanding customers are most prominently reflected in providing quality services to customers.
However, some businesses still do not know the principle of "people-oriented". Some defraud customers and end up with fewer and fewer customers. This is the economic consequence of "losing popular support".
Our country has not established a market economic system for a long time, and the supporting legal and regulatory system is still under construction and improvement. However, this does not mean that Chinese companies can abandon business ethics and stop talking about economic ethics. reasons.
We should be extremely pleased that operators in the same industry no longer brutally cut each other's wires, but instead become a number of telecommunications companies that are involved in litigation with each other after the spin-off of China Telecom.
Economic ethics is not far away from us.
Reference: "Southern Weekend"
Way to maintain mental health
Mental health refers to having normal intelligence, positive emotions, moderate emotions, Harmonious interpersonal relationships, good personality, strong will and mature psychological behavior, etc. Psychological health is closely related to a person's achievements, contributions, and talents. Mental health is the foundation for college students to be successful: 1. Mental health can promote the all-round development of college students. Healthy psychological quality is the basic requirement for the all-round development of college students. It is also the basic requirement for the all-round development of college students. It is also the future for college students to develop their intellectual level in the workplace, actively engage in social activities, and constantly strive for a better future. important conditions for high-level development. Fully understand that the harmonious development of moral, intellectual, physical, artistic and labor aspects is based on healthy psychological quality. A person's mental health status directly affects and restricts the realization of all-round development. 2. Mental health can enable college students to overcome their dependence and enhance their independence. After hard work and fierce competition, college students bid farewell to middle school, entered university, and entered a new world of life. College students must shift from relying on their parents to relying on themselves. Before going to college, they imagined that college was like a "paradise", romantic, strange, and wonderful. After going to college, intense study, strict discipline, and the living environment make it difficult for them to adapt. Therefore, college students must pay attention to their mental health, overcome dependence as soon as possible, enhance their independence, proactively adapt to college life, and live a fulfilling and meaningful college life. 3. Mental health is a solid psychological foundation for college students to achieve career success. At present, great changes have taken place in the distribution of work for college graduates in our country. College students all implement methods such as meeting supply and demand, two-way selection, and merit-based recruitment. The competition in career selection will inevitably cause psychological confusion and instability among college students. Exclaim "The emperor's daughter also Worry about getting married".
Therefore, facing the new situation, college students should pay attention to maintaining mental health, cultivating good psychological qualities of self-reliance, self-improvement, and self-discipline, exercising their social communication skills, and enabling themselves to make correct choices that suit their roles in a changing and complex social environment. Dare to face difficulties, setbacks and challenges, pursue a more perfect personality, and lay a solid psychological foundation for career success. 4. Mental health is conducive to cultivating healthy personality psychology among college students. The personality psychological characteristics of college students refer to various characteristics that they often and stably display psychologically and behaviorally, usually in the two main aspects of temperament and personality. Temperament mainly refers to the characteristics reflected by emotions. In addition to the characteristics contained in temperament, character also includes characteristics reflected by will. The psychological characteristics of contemporary college students generally include active thinking, good at independent thinking, strong sense of participation, energetic mental state, etc., which are conducive to the healthy growth of college students.
The Ministry of Education recently issued opinions on strengthening mental health education for college students, requiring local education departments and universities to fully understand the importance of strengthening mental health education for college students. The "Opinions" clarified the main tasks of the current mental health education for college students: teaching mental health knowledge in a targeted manner based on the psychological characteristics of college students, carrying out counseling or consulting activities, helping college students establish mental health awareness, optimize psychological quality, and enhance psychological well-being. Adjustment ability and adaptability to social life, prevention and relief of psychological problems. Help them deal with the confusion in environmental adaptation, self-management, learning, interpersonal communication, making friends and love, job selection, personality development and emotional regulation, improve their health, and promote all-round development of morality, intelligence, physical beauty, etc. Strengthening the mental health education of college students is an important measure to fully implement quality education under the new form, and is an important part of the moral education work in colleges and universities. This requires schools to conduct psychological tests on college students, analyze and study the psychological status of college students, and carry out psychological counseling activities. , educate and guide college students to continuously strengthen their psychological quality cultivation and exercise, and lay a good foundation for success.
So, how to eliminate their psychological gap and make them become talents smoothly? The specific ways and methods are as follows:
First, cultivate good personality qualities. A good personality quality should first understand oneself correctly, cultivate an attitude that is self-accepting, use strengths and avoid weaknesses, and constantly improve oneself. Secondly, we should improve our ability to withstand setbacks, have a correct understanding of setbacks, not panic in the face of setbacks, adopt rational coping methods, and turn negative factors into positive factors. The level of frustration tolerance is related to the individual's ideological realm, subjective judgment of frustration, and frustration experience. To improve the ability to withstand setbacks, one should strive to improve one's own ideological realm, establish a scientific outlook on life, actively participate in various practical activities, and enrich life experience.
Second, develop a scientific lifestyle. The impact of lifestyle on mental health has been proven by scientific research. A healthy lifestyle refers to living a regular life, combining work and rest, using the brain scientifically, insisting on physical exercise, drinking less, not smoking, and paying attention to hygiene. College students have a heavy learning burden and high psychological pressure. In order to maintain learning efficiency for a long time, they must scientifically arrange their daily study, exercise, and rest to make their lives regular. Learning to use your brain scientifically means using your brain diligently, rationally, and timely to avoid neurasthenia caused by excessive brain use and a decrease in thinking and memory abilities.
Third, strengthen self-psychological adjustment. The core content of self-regulation of mental health includes adjusting cognitive structure and emotional state, exercising will and quality, and improving adaptability. College students are in the stage of adolescence. The outstanding feature of adolescence is that human sexual physiology gradually enters an active state after experiencing the transition from germination to maturity. In a psychological development sense, this stage is an eventful time in life. This is because the lack of experience and naive knowledge determines that some aspects of human psychological development lag behind the growth rate of physiological functions during this period. Therefore, it is inevitable that there will be a lot of embarrassment, confusion, annoyance and distress during its development. On the other hand, our country is in a critical period of establishing a socialist market economy and realizing the strategic goals of socialist modernization. The social situation is undergoing complex and profound changes. Social competition is becoming increasingly fierce, the pace of life is accelerating, and science and technology are developing rapidly. This situation will also cause psychological contradictions and conflicts of one kind or another among young students who will enter the society sooner or later, such as parents being laid off, changes in family life, poor academic performance, failure to make friends, falling out of love, etc.
If these psychological problems persist and accumulate over time, they may become psychological obstacles that affect study and life. Let students face reality, learn to self-regulate, and maintain good contact with reality. Carry out self-regulation, give full play to subjective initiative to transform the environment, and strive to achieve your ideal goals. Therefore, college students should learn to adjust themselves psychologically and achieve mental health during the student process: 1. Maintain a strong interest in learning and desire for knowledge. Learning is the main task of college students. If you are interested in learning, you can consciously jump into the vast ocean of knowledge, desperately absorb new knowledge, and develop various abilities to improve your own quality and better adapt to the needs of social development. . 2. Maintain an optimistic mood and a good mood. College students should maintain a positive and optimistic mood, a happy and cheerful mood, and be full of confidence and hope for the future. When encountering sadness and sorrow, they must learn to self-regulate and express and control their emotions appropriately. , Don't be arrogant when you win, don't be discouraged when you lose, don't be overjoyed, and don't worry. 3. Maintain harmonious interpersonal relationships and be willing to interact. Mentally healthy students are willing to interact with others and can live in harmony with others in an attitude of understanding, tolerance, friendship, trust and respect. Through interpersonal communication, they can understand the social responsibilities of college students and cultivate the habit of observing discipline and social ethics. Enhance psychological adaptability, be able to work together and cooperate with others, maintain a coordinated relationship with the collective, and ensure the healthy psychological development of college students. 4. Maintain good environmental adaptability. The environments that have an impact on the psychology of college students include living environment, growth environment, learning environment, campus environment, etc.
Fourth, actively participate in extracurricular activities and develop social interactions. A variety of extracurricular activities not only enrich the lives of college students, but also provide opportunities for activities outside the classroom for the healthy development of college students. College students should cultivate a variety of interests, develop hobbies, and participate in various extracurricular activities to develop their potential, cheer up their spirits, relieve tension, and maintain physical and mental health. The exchange of ideas and the sharing of information and materials can only be achieved through social interactions. Developing social interactions can continuously enrich and activate people's inner world, which is beneficial to mental health care.
Fifth, seek help from psychological teachers or psychological counseling agencies to obtain psychological counseling knowledge. Psychology teachers have strong theoretical foundations and practical life experience, and have good answers and handling skills to the psychological problems faced by students. When necessary, college students turn to experienced psychological counselors or professionals and psychological teachers who have been engaged in psychological counseling for a long time. Psychological counseling refers to the process of using psychological methods and techniques to help clients become self-reliant through interpersonal relationships. From the perspective that psychological counseling has a therapeutic function, psychological counseling belongs to psychotherapy. As a treatment method and means, the subjects of psychotherapy are mainly normal people and people with mild mental disorders. Through the conversation and guidance between the counselor and the inquirer, we help the inquirer to correctly understand the root causes of his or her own psychological problems according to the various psychological adaptations and questions raised by the inquirer; guide the inquirer to solve the problem more effectively Regarding reality, it provides the inquirer with opportunities to establish new interpersonal relationships; increases the inquirer's psychological freedom, helps the inquirer change past psychological abnormalities, and ultimately restores a healthy psychology. Psychological consultation has both psychological prevention and psychological treatment functions. Through psychological consultation, it creates a good social and psychological environment and conditions for the consultation objects, improves their spiritual life quality and psychological efficacy level, so as to reduce and reduce psychological barriers and prevent mental diseases. The purpose of protecting mental health.
Learning is a hard mental work, and you will encounter many difficulties and setbacks in the learning process. Therefore, college students must achieve excellent academic results and master more scientific and cultural knowledge without will and perseverance. The upward spirit is impossible. With a healthy psychology, one should take a positive and enterprising outlook on life that serves the society as the core of one's personality, and use this as the center to unify one's needs, desires, goals and behaviors, establish lofty ideals, and "take the world as one's own responsibility", thus Generate a strong internal driving force for learning, push college students to work hard to complete their studies, and consciously climb to the peak of science. Mental health is an important guarantee for college students to master cultural and scientific knowledge. Having a good attitude can not only achieve good learning results, but also be beneficial to lifelong development. Without the cultivation of good psychology, qualified college students with advanced cultural knowledge cannot be cultivated. To sum up, mental health education is not only a requirement for improving the overall quality of college students, but also an important guarantee and foundation for the all-round development of college students and becoming "four haves" talents.
In short, college students must maintain mental health. Striving for physical and mental health is a top priority related to success. Only with the combination of healthy psychological quality and healthy physiological quality, coupled with the interaction of other positive factors, college students will have reliable internal conditions for talent, and new talents may rise.
“If young people are strong, the country will be strong; if young people are weak, the country will be weak; if young people are better than Europe, then the country will be better than Europe; if young people are strong with the earth, then the country will be strong with the earth.” Mr. Liang Qichao’s famous saying shocked the world. Carrying the hearts of generations of young college students, our college students must meet future challenges with good psychological quality and dedicate their youth to the prosperity of the country.