In the movie "Westward Journey", Tang Monk taught Sun Wukong in front of Guanyin, "You want it? If you want it, just say it. How will I know you want it if you don't say it? It's impossible for you "You want it but I don't give it to you, you don't want it but I insist on giving it to you. How can you be reasonable?"
At first glance, Luo Li is a bit rude, but upon closer inspection, it turns out to be a wise saying! How can there be any tacit understanding in this world without any reason? How would others know if you don’t tell me? Many times, if you don't say it and I don't say it, it means missing out.
Sun Wukong, who did not follow Tang Monk’s teachings, missed Fairy Zixia all his life, and made the classic movie "Westward Journey" that made thousands of crazy men and women complain and cry silently.
No matter how successful a person is, he will inevitably have a few regrets in his life, and ordinary people will have even more regrets.
If you work harder in high school, you will definitely be able to go to 985 or 211 colleges...
If you have a better temper, you will definitely be able to marry her sweetly...
< p> If I work harder and make more achievements, I will definitely be promoted, and my year-end bonus will be increased several times...Nowadays, no matter which city they are in, most people There are probably only two things I regret: one is not buying a house earlier, and the other is not being able to buy a few more houses...
Missing it has made countless people hope to get the Moonlight Treasure Box to travel through time and space, and severely beat the original one. Make your own choices and rewrite your destiny.
What if? if? if? Wake up, time is an irreversible river. With today's technology, it is impossible to go back to the past and rewrite our regrets.
There is nothing in this world that is missed for no reason.
Many times, our mistakes are due to ignorance and unwillingness to understand and learn in depth, as are many prejudices.
During the exam, you said, I know every punctuation mark on the test paper, but why can’t I understand them when they are put together? So, miss the result.
When communicating the project plan, you secretly thought, I heard every word Party A said, why can’t I understand it when they are put together? As a result, project orders are missed.
Li Xiaolai, the former famous teacher of New Oriental, the richest man in Bitcoin in China, a famous angel investor, a writer, and a master of community operations (each of these titles is enough to give him freedom of wealth), was still a teacher at New Oriental He once gave private lessons to a well-known domestic investor. As a reward, the investor also gave Li Xiaolai two and a half hours of lectures on entrepreneurship and investment. At that time, Li Xiaolai's reaction was that it sounded very powerful, but what does it have to do with me?
As fate would have it, Li Xiaolai also became an investor a few years later, but to this day, he still has not been able to understand what the famous investor said back then. But after experiencing it countless times, I suddenly realized: I have heard it before.
As a person who is willing to learn and constantly update his ideas, Li Xiaolai will miss a crucial lesson. If it were someone like me who was eager for quick success and quick profit, even if he didn't know how to invest, he would probably just take the class fee and leave as if it had nothing to do with me. I couldn’t even listen to the two-and-a-half-hour investment class, let alone understand what I missed.
I have recently joined several reading groups, and the friends in the groups share their reading thoughts and experiences from time to time. I also share it occasionally.
A few days ago, Xiao An from the reading group added me as a friend. She said that she had subscribed to Li Xiaolai's annual paid feature "The Road to Freedom of Wealth" in Get Column, and could share it with five friends for free. Xiao An invited me to join her sharing and learn with her. I readily agreed to such a good opportunity, but I felt ashamed of it, so I sent her the audio recordings of several issues of "Fan Deng Reading Club" that I had recorded.
Xiao An admitted that she saw in the group that I had recently read Li Xiaolai's book "Seven Years is a Lifetime". An inadvertent display resulted in a completely unexpected surprise.
After that, Xiao An regularly sent me the shared content, and then we left messages and discussed with each other. The rest of the time, we made a tacit agreement not to disturb each other. In the early winter in the north, I dreamed of making money to buy a mink every day, and I also wished little An all the best in the bright sunshine of the south.
This is just a small blessing that was not missed. The key that some entrepreneurial masters have not missed is that they have insights, opinions, trends, and then take action. Not only did he not miss it, he even created an opportunity.
Jack Ma has seized the wave of Internet e-commerce, Ma Huateng has used WeChat to get a big piece of the mobile Internet pie, and Zhang Yiming has rewritten the distribution method of traditional media with Toutiao...
They Behind this wave of opportunities, in addition to opportunities, there are countless preparations: when Jack Ma was an English teacher, he went abroad to help people collect accounts, and he learned about the popularity of the Internet wave abroad before returning to China to prepare; Ma Huateng has QQ with a huge user base, completely defeating Xiaomi Mi Chat, completing the perfect iteration from PC-side social networking to mobile Internet social networking; Zhang Yiming sensed that the efficient flow of information is a cool thing, and created the information distribution platform Jinri Toutiao.
If you are not fully prepared and aware, you will miss many opportunities even if they are placed in front of you. On the contrary, if you accumulate enough, you can create opportunities and bring surprises even if there are no opportunities.
If you make a mistake, you will miss it. If you miss it, it’s over.