Don’t let your state of mind be limited to a small space. If your mind is like the ocean, you can reach the state of transcendence.

Lao Tzu said: "The common people are looking at me, but I am in a daze. The common people are looking at me, but I am depressed. I feel like the sea, and I feel like there is no end."

" Everyone was bustling and in high spirits, as if they were going to a grand banquet, as if they were going to a grand banquet, as if they were on the stage in spring overlooking the beautiful scenery, but I was alone, indifferent and quiet, indifferent. Everyone had something left, but I seemed to have nothing, only I have a fool's heart; everyone is dazzling, but I am confused; everyone is harsh and harsh, but I am honest and generous; everyone in the world is smart and capable, but I am stupid and clumsy on the outside. He is chaotic, but his heart is clear and free, and he is independent from the world. He does not use his intelligence to be superior to others, but shows himself to be ordinary and ordinary. Although his behavior is worldly, his mentality is worldly and he does not care about personal interests. "

Life has no purpose, that is, "just take it as it comes" and "go with the flow." Not everyone can do things in the world with a worldly mind. When you live in the world, follow the way of Fangyuan and try your best. Contribute your own strength, work tirelessly, do not care about fame and fortune, do not take credit, and uphold the spirit of the universe and the endless growth of all things. You can only give without any tendency to take it for yourself, let alone ask for anything in return.

The highest moral standard is to behave in a harmonious way, and to worry about gains and losses and blame others is contrary to the spirit of Fangyuan. All actions should be done like clouds and flowing water, doing what is right and what should be done, and doing what should be done, like a wild goose flying across the sky, leaving no trace or trace in the heart. "There is no trace of wings in the sky, but The birds have flown by. ”

The way of life is that “useless things can be of great use”. To embrace all functions with a mind that integrates nothingness, and to use everything for my own use, is the real great use.

Respecting oneself and others is an important way to achieve harmony and harmony in interpersonal relationships. To do this, we must first "do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you," and then go further to "establish others if you want to be established by yourself. "Master".

A virtuous person wants to stand firm himself, but also helps others to stand firm. If he wants everything to work, he also wants to help others to stand firm. It works. We must truly establish ourselves and others, reach ourselves and help others.

With the continuous progress and development of society, the interactions between people are getting closer and closer, and interpersonal relationships are also becoming more and more important. It’s getting more and more complicated. It’s particularly important to cultivate the virtue of treating others with respect and to improve interpersonal relationships.

Treat the people around you with love for yourself, and no matter what you do, you must use your own feelings to understand others. Feelings, imagine the situation of others based on your own situation, put yourself in the other person's shoes, treat others as yourself, and put yourself in others' shoes. But not everything should be done to others as you want. , You must be wise when recommending yourself to others. After all, not everything that is beneficial to you is also applicable to others, and not everything that is beneficial to others can be accepted by others. When they do not want to accept it, they must not "this is for them." "It's good" and force them to accept it, because everyone has the right to make free choices. If you violate this right, won't you also fall into the trap of "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you"?

Even giving requires tact.