The main reasons for jealousy are: seeing others have what you want but don't, or others have done what you want but dare not do. Therefore, it is normal to have such emotions. Simply put, you feel that people who are not as good as you are better off than you, and you are very uncomfortable. And you can't solve this phenomenon! This is jealousy, usually accompanied by depression, impetuousness, pain and unwillingness! If you want to solve it, either leave or make yourself stronger!
Teenagers are in the period of puberty, energetic and competitive, hoping to get attention and recognition from others. Their outlook on life and values have not yet been finally formed, and they still have a strong rebellious mentality. It is normal to be jealous. To overcome their psychology, say that the estimated results are not very good! It is best to borrow from others, find some stories to tell them, or send short messages, give more guidance, communicate more, discuss more, encourage more, establish their sense of example, form a peaceful mind, objectively understand things, objectively analyze and solve problems, and gradually form their correct outlook on life and values!
Parents should help their children learn to know and evaluate themselves correctly and be self-aware. It is not a bad thing not to admit defeat and not to lag behind, but for various reasons, the differences between people in some aspects are objective. If you can't face up to this gap, you will only ask for trouble in the end.
We should strengthen our self-cultivation, overcome selfishness and establish a correct outlook on people. The root of jealousy is a private word. Others surpass themselves in some ways, which makes their interest or image relatively low. Therefore, jealousy arises spontaneously. Tao Zhu has a famous saying, "The bottom of my heart is selfless and the world is wide." Only by thoroughly eradicating selfish distractions can we help overcome jealousy.
Choose a breakthrough and shift the direction of competition. Take a positive "jealous" way and surpass others through your own subjective efforts. If others have a solid foundation in Chinese than you, you should try to catch up with your competitors in math or English while learning Chinese well. Only through our own efforts can we win the praise of teachers and classmates.
Enhance self-confidence. People are jealous because they feel inferior to each other, which shows that they are not confident enough. As long as you have confidence in yourself, you must firmly believe that you will surpass each other one day. With this kind of psychology, your jealousy will disappear, and you may even become good friends with each other.
We should treat the psychology of comparison correctly. There will be comparison when people are alive, and everything can be changed in comparison, but there must be a limit to everything. We must control our thoughts and actions in a suitable range, turn this meaningless comparison into meaningful behavior, and thus change and improve ourselves.
Help them set short-term goals. Let him feel his ability and sense of accomplishment during this time and establish self-confidence. Let them further realize their own advantages and some positive qualities. In this way, step by step, while building self-confidence, jealousy will naturally disappear.
Participate in all kinds of activities. Let children know each other, show their different advantages, increase friendship, learn from each other, communicate with classmates and learn together.
We should establish correct values and outlook on life. We should realize that jealousy is an unhealthy psychology, and once we have such an idea, we should try our best to restrain it and not let it develop. As long as we guide ourselves with the correct value orientation, we will certainly not go further and further on the road of "jealousy". A good attitude can guide correct behavior and make everything develop in a beautiful direction!