Speaking is a very important form of expression in people’s daily lives. Through talking, people can better understand each other, communicate with each other, and communicate with each other.
Tell me everything you know, and tell me everything you know. A hundred people will praise it without encrypting it, and a hundred people will destroy it without sparing it. This is one of the famous sayings of Su Xun, a great writer in the Song Dynasty.
The speaker is not guilty, but the listener is warned. That is to say, listen carefully to the opinions of others and learn from their strengths. Even if the opinions you give are incorrect, there is nothing wrong with it. Even if there is no such mistake, it is worth learning from.
However, when doing things, don’t talk too much, but be able to talk. As a human being, you should learn to speak throughout your life and learn to shut up throughout your life. When you don’t understand, speak less and listen attentively; when you understand, speak less and don’t show off. He is both eager to learn and humble. Sometimes, it is better to be silent than to say too much to avoid accidentally saying the wrong thing, hurting people, and embarrassing others.
Misfortune comes from the mouth, and too many words will lead to mistakes. See a person clearly, see through a thing, see through the truth, don't talk nonsense, lose your temper, don't say it if it's not necessary, don't say it if it's not necessary, just understand it in your heart, and you won't hurt yourself. , offend others.
When doing things, one would rather be confused than talkative. The heart is like a clear mirror, the eyes can see clearly, but the mouth does not say anything. This is actually the way to be a human being. Because some people are not as kind and friendly as they appear on the surface. So, don’t speak, speak less, keep to yourself, keep quiet about others, and no one will think you are dumb.
Be a law-abiding person, do things honestly, don’t talk nonsense, don’t cause trouble, don’t be afraid of it, and be good to others and yourself.
1. Quick and eager to learn, not ashamed to ask questions - Confucius
2. Proficiency comes from hard work, but waste from play; success comes from thinking,