Perception and emotion are 1000 words. Books can fundamentally sublimate a person's thoughts. A book with profound thoughts is well worth reading. Post-reading feeling is a literary genre that expresses feelings. Learning intensive reading is an important way to read books thoroughly. Perception and emotion are 1000 words, which may bring you different thinking.
Sensibility and emotion 1000 words 1 If one day, the person you love leaves you, what will you do? Heartbroken, feeling that every minute in life is pale without him? Or do you live as usual as if nothing had happened, but you will cry and miss for no reason one night, and then hate your disappointment? In any case, as long as you have loved, it will be difficult to recover! What should be the correct answer? Actually, there is no positive solution. Only that day, after watching Sense and Sensibility, I suddenly understood one thing.
Eleanor's reason and precise handling of feelings are really admirable. And Marianne's passion for feelings is really admirable. The two sisters agree that they are beautiful and kind, but they have different attitudes towards love. Marianne was in great pain after Willoughby abandoned her. Every day, Lacrimosa feels that he has lost the whole world and doesn't cherish his body. Women are always at a disadvantage in love. This situation is not a fact, but a regret of women themselves. No one has to be with someone for life. Missed, can only show that there is no fate. He is not the man in your life. Don't say there are too many good memories between you. Memories are a lock that will lock you up and prevent you from looking for the right person. If you refuse to fall in love because of injury, I think this is the stupidest woman. You can't stop eating eggs for life just because you ate bad eggs last time. You live in the dark for those who hurt you. He won't see your tears, and he won't do anything if he does. What a stupid thing it is! ! You have a beautiful appearance, you have a smart brain, you have dexterous hands, you have an angelic heart, and now? The rest, red eyes, gaunt face, tired body, broken heart. . . So don't be silly. Women should know how to cherish themselves. Even if people all over the world don't love you, it doesn't matter, because at least one person still loves you deeply, and that is yourself.
Eleanor was very sad when she learned the news of Edward's marriage, but unlike her sister, she controlled her emotions rationally. She didn't blame anyone too much, just silently bear it. Yes, no one in the world can help you if you don't help yourself. When someone breaks up with you, don't cry. Smile and tell him "I've been waiting for you to say this for a long time", then turn around and walk away. From the moment we break up, we should be kind to ourselves, not to make him regret it, but to make our life more colorful. Don't think that rational people shouldn't cry, that's all wet! Everyone has the right to cry, but after crying, learn to smile. What kind of woman is a smart woman? I think it's the kind of person who loves a man seriously, but I don't mean to devote myself wholeheartedly, but to understand that seven points is enough to love a person, and the remaining three points are for myself.
Women should know how to cherish themselves. You should believe that you are the most beautiful and you can be happy. You have to believe that there will always be people like Braden going to school to come to you. All you have to do is take good care of yourself and then give yourself to him when he shows up.
After reading the word 1000, reason and emotion all say that women in love have zero IQ. However, Jane Austen's Sense and Sensibility not only proves the truth of this statement, but also subverts its absoluteness.
Marianne, one of the protagonists in the novel, is the so-called type with zero IQ in love. However, what makes her IQ "zero" Although we have to admit: in love, sometimes we do forget other things or are willing to tolerate some things because of some love things. But the most important thing is a person's personality. If a person's personality is impulsive, such as Marianne, he can't look at reality objectively, just want to immerse himself in the sweetness of love and enjoy the present, regardless of long-term things. Marianne is like this. A typical one. When she met the handsome Willoughby, she was once immersed in enjoying the happiness of love, but when Willoughby didn't promise her, she still looked forward to it. She never takes a long-term view, does not know Willoughby in detail, and treats it objectively. Although her sister Eleanor tried to persuade her several times, she failed. Finally, when the real mask of Willoughby was exposed, how sad and painful Marianne was, which was a heavy blow to her. She finally woke up to her sister's advice. After a long period of sadness, she had to accept the reality.
Therefore, impulse will be punished in some things, and everything should be thought twice before you act, so as not to cause greater harm and deeper pain.
On the contrary, although reason can be painful, hope is still not shattered, and it will not be painful in the end. Eleanor, another hero of the novel, is such a person with rational personality. She is careful in everything and takes care of their home (because her mother is a person with Marianne character). She is the most painful, but she can always control her emotions, and it is reason that overcomes her. She is careful with people and things around her so as not to offend others, which is different from Marianne's willful behavior. She can say whatever she wants and do whatever she wants. So she gets along well with everyone and wins the love and respect of people around her.
Her reason is especially manifested in dealing with her emotional relationship with Edward. Edward is a man who is not good at expressing his feelings. Although Eleanor felt that he loved herself, she didn't want to solve the mystery impulsively. Because after careful observation, she found that Edward might be hiding something. Sure enough, when Lucy later learned that Edward was engaged to her, she kept silent and felt cautious and depressed at the same time, instead of dumping her feelings on her mother or sister (she didn't think it was necessary to worry them).
Eleanor always overcame the ups and downs of her inner feelings intellectually. She suffered a lot, but in the end, fate told her that her rational approach was right. Because Eleanor didn't disclose the news of Edward's engagement with Lucy, she gave them tolerance and didn't embarrass Edward. In the end, the balance of heaven was biased in her favor and she got the happiness she deserved because of her reason.
Therefore, we need to choose, and reason should always take precedence over emotion, because the choice made by reason will never make us regret it. Impulsive behavior, I think, is like multiple-choice questions, and sometimes it's just right.
After reading Sense and Sensibility, I finally finished reading Sense and Sensibility today. I don't know, I feel empty and a little lost. Just like what a person has been chasing, suddenly it is gone. This is how I feel at this moment.
Let's talk about this novel again. It abandoned the love, affection, friendship and people's hearts in that social background. Although it is the ending of comedy, it also gives people a lot of pressure. This novel revolves around the love triangle between Eleanor and Marianne. Eleanor loved Edward, but her sister-in-law stopped her. She thinks that her brother will marry a noble lady with property. She fainted with anger when she heard that Edward was engaged to Lucy, who was even inferior to Eleanor. This is society. People's value is measured by money, and love is nothing. Mrs. John is obviously a typical representative who is more rational and less emotional. On the other hand, Mr. John is more indifferent to his family. He promised his dead father to take care of his widowed mother and two sisters, but in the end he drove them away to save money. It's all about money. Edward was obviously engaged to Lucy, but he had an affair with Eleanor, which later brought Eleanor great pain. On the other hand, Lucy is a cunning woman. When she heard the news that Eleanor loved Edward, she deliberately made friends with her and pretended to trust her and told her the fact that she was engaged to Edward. This is undoubtedly adding salt to Eleanor's wound. Lucy showed off in front of Eleanor under the guise of friendship. At the same time, she also showed her ignorance, power and rhetoric. Eleanor must be a person whose reason transcends her feelings. She controlled her emotions well and didn't let her family worry, but she was undoubtedly very painful. Therefore, it is difficult for a girl who is too rational to be loved, because she makes people feel distressed.
On the contrary, my sister Marianne, who is full of romantic fantasies about love, thinks that life is incomplete without a romantic love. In her love with Willoughby, she gave him all her feelings. After learning that she was abandoned, she got into trouble, avoided the crowd and hid in the corner all day. For a romantic girl, the reality can undoubtedly make her grow up quickly. Only after experiencing pain can she realize that in her mind, the world is not an ivory tower. Willoughby always idled and lived in luxury, and finally married a girl with property under the pressure of bankruptcy. He is just beautiful in appearance and empty in heart.
People in the story choose their own lives, but their values are gradually formed under the influence of this social environment. Should we condemn their coldness and hypocrisy or sympathize with them? How to choose between reason and emotion?
Walpole, a British scholar, famously said, "The world is a comedy understood by reason and a tragedy understood by emotion." As far as this novel is concerned, it is undoubtedly related to the theme, but I can't agree with it in real life. If life can only rely on rational constraints and lacks impulsive passion, then life will lose a lot of fun. Life is not about length, but about whether you live happily. Sanmao also said: "I want to be a garbage collector when I grow up ... The garbage dump in the eyes of garbage collectors is the most charming garden in the world. Because of this profession, you can not only breathe fresh air, but also wander and play in the street, play while working, and be as free and happy as a bird in the sky. More importantly, people often unconsciously throw away many good things that can still be used as garbage. The happiest moment for scavengers is to dig up these good things that have been dusty for a long time. This ..... "Such a free and easy life and mentality can never be understood by a rational person.