“Thousands of years ago, literati warned future generations through catchy poems that they must stand in the right perspective when dealing with things. Let other factors interfere with your perception of the truth.
The Song Dynasty man's wall was damaged by rain, and his son and neighbor gave him the same reminder: "Repair the wall to prevent theft." After the thieves came, the Song Dynasty man praised his son's foresight. But he doubted whether his neighbor's hands and feet were clean. Why did the same reminder lead to completely different attitudes? I am afraid that the people of Song Dynasty were blinded by the emotional closeness!
Since ancient times
People have attached great importance to the impact of emotional factors on the success of an event. "Brothers fight tigers, and father and son fight in battle." It is true that emotional intimacy may play a positive role in career success. However, in understanding the essence of things, emotional intimacy sometimes It can also cause misunderstandings and mislead people. Foreign scientists once conducted an experiment in which subjects were asked to select the one that best met the aesthetic standards from a set of photos. As a result, the faces selected by the subjects were mostly similar to those of their relatives and friends. Excluding personal aesthetic concepts, the impact of daily exposure to life on people can be seen.
If visual judgment is like this, how can the insight into the essence of things be even worse? Since ancient times
How many people have been deceived by emotional factors. The royal family of the Western Jin Dynasty wanted to make the world under the control of the Sima family, but they did not know that the good and the bad were mixed among all the efforts, which eventually led to the Rebellion of the Eight Kings and the Five Chaos in the Central Plains. In the Three Kingdoms, Kong Ming was very fond of
Ma Di. He forgot about the former master's evaluation of Ma Di and entrusted him with heavy responsibilities. In the end, "The Master's Guide" had no "real name for the world", which inevitably made the hero cry. "Many". Nowadays, aren't there examples of leading cadres showing favoritism to others, thus
causing Xiao Qiang? It can be seen that when we understand things and behave in society, if we wear emotional colored glasses, it will be very harmful!
"Don't be afraid of the clouds covering your eyes, just because you are at the top. "If you don't want to be blinded by the clouds of emotional likes and dislikes
it's a good idea to be at a high place and look around. The Yue family's army is powerful all over the world. It is precisely because Yue Fei transcends family preferences and punishes Yue with military regulations. Yun, the military style was greatly suppressed, so there was a beautiful saying that "it is easy to shake Mount Tai, but it is difficult to shake the Yue family's army". Kong Ming shed tears and killed Ma Di afterwards to suppress military discipline, so that the military and the country would not be ruined due to emotional intimacy. A fair decision is often based on rational observation and thinking, and getting rid of emotional interference is a prerequisite for making a correct rational evaluation. It is difficult to make a decision that completely transcends emotions. However, by thinking twice and thinking from multiple angles, you can try to avoid emotional misdirection. The principles of "avoidance" and "negotiation" in today's legal system in our country are not the guidance and guidance for rational handling. Do you advocate it?
“It looks like a ridge on the side and a peak on the side, with different heights from far to near. "Rational observation from all aspects will help us overcome emotional misunderstandings and truly realize the complexity and variability of things."
And at the highest level with an unobstructed view, freed from the fetters of emotions, we may be able to chant: "Don't let the clouds obscure your eyes!"