In the old society, parents' decisions were irresistible and daughters had to obey them. It is impossible for a daughter to criticize her parents' decisions, nor to resist their parents' wishes. Therefore, only by complaining, only by remembering, only by remembering can we blame ourselves, blame others, and express our tragic fate. Therefore, between the lines of the poem, the daughter's cleverness is reflected, and many classic sentences of her mother and daughter are used, making some classic famous sentences sung to this day and enduring. . . . . .
Legend has it that in ancient times, Yi women were very clever and should be a matriarchal clan society. Many Yi women even surpass Yi men in wisdom. For example, Mizi Aji, Ziniza, Ayi Qubu, Gamo A Niu, Buashgawi, etc. Yi men began to resist women's intelligence. In order to conquer the wisdom of Yi women, Yi men are not suppressed. After discussion, the Yi men decided to put a "golden hoop curse"-a black headband-on the heads of married Yi women with children, which is called "Oh 'er" in Yi language, which means to gather the wisdom of Yi women and forbid them to surpass men. A Yi proverb says: Women can only: "Luo Yi Ni, Gawu Xi"-Chinese means "going up to the attic and down to the eaves" to prevent them from going further and knowing more. The Yi proverb also says, "Sinnemo is wood, Gail is thick"-Chinese means "women can't talk about the past, pots and pans can't be piers". Since then, women have retired from the background and become good wives and mothers.