For a long time, we have had a misunderstanding, that is, extroverts are more advantageous and more suitable for this gregarious human society.

Similarly, in the relationship between men and women, people take it for granted that lively and cheerful extroverted girls are more popular with men.

However, this is not the case. Psychology tells us that introverts also have valuable personality qualities that extroverts do not have.

Compared to bold and proactive extroverted girls, the more introverted a woman is, the more powerful she is. In terms of emotions, she is better at capturing a man's heart. What is introversion?

In psychology, introversion refers to a type of temperament orientation. Carl Jung first formally proposed the concepts of extroversion and introversion in his 1921 "Psychological Typology".

The difference between these two qualities is the direction in which the psychological energy is directed. For introverts, their energy is directed inward, so they are more interested in the inner world, quieter, and like to be alone, introspective, and think.

In his personality questionnaire, Eysenck described the typical introverted personality as: quiet, aloof, conservative, introspective, preferring to be alone but not in contact with people, and accustomed to keeping a certain distance from people.

Tend to do things in a planned manner, looking forward and backward, and not acting on impulse. Daily life is regular and rigorous, etc.

It can be seen that introversion and extroversion are just one type of human temperament, and they are not comparable as good or bad. Moreover, introversion has more social and survival advantages than people think in conventional thinking. What advantages do introverted women have that are easily overlooked?

1. Delicate minds and better at taking care of others

We are accustomed to believe that women tend to have more sensitive and delicate personality traits than men, and a psychological study further shows that introversion Women with a type of personality are not only more sensitive than men, but also have a more sensitive sensory mechanism and emotional response mechanism than extroverted women of the same age group.

This means that introverted women tend to analyze and respond to the same thing more quickly and carefully.

Azhan used to be a patient with depression, and he has always been afraid of love and marriage, until he met his current girlfriend.

She was a shy and introverted girl. At first, Ajan’s friends were not optimistic about the couple, and felt that Ajan should find a lively, cheerful, sunny and confident girl, so that he could be cured. The heartbreak of the past.

However, it was precisely such an inconspicuous and introverted woman who completely saved Ajan.

In the process of getting along with each other, emotionally, she can always be keenly aware of Azhan's subtle emotional changes, and give him the most gentle and delicate guidance and comfort in a timely manner; in life, she is even more considerate and treats Azhan. Zhan took great care of me.

"In our life, it is not rare to encounter love or sex. What is rare is to encounter understanding."

Undoubtedly, for Azhan, this sensitive and delicate , The introverted and taciturn girl is the one who truly understands him, respects him, and tolerates him.

2. People with strong emotional ability are better at managing a relationship

In a psychological test for introverted and extroverted personalities, it was found that compared with extroverted People, introverts tend to have stronger emotional ability, and in the introverted group, women have stronger emotional ability than men.

The so-called "emotional ability" means the ability to transcend one's own narcissism and understand the narcissism of others. In layman's terms, it is the ability to put yourself in the shoes of others and experience the situation of others, so as to achieve feelings and understanding. The emotional capacity of others.

We often say that no one can truly put themselves in another person's shoes and understand the mood and emotions of another person's situation.

Just like what Mr. Lu Xun said: "Human beings' joys and sorrows are not the same. I only think they are noisy."

However, for a considerable number of introverted women, perhaps they can relate to the joys and sorrows of others.

Although they seem taciturn and inarticulate, they have more delicate and sensitive hearts and stronger emotional abilities than ordinary people.

This unique and powerful ability to love means that in an intimate relationship, an introverted woman can take care of the other person more thoughtfully and meticulously, even the slightest feeling.

3. Good at being alone, giving people a high-level sense of peerless independence

Painter and director Stallone said: "When people pursue their ideals, they fall into loneliness." < /p>

Yes, people are born lonely; a person who wants to walk firmly in his heart and listen to the call of his soul, a person who wants to realize himself, the first thing he needs to learn is to enjoy loneliness.

Introverted women undoubtedly have more valuable qualities for self-realization and success, because they are all introverted personalities and are used to and tend to accumulate energy through internal psychological activities, so they are better at being alone, Enjoy long periods of solitude.

Furthermore, each of us is an independent individual. We can work together but should not move forward together. Only those who can withdraw from the intimate circle of passion from time to time can have the opportunity to "recharge" themselves and at the same time. Give each other time to breathe.

This is the maintenance of spiritual cultivation and personality integrity, and it is also the key to keeping a relationship fresh and going further.

Therefore, the "superpower" of introverted women to get along with themselves is obviously more conducive to the longevity and stability of an intimate relationship.

In fact, many people who eventually achieve great achievements are mostly introverts. Madeleine Inge once said that if no one spent time reading and thinking when she was a child, she would not become Such a bold thinker; another example is that the goddess Audrey Hepburn also said that she prefers to be alone, saying that if there is a chance, she is willing to stay alone from Saturday night to Monday morning...

And when you When you are loved by an introverted woman, you will feel more deeply that there is a deep flavor in the sensitive and delicate love: "I want a thousand eyes of the eternal night so that I can watch you alone. .

——One day you will find that the more introverted a woman is, the more charming and powerful she is.