Top 10 tricks to deal with villains
1. Stay away or avoid them. For despicable and shameless snobs, because they often adopt the tactic of "doing one thing in front of others and doing another behind the scenes", on the one hand, they do everything possible to suppress their competitors and create a lot of difficulties for them to survive; on the other hand, they will find ways to slip up and flatter their leaders. They are flatterers. Therefore, generally speaking, these people will be trusted and reused by their leaders. Some are your direct leaders, some are your work partners, and some are your colleagues. what to do? Since you cannot isolate yourself from them in work and life, the only thing you can do when facing these people is to try not to or reduce your interactions with them, and try to avoid or reduce your contact with them in work or life. , try not to reveal your privacy to him.
2. Never include them in your friends list. When you join a group (such as school or work unit, etc.), when choosing friends, you must divide the friends you make into "three, six, or nine grades" and adopt different methods of communication according to friends of different grades. As for such despicable and shameless villains, you must not include them in the list of core friends or close friends. It is best not to include them in the list of friends, as long as there is superficial etiquette. You will be hurt when you give sincerely, and you will avoid being fatally plotted by such people.
3. Avoid discussing important core issues with them. Everyone will have their own privacy or relatively important issues that require the opinions and suggestions of friends. If you are a leader, you will have major official or business decisions that need to be heard in advance. At this time, try to avoid letting such "things happen" If people who are "too weak to reveal anything" are involved, they will definitely not help you keep secrets. They will show off everywhere in order to show that they can master more core secrets than others, and they will be complacent in order to show their special relationship or status with the leader.
If you don’t want to mess things up, please always keep silent to such people and never discuss important or core issues with them.
Four. Resolutely abandon this type of people when forming a team. As the saying goes, "One mouse droppings will ruin the whole pot of porridge." If a team wants to have combat effectiveness, first of all, everyone in the team should have team spirit, cooperation spirit, and dedication spirit. However, the despicable and dirty people's first priority is not the team. They often think more about how much benefit they can get in this team. What they think most about is how to scheme against their colleagues so that they can gain both fame and wealth. Sometimes, they will do it for their own petty gain. This is the scary thing about this type of people who pursue small profits without hesitation at the expense of team and collective interests. Therefore, this type of people will inevitably become "rat shit" in a team.
5. Choose an opportunity to remind leaders to guard against despicable people. For despicable and shameless villains who are reused by leaders, remember not to directly state their despicableness in front of the leader. Doing so will often have the opposite effect. Most leaders will think that you are doubting the leadership's employment standards, doubting the leader's nepotism, and doubting the leader's ability to work. This is a very taboo "Achilles' heel" for leaders. Some leaders will also think that you are jealous and jealous. Being jealous will lead to doubts about whether there is a problem with your character, which will ultimately affect your impression in the mind of the leader.
The best way is to choose the right opportunity to help the leader analyze the reasons for a certain thing that was not done well. You can vaguely inform the leader of the person's behavior in the unit, such as why he did not get it. Colleagues' assistance, etc., subtly affect the leader's trust in them.
6. Make adequate firewalls to prevent despicable people from destroying. For such despicable and snobbish people, we should have a strong balance in our hearts. When dealing with such people, we must not have the intention to harm others and the intention to guard against others. For this kind of people, you must remember the wise saying passed down by your ancestors, "Speak only three points of your words, and never give your whole heart." Otherwise, you will die miserably, and you don't even know yourself. How did he die?
The best way to deal with this kind of person is to just listen but not speak, always update the firewall in your mind, and always remind yourself not to expose your true thoughts easily, especially if you have any thoughts about your boss or friends, you must not Let such despicable people know about it and start spreading rumors and stirring up trouble.
7. Treat others in their own way. Despicable people are good at using dirty tricks, such as spreading rumors to stir up trouble, stirring up trouble, sowing dissension, etc. They usually appear as your close friends or children, and take advantage of you to "stab you" when you are not prepared. When it comes to your core interests, such as democratic assessment, professional title assessment, advanced assessment, promotion assessment, etc., they know that you meet the set conditions, but this kind of person will say to your face that they will definitely vote for you, and in Behind the scenes, they are singing the opposite tune.
To deal with this kind of person, you can also adopt the method of "repaying him with his own treatment", so that he can also taste the pain of being plotted against.
8. Confront and ruin their living environment. Another way is that when you hear a despicable person spreading rumors or nonsense, you can ask him to confront him within the scope of spreading rumors. This is to prevent him from getting down the stairs, make him feel extremely embarrassed, and make him feel extremely embarrassed. People in the circle know that he likes to stir up trouble and let everyone know that they should always be vigilant when interacting with him, so that this kind of person has no room to live as he pleases.
This kind of person is generally more afraid of me confronting him, because he also knows that what he says is not true and cannot stand the test of scrutiny. As long as you understand this kind of person's weaknesses and fight with him several times, this despicable and shameless person will understand your strength, and he will not dare to mess with you in the future.
Of course, when dealing with such despicable and shameless people, dealing with such social "scum", try not to have a head-on conflict, so as not to accidentally hurt yourself. After all, this kind of people can do everything except face. came out.
In reality, we often encounter people who come to explore other people's secrets. We must be careful. They must be a villain who spreads gossip and gossips. The best trick is to answer the question without answering it.
When you encounter a hypocrite who sighs and sighs in front of you, well-intentioned people are the easiest to be fooled. Always give him some comfort. Nine out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory, and you are the same. , the villain secretly rejoices in being fooled. The best trick is to say that the fun landscape makes it ignorant.
When you meet someone who deliberately talks about other people’s rights and wrongs in front of you, whether it’s good or bad, etc., don’t think of him as your good friend or anything like that. This person is even more terrifying. He is jealous and thinks about himself all day long, worried that others will surpass him, and talks with a big mouth. Think about it, he can talk about other people's right and wrong in front of himself, but he will also talk about his own right and wrong in front of others. The trick to return home is to respond to the villain's words without saying anything.
When I meet an antique gamer, I want to talk to myself about the past and present, talk about politics, military affairs, market trends, etc., long stories about domestic and foreign affairs, and talk endlessly from morning to afternoon, such as If the speaker is talking about himself, he doesn't want to hear it or doesn't like it. Then they will be accused of being ignorant and ignorant people who have little knowledge and ideas. The best trick to deal with this so-called knowledgeable villain is to cleverly find ways to stay away from urgent matters.
Don’t blush when someone tells a lie. The lies he tells are more vivid and natural than those of an actor. He flaunts himself with false pretenses and covers up his own exaggeration to elevate himself and detract from others. The best way to deal with fake people is to stay away from them.