Everyone will grow up every time they go through a stage, so I will share two life experiences of growing up for your reference. I hope you like it.
People's life will go through the natural growth process of youth, middle age and old age, which constitutes the simple growth of our life. All the ups and downs are permeated in it. Growth is frozen here and chaotic here.
Do you remember our high spirits when we were teenagers? "Let's get drunk, stay in your house and sing a song to send you away. If he won Ling Yunzhi when he was young, he would dare to laugh at Zhou Lang's failure as a husband. " We are happy and look forward to the dream of youth.
However, students' profound knowledge has been crushed by wheels for decades. Parents, wives, children, breadwinners, when the burden of life is on their shoulders one by one, numb thinking can still retain some of their heroic words when they were young; Ordinary busyness, administrative noise, fame and fortune will kill the spirit of youth; Standing silently, an ordinary person who eats human fireworks feels the double pain of life itself and thinking about life.
At dusk, a completely exhausted body only expects the end of seclusion.
Slow down the hasty pace, avoid life doing nothing with the passage of time, and start to ponder the weight of life carefully.
Liu Qing said that a person's life takes 60 years as a unit. My understanding of growth includes not only the natural growth process of youth, middle-aged and old people, but also an abstract growth process of understanding life, awakening thoughts and building spirit.
I have a teacher. On the first day I met him, he told me that if we want to stand louder in the world, we should climb mountains day after day. I still feel the real warmth from his initial concern, and at the same time let me understand the value of falling in love with growth.
What is growth? Self-questioning, as far as I'm concerned, is a growing conversation I'm used to. In my opinion, growth is the life noumenon of strong temptation, the thoughts and feelings of consciously pursuing miserable life quality, and the taste of spirit (including wisdom, conduct, ethics, etc.). ) is what we worked hard to build. And I think the most important thing for growth is not to find a concept, but to pay attention to the growth footprint and grasp the pulse of growth when completing this destiny unit.
When we were young, we shouted our own manifesto. We thank youth for giving us souls that we yearn for more. But we should get rid of youth, because at that time we developed a thin shell that was too reckless. We are not old yet, so we should abandon the dim idea of retirement. Middle age, an age of self-choice, is the time for us to do serious things for our own growth. We should not wake up because of the environment, but consciously go beyond ourselves: wash our original desires and filter out the miscellaneous things in society.
The road to growth comes out step by step. The good news of reaching the top of the world and falling from the pie can't please me. The experience of growing up is measuring the distance with your own feet. Even if I fall, I just pat the dirt and get back on the road. Trees can best explain the connotation of growth: growth is the most essential feature of life, self-denial, self-doubt and self-renewal until the last moment of life. Growth can only be slow, which is really the only correct and basic criterion for growth.
We can't predict the future, maybe this is the beauty of growth. Based on this blank, we can freely construct our personality structure. The value of official position is not high, and the temptation of love is not heavy. We focus on honest and thorough life, and we greatly extend the beauty of human nature around us: natural indifference and real optimism, which are many wonderful experiences and gifts brought to us by growth.
Tolerance should be the true meaning of growth. Let the eyes get used to mottled colors, let the ears get used to different sounds, have more Mu Na and dying, have less arguments and entanglements, cherish the growth and nourishment given by the quiet and strong attitude towards life, and finally build our healthy life hall.
The hardships of economic life, the induction of social atmosphere and many unexpected disasters will pose a threat to our growth. Growth is also most afraid of complex interpersonal relationships and timely public demand. But I've never been confused. There is a beautiful nature at the beginning of life. This sentence tells the background of his natural life. Philemon, who was originally kind in nature, was involved in truth and bound up with beauty: she picked up the little girl who fell on the side of the road and turned off the dripping faucet. ... such details will constantly nourish our emotions and cultivate our love. This is a complete personality structure and spiritual pursuit, and a construction of values that abandons the ego. Teachers are still spreading the flame of civilization with a little warmth in their humiliating predicament, and I am moved by the nobleness of this person. I also firmly believe that people will have this concept of paying attention to the quality of life, and society will certainly realize a harmonious and free civilized home.
I always believe that growth is certain. Relative to growth, the noise of officialdom, the noise of streets and the noise of villains will always disappear, but when we grow up from it with tenacity and persistence, when we grow up, we will bring a smile that we ignore the noise, an atmosphere that we no longer declare to the surrounding areas, and a heavy and not steep height that we don't need to tell, so how precious this Zhong Changjin will be.
In the final analysis, growth is the continuous evolution of the quality of life, and it is the superposition and precipitation of human spirit and life at a certain level of civilization. Similarly, growth cannot be belittled or destroyed. As long as you practice wholeheartedly, you can really grow.
Living a quiet life, I walked into the light and weak enlightenment. In the early morning, riding a bike in the concentrated air, I smelled the truest taste in my heart.
Feeling of growing up II. I have encountered many bumps, pains, helplessness and helplessness on the road of life. After all these things, my heart is broken and I have no hope for anything. Life is like a dream. When I woke up, it was time for us to leave. For an individual, nothing is important except family.
People don't have to achieve much in this life, but they need a sense of accomplishment more or less. The value of life does not need to be proved by others, but it is very sad to have no sense of accomplishment. In any case, you must have something you can handle, and you must be a little superior in some way, so that you can find a sense of accomplishment. Finding a sense of accomplishment is not to prove anything to others, but to make yourself live more confident. ...
People's growth is always accompanied by some loss, and people's maturity is always accompanied by some scars.
The road of growth seems to be bounded by the river, with memories on the left and reality on the right, but we always shuttle back and forth on the left and right banks of the river in a small boat and live a life that seems to never stop. If ants lose their way, they are always looking for something, and we are looking for something on the left and right banks.
I boldly regard memories as experiences and reality as the future. Recall past joys and sorrows, beauty and ugliness. Life will always meet people and things that go from acquaintance to getting along and then to separation. However, we are puzzled and confused about this, and we can't sleep over and over again. This is a fixed framework and the normal state of life. No matter how good a friend is, if he doesn't keep in touch for a long time, he is also a passer-by. Like a stranger, there are few people who really accompany each other. However, these are bosom friends. The realistic future gives me motivation and gives me the courage to continue to work hard for the future and live. Thank those who have comforted me. Without a word or two from your heart, I might not be who I am today. Those who will always experience those things in life, whether good or bad, will always have too much left in the branded corridor, which will never be erased or waved away, as if carved on a stone tablet. Those are deep and unforgettable memories. I will make some mistakes on the road of growth, which are the pre-motivation of maturity. Without these, maybe I wouldn't be who I am now. Fortunately, I have the courage to make mistakes, and I have the courage to bear and face all this.
Recalling life is spent in memories and the future. The past is always the past, no matter how bad it is, it will never change. But I like this life.
Every song can be woven into a story, just like the short film of father's song, all the time can be used, especially in life, memories are everywhere. When flowers bloom, the past is a story, and the only happiness and sadness that can't be erased is memory.
Cherish? Who really knows how to do it? Do you know how to cherish when you lose it, or do you know how to cherish when you lose it? Or don't cherish it without losing it, feel sad after losing it, regret not cherishing it before, and then cherish things and things that no longer exist? There are too many questions, but they are not difficult to answer. I must have answered them in my mind! What is really lost will be more cherished, won't it? Let yourself cherish everything that is rare!
19 1 1 one day, I left my 18 years old with the bitterness and dreams of youth. My dream evaporated, and the bitterness of youth became history. I was greeted by a new life that I had never had before. Maybe this is a test. Maybe I want to leave more memories in my imprint gallery in my lifetime! Many times, those things that are afraid to face will always come to you silently, just like wearing flying boots, and it is still the speed of light. I am helpless and don't know what to do. It is time that sympathizes with the mentality, and the mentality is your own demeanor.
Friends? What is a friend? How many real friends are there? Because of immaturity, some friends have evaporated in their own field. As time goes by, who should we leave, who should we continue to get along with and know, and who should we know in the past light years? Unexpectedly, let nature take its course. I remember a friend once said: Even if you forget the way home, don't forget the friendship with my friend! This sentence is still unforgettable. That's a good word. Unfortunately, I remember, and now I'm afraid I can't even remember my name. The killer of time made me forget all the good and bad things I lost in the past. But where are you now? Time once again forgot history, and thoughts changed us. The long river of years always flows so fast that I can't cross the boat. However, those lost in my life are permanently separated from me. I can see but can't touch them. I can only look at each other and miss each other. Some things are gradually disappearing, invisible and even tasteless, just like air, until one day they completely fade out of this world. Friendship and love are interlinked individuals, and they go their separate ways because of the rejection of feelings. From ancient times to the present, being a femme fatale is meaningless to bosom friends, but it is a serious rejection to me. If my friends treat me with three points, I will treat them with ten points. I know which is more important. Enough! In the end, we are friends and confidants!
The saddest thing is not how much you have forgotten, but that you never cared about anything and didn't take it to heart.
No matter how good the face is, you can't hide a little wandering heart.
Time goes by, my heart is long, and I thank those who have been with me all my life.
Study? Is going to school called studying? Almost every moment, we are learning something, only the difference between indirect and direct, casual and caring or deliberate. After reading the interview with Mr. Ye Kai, I deeply feel the heavy education. He said that the current primary school Chinese textbooks have lost the significance of education and the truth, goodness and beauty. He compared Chinese textbooks to poison. That makes sense, but it's hard to understand thoroughly. Don't think about it, because today has nothing to do with me
Where are the passers-by? Are they freezing to death? The memory of the years witnessed the ebb and flow of youth. But I'm still on the left and right sides of the river. Those joys and sorrows are always clearly interpreted in the middle of the night. Those familiar and unfamiliar faces always step on our hearts inadvertently, but how should I meet these? Only you know. Maybe, I'm not returning home, I'm just passing by in a hurry.
In life, some people, going south, reverse the poles, but because the earth is round, they will always meet inadvertently, especially because they have the belief that they will meet and know each other ... and some people, although of the same age, have never seen each other because their hearts are like the sea.
Life is no longer deliberately pursuing anything, how normal and varied it is, but just laughing it off and cherishing it. Just tell yourself the answer!
Life knows what you want is the best. Only when something you don't have happens can you really know and understand it. The more you experience, the more you will understand. The meaning of life lies in the enrichment of life, just live happily! What kind of mentality should we treat trifles and troubles with? Bottom line: Why do you remember so much? Why bother yourself. Life is training us and honing us. When it comes to the tripod and needle, you are not the original yourself, but the mature yourself.
Never have it, never pursue it deliberately, just talk about savoring the future tonight and tomorrow!
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