Su Shi tells you why good friends gradually alienate.

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Second, the topic (values, central idea):

Life is impermanent, no matter who you are, you can only accompany you for a ride.

Third, structure: expand side by side.

1, the situation is different, no need to accompany.

2, the three views are different, there is no need to blend.

3. Make friends and don't invite life.

Fourth, the starting point and entry point:

1, Introduction: Su Shi made extensive friends, but none of them lasted long.

2, the breakthrough point: life is impermanent, friendship is not long.

V. Materials:

Part I: Different opportunities don't have to be accompanied.

(1) textbook story: Lu Xun's hometown, the friendship between seeking songs and moistening the soil.

(2) Celebrity stories: Su Shi and Shen Kuo.

The second part: the three views are different and need not be merged.

(1) China's ancient poems: Guan Ning (Guan Ning/Huaxin).

(2) Celebrity Story: Su Shi-Zhang Dun

The third part: measure a friend's friendship, not for life.

(1) Famous aphorism: Liu Jun said in "On the Breakup between Guangzhou and Guangzhou": "The first move is the quantity, and the second move is the trend."

(2) Celebrity Story: Su Shi-Zhang Yun

(3) epigram: The ancients said: "When interests intersect, interests are scattered; When the potentials intersect, the potentials will tilt. "

(4) Famous sayings of celebrities: If you are interested in others, you will participate.

Sixth, the end:

A person's life is half a memory and half a continuation.

Seven, golden sentence:

1, I thought it would last forever, but it would be hard to kill the years.

2, life is always impermanent, no matter who, can only accompany you.

3, different opportunities, no need to accompany. (Lu Xun playmate? Runtu/Su Shi/Shen Kuo Wutai Poetry Case)

4. What used to be "getting married and bringing children to meet each other" has gradually become "drifting away without books".

5. Man is an environmental animal.

6. When we are separated on the timeline, we embark on different journeys. Different opportunities shape different lives.

7, three different views, don't have to blend (Guan Ning/Huaxin? Shi Shuo Xin Yu (Guan Ning)

8. What's the difference between the three views? A high praise in Zhihu replied: You fear justice and he worships authority. This is a different world view.

You are on the side of conscience, and he is on the side of the winner. This is the difference in values. You work hard for your ideal life, and he works hard for being a man. This is a different outlook on life.

9. Only like-minded friends, like-minded friends and friends from three views can become friends. (Su Shi/Zhang Dun)

10, summer insects can't speak ice.

1 1, smiling and happy.

12. Birds and fish parted ways and mountains and rivers never met again.

13, make friends, don't walk into life. (Su Shi/Zhang Yun) Morning Sound (Su Shi/Zhao Junxi)

14. It is a matter of quantity to plan before moving. (Liu Jun's On Breaking Up with Guang), a person carefully considers the interests of power before making friends with you. This is the amount of communication.

15, the ancients said, "When interests intersect, interests will be scattered; If you intersect with the potential, the general rule will die. "

16, Zeng Guofan said: "If you are interested in others, you will participate."

17, Jia, the mountains may be separated. "Some people can only walk with you for a while, and they will be separated sooner or later. After this road, you will meet new people and a new life. "

18, any life is half a memory and half a continuation.

Eight, feelings:

There is no friendship that I thought before. Simply think that good friends keep in touch, talk about daily life, share troubles and share happiness. It should last.

But from the perspective of studying love, Mr. Lu Xun put forward that "without life and love, how can it be beautiful?" . Yes, there is no social circle, work circle and life circle, and there is no basis for drawing intersections just by mouth.

Friendship and love, like commodities, have a shelf life, no matter how favored and sought after. To go or stay is fate. Cherish the present and enrich it, which is the most important thing.