The famous aphorisms in Fu Lei’s book are as follows:

1. Be a person first, be an artist second, and be a musician third.

2. Prepare for the worst and have the highest hopes. Life never lacks challenges. All we can do is have the highest hopes, do our best, and prepare for the worst. Have the highest hope for difficulties and challenges, be confident and brave, not afraid of difficulties, and have a positive and optimistic attitude towards life. While responding optimistically, you must also pay attention psychologically and be fully prepared.

3. A person's life is always ups and downs in high tides and low tides. Only mediocre people live like stagnant water. Or you need to have extremely high cultivation to be free from fatigue and truly liberated. As long as the highs don't make you nervous and the lows don't make you decadent, that's fine.

4. Human potential is endless, and it is not within one’s control to determine how much success a person can achieve. For parents, it is not just because you want your children to achieve great achievements that you can cultivate them.

5. Life is limited, and energy is also limited. You must take a long-term view and run a marathon. You are an emotionally impulsive person, so you should be more restrained. Life is the source of everything, and health is the greatest wealth. Life is limited, and truly wise people will not waste their time, nor will they waste their energy excessively.

6. Be patient. Depressing times will happen to everyone from time to time, but they will pass soon. If life deceives you, don't be sad or impatient. You need to be calm in the melancholy days; believe it, happy days will come! Everything is fleeting and everything will pass.

7. Only when a person dares to face reality and mistakes, analyze rationally, and understand thoroughly can he not be eroded by memories. Only by facing reality, facing mistakes, and daring to admit mistakes can we continue to develop and progress. Although escaping may paralyze yourself in a short period of time, it will not help. A person who dares not admit his mistakes and only avoids solving problems will not survive.

8. Only art and knowledge never let people down; no matter how much labor, hard work, loyalty and enthusiasm you spend, you will get as much harvest and progress as you can.

9. My child, the terrible enemy is not necessarily a ferocious-looking one. A friendly and enthusiastic friendship can sometimes waste a lot of your precious time.

10. The most powerful argument in the world is practical action; the most effective education is leading by example; never ask others for things you cannot do; criticize yourself first and correct yourself first if you have to make mistakes. of.

11. Sad tears are the wine that cultivates your soul. People who have not experienced acute pain will not have deep and broad compassion.

12. The most torturous thing is not mental work or physical work, but worry. For parents, the torment is not the daily work, but the endless worries about their children.

13. The ideas of Chinese philosophy and Buddhism require people to control their emotions instead of letting them control them.

14. The minds of the Han and Wei people are closer to the primitive, rich in flavor and boundless. They are especially memorable for thousands of years.

15. After all, humans are animals with feelings, and there is no shame in showing them occasionally.