Because getting married is indeed a life together. This is a major event in our lives. We choose a day, and then two people will become husband and wife, love each other for a lifetime, and be happy until they grow old. It actually takes a lot of time and energy for a man and a woman to meet, fall in love, get married and have children, and form a family. So after getting married, we actually don’t have that much passion to maintain each other’s love, so time After they grow up, they will become partners.

But actually, I think it’s good to have this mentality, because the more someone invests in feelings, the deeper the hurt will be, and it will affect us for the rest of our lives. If your mentality can be like this, then if you can get through it, just get over it. If you can't, then let it go. If we can maintain such a mentality, I feel that when two people quarrel, they may not be so angry, and they will be more considerate and understand each other better.

Marriage has never been a place of reason, but a place of love, tolerance, and understanding. We should rationally choose a person who suits us and is willing to be with him. Fall in love and eventually get married, but you must not use a rational attitude to get along with him in your future life, because this is very detrimental to the relationship between the couple.

I think that if two people can persevere through the ups and downs, it will actually be a very good thing, so we can’t make too many demands. I just hope that our lives can be calm. Many people will interpret this attitude as living together, but don't couples just live a good life and live a good life every day? A loving marriage can certainly make our relationship stronger, but these little things in life are actually quite important. If two people have a good relationship, then live a good life and don't think too much. If they don't have a good relationship, let each other go.