1, don't go to bars, dance halls and other places with each other. This kind of environment is easy to "revive" one's emotions. 2. If you have to attend a party or dinner where the other party is present because of work or entertainment, then don't leave the meeting with the other party at the same time, let alone walk with the other party under various excuses. Don't go where you two have been. These places are not only easy to cause sadness, but also easy to rekindle old feelings. Don't mistake leaving love for friendship, but send some cards and other tokens, or call to say hello often, which will only make the dispute between you more difficult to cut. Don't use birthdays and other special days as an excuse to bring them back together. 6. Stay away from your "gentleness" and don't comfort the other person because he or she is sad or meets something unsatisfactory, otherwise you will not be able to bid farewell to this emotion completely. 7. Give back what the other person gave you in the past that is easy to recall, or burn it to avoid thinking about things. 8. If you work together, see if you can change units. The above eight points are concrete behaviors, but we should also get rid of the entanglement of extramarital affairs ideologically. Self-moral restraint. Extramarital love always bases happiness on other people's pain, which is immoral. Although morality is often difficult to restrain sexual impulse, it can at least reduce sexual impulse. Take the west as an example. The attitude towards sex in the west is more open than ours, but there are so high requirements for the sexual privacy of a public figure that people with good extramarital affairs dare not cross the line because of morality. And some people around us use conditions to have extramarital affairs. The last painful ending. When you start to treat extramarital affairs as a spice of life or compensate for the warmth of love, you finally find that extramarital affairs actually bring stress rather than decompression, and some people lose their lives. Cut off the idea of marrying an extramarital lover. Men say that the biggest mistake in life is to marry an extramarital lover. What should I do if the woman's extramarital affairs are entangled? 2. Reasons for extramarital affairs: One or both parties no longer like to live a husband-and-wife life with each other, but once they find that their spouses are cheating, they accept it very much. In TAs's view: I don't like married life, and neither do you. I am loyal to marriage, so should you. The rejected party never faces up to the normal emotional or other needs of the spouse. For example, some men's "cold violence" against their wives leads to the need for wives to change their dependent objects from the heart. After the shortcomings of both sides were magnified by the reality of long-term life, they found that the other side was "like this". After a long time, there is no freshness and passion, especially for men, who will choose to find someone who can arouse his enthusiasm. In marriage, spouses are not treated equally, and attitudes that do not understand, support or value lead to extramarital affairs. Second, people who can easily get rid of extramarital affairs have the following two characteristics: they love freedom: such people don't like being bound by nature. If another new relationship starts to make him feel depressed, and the other person interferes in his life too much as a spouse in marriage, he will give up on his own initiative. Compared with "sentimental" people, such people are more likely to get rid of extramarital affairs in time. Growing people: Growing people are constantly improving their thinking, broadening their horizons and making their thinking direction clearer. When he tries an extramarital affair and feels that it is not within his' necessary range', he will give up on his own initiative. These two points are the gender characteristics of men. From the side, it shows that the impermanence of men in front of feelings comes from the influence of their free-growing thoughts and environment. A female friend of mine said that since she got married, she has never had a strong desire for husband and wife life. After giving birth, they are busy taking care of their children and families, but they don't care much about other things and their husbands. A few years later, she found out that her husband was having an affair, and she didn't mind knowing. She was depressed, but she met her high school classmates when she was depressed. Although she was cautious and conservative and deeply influenced by traditional education, she finally failed to resist her own lust and had an extramarital affair like her husband. The difference is that men may only feel fresh, while women feel "warm". "Loneliness" is a terrible force, which will make your reason collapse instantly. A woman who has no physical needs is cheating because of emotional needs, which is the lack of spouse's feelings caused by family atmosphere. Third, what should I do if I encounter an extramarital affair? Like is only a moment, but "love" is very difficult. Everyone you experience will bring you different feelings of growing up, whether it's a spouse or an extramarital affair. You should believe that the misfortune and pain you have experienced will nourish you like honey, not make you suffer more. The starting point should be right. We should not only see the immediate pain, but also consider how to dilute it. Ask yourself if you love him. If you still love each other and intend to stay married, you should force yourself to put it behind you. If the other person also has a repentance attitude, you might as well forgive him. Some people say that "cheating is only a hundred times", and such a person is not worthy of forgiveness. S is true, but you can guarantee that your next spouse will have an affair with 100%. What if the woman pesters me? How to get rid of the entanglement of married men? When you have this idea, congratulations, you will take off your hat-take off Xiao Er, a bad hat that has been reviled by women for thousands of times. Next, the most important thing in your relationship with married men is to spare no effort to tear up all the good impressions of your previous building in front of married men. The first trick: dress ugly. He thinks you are beautiful and young. Yes, young girls always attract so many crazy bees and butterflies, and some married men join in the fun. Although the young girl is very beautiful and cute in dress, if you can put it down, I suggest that you always do some indecent actions in front of him, such as picking your nose, pulling your ears and scratching your "Hong Kong feet" ... so that your image of being more vulgar than his wife in marriage will fall to the bottom in his eyes. The second trick: always mention his wife in front of him and pretend to be interested in his family. You must change the habit of being on call before-when he says "honey, I miss you", you can choose to ignore it. When he doesn't need you and doesn't want you to appear, you also openly dangle in front of him, so it's best to make him cry. What you must also correct is your indifference to his family, wife and children. You should pretend to be very enthusiastic and tell his wife's QQ, contact information, home address and work unit. Let the wind go out and talk to her as much as possible, and often practice walking around his door. When they are alone, ask him to divorce and marry you, and put forward some excessive, unqualified, unreasonable and anti-emotional requirements. Of course, if this method doesn't work, or a married man doesn't care about his wife's feelings in marriage, then a married man is not only immoral, but also tasteless, let alone expecting him to marry you after divorce. Even if a man like him marries you, there will be a new "innocent mistress" You stay as far away from him as possible. The third trick: you should always ask him for money and try to speak. The number is huge. As an old man reviled by the world, how can he live up to his identity and his great youth without property? You should always ask him to buy things for you, or even directly ask him to deposit money in your bank card. In the past, the insatiable lover of an innocent girl suddenly became a beast with a large appetite, and the average man was overwhelmed and would stay away from her. Married men pay great attention to the visual beauty brought by mistress when they associate with mistress, and in order to protect their families and not cause a lot of silver losses, he will give up pestering you on his own initiative soon after your vicious three tricks are put into practice, looking for the next goal that unfortunately hits the gun. You must do your best to get rid of married men. Otherwise, you are a plaything of a married man, covered in scars and nothing. Ask me why again, and I can only send you Gillian's famous words: