You Gong, five generations, has extensive knowledge and good articles. You Zuo is a scholar in the Song Dynasty. The allusion "Cheng Menxue Pear" tells the story of respecting teachers and valuing Taoism.

2. Confucius respects teachers

In the spring of 52 1 BC, Confucius learned that his students had been ordered by the king of Lu to pay homage to the emperor in Luoyang, Kyoto, Zhou Dynasty. He thought it was a good opportunity to ask Laozi, the guardian of Tibetan history in Zhou Dynasty, for his knowledge of "etiquette", so he agreed with Lu and went with the palace. The day after Confucius arrived in Kyoto, he went to the Tibetan History Museum on foot to visit Laozi. Lao Zi, who is writing the Tao Te Ching, heard that the world-famous Kong Qiu came to consult, so he quickly put down his knife and pencil and adjusted his clothes. Confucius saw a healthy old man coming out of the gate, thinking it was Laozi. He hurried forward and respectfully paid tribute to one of Lao Zi's disciples. After entering the hall, Confucius bowed again before sitting down. Laozi asked Confucius why he came. Confucius left his seat and replied, "I have little knowledge and know nothing about the ancient' etiquette system', so I specially asked the teacher." Seeing that Confucius was so sincere, Lao Tzu expressed his views in detail.

After returning to Lu, Confucius' students asked him to explain Laozi's knowledge. Confucius said, "I am a good teacher, knowing the past and the present, the source of rites and music, and the return of virtue." At the same time, I praise Laozi as an example. He said: "bird, I know it can fly;" Fish, I know it can swim; Beast, I know it can run. I can weave a net to catch a running beast, I can tie a swimming fish to a hook to catch it, and I can shoot a flying bird with a good arrow. As for the dragon, I can't know how it took the wind and cloud to heaven. Laozi, it's still evil! "

In terms of educating children, Mr. Lu Xun believes that to educate children well, we must first respect and understand children. "If we don't know them first, the development of children will be more serious."

Once, Mr. Wang held a banquet at home, and his son sat at the same table facing the sea. When eating fish balls, the guests say they are fresh and delicious. Wei Yinghai said, "Mom, fish balls are sour!" " "The mother who thought the child was talking nonsense scolded a few words, and the child's boss was unhappy. After hearing this, Lu Xun tasted the fish that Yinghai had bitten. Sure enough, it's not very fresh. He said with emotion: "It is wrong for children to say that they are not fresh. It seems that we have to respect what the children say! "

There is a story: a businessman in new york saw a pencil salesman in rags. He gave someone a dollar out of sympathy. Soon, he came back, took out some pencils from the seller and apologized for forgetting to take them. Finally, he said, "You and I are both businessmen. You have something to sell." A few months later, when we met again, the pen seller became a salesman and thanked the businessmen in new york. "You gave me back my self-esteem and told me I was a businessman."

The queen knocked at the door.

Once, Queen Victoria of England quarreled with her husband, who went back to his bedroom and stayed at home alone. When the queen returned to the bedroom, she had to knock at the door.

The husband asked inside, "Who?"

Victoria proudly replied, "The Queen."

I didn't expect it to be closed and silent. She had to knock at the door again.

Inside, he asked, "Who?"

"Victoria" Queen replied.

Still nothing happened inside. The queen had to knock at the door again.

Inside, he asked, "Who?"

The queen learned her lesson and replied softly, "Your wife."

This time, the door opened.

Ji Xiaolan's Humor

One day, Ji Xiaolan went to Wutai Mountain to play and walked into the temple. The abbot looked him up and down and saw that he was neatly dressed and behaved in general.

Say hello: "Sit down." Also called: "tea." It means to bring an ordinary cup of tea. After a few commonplaces, knowing that he was a guest from Beijing, he quickly stood up with a smile and led him into the inner hall, saying, "Please sit down." He ordered again: "Make tea." It means to make a cup of tea alone. After detailed discussion, when I learned that the visitor was Ji Xiaolan, a famous scholar, a great poet, and a minister of rites, I immediately stood up respectfully, smiled apologetically, walked into the meditation room and said, "Please sit down." He shouted again, "Make good tea." He quickly took out a pen and paper and made sure that Ji Xiaolan would stay in Mo Bao to honor the monastery. Ji Xiaolan's pen is a couplet: please sit down, please sit down, please sit down; Tea, make tea, make good tea. The abbot was embarrassed.

The charm of respect

A salesman once said such an example. His job is to attract customers for Johnson & Johnson, one of which is a drug grocery store. Every time he goes to this store, he always talks with the clerk at the counter before he goes to see the owner. One day, when he went to this store, the owner suddenly told him that he didn't have to come again. He doesn't want to buy Johnson & Johnson products, because many of Johnson & Johnson's activities are designed for food markets and cheap shops, which is not good for small drugstores. The shop assistant had to leave the shop. He drove around town for a long time and finally decided to go back to the store and make it clear.

When he entered the store, he greeted the clerk at the counter as usual, and then went in to see the owner. The shopkeeper was very happy to see him, smiled and welcomed him back, and ordered twice as much food as usual. The salesman was surprised and didn't understand what happened after he left the store. The shopkeeper pointed to a boy selling drinks at the counter and said, "After you left the store, the boy selling drinks came up to me and told me that you were the only one who greeted the salesman who came to the store. He told me that if anyone is worth doing business with, it should be you. " Since then, the shopkeeper has become the salesman's best customer. The salesman said, "I will never forget that caring and respecting everyone is the quality we must have."

Caring for and respecting others must have noble sentiments and an open mind. When you let the other person feel warm and happy emotionally and be enriched and satisfied spiritually with your sincere heart, you will experience a beautiful and harmonious interpersonal relationship, and you will have many friends and finally succeed.

Human anatomy course

This is a human anatomy class. A group of newly enrolled college students came to a fresh specimen under the guidance of the professor. The specimen is an old man who just died. Before his death, he voluntarily donated his body to medical college. Although some of his children objected, the old man's attitude was firm. Finally, they had to obey the wishes of the old man.

The glass cover was lifted gently, and the scalpel was in his hand. The old professor suddenly stopped. He said to the students, "Let's observe a three-minute silence for this strange deceased!" " The students were shocked, and then they took off their hats and scarves.

Three minutes later, the old professor said, "Although this specimen was donated voluntarily by himself, we have damaged his health after all, so we should apologize to him!" "

The students listened quietly, and this anatomy class gave them two baptisms of life: one from the respect of pure specimens and the other from the respect of an old professor for a corpse.

Beggar's story

My friend Jim once told me a story that happened around him.

Everyone who lives in this world has dignity, which is the spiritual pillar of their life, even beggars are no exception.

Jim once met a beggar in the underground passage where the homeless gathered. That is a young man in his twenties. He was in rags, holding a faded old guitar and singing sad songs. Such a scene can be seen every day in this city.

"People who can earn their own living are begging for alms here. Why don't they blush? " With this in mind, Jim quickened his pace and walked forward. Jim doesn't want to pay any price for such a person. Sad songs still linger in Jim's ears, but Jim is not in the mood to stop.

"Just a moment, sir." When Jim walked up the steps, a voice stopped him. Jim knew it was the beggar.

"Even if others don't give money, you have to catch up and ask for money! I will never give money to such a person. " Thinking of this, Jim said to him angrily, "I'm sorry, I have no money for you." I have my hands full right now. Please don't bother me. "

"You misunderstood. I want to ask, is this your business? " When Jim saw the wallet in his hand, he realized that it was his own wallet and there was a whole ten thousand dollars in it. If the money is lost, Jim's work will be finished.

In a flash, Jim felt ashamed and misunderstood the beggar himself. He didn't ask Jim for anything but returned Jim's lost wallet.

Jim took the wallet with great excitement. In order to show his gratitude, he took out a $65,438+00 bill from his wallet and said to the beggar, "Please accept my little gift!" " "

"Sir, I really need money, but I have my own principles." The little beggar said, "I hope you have a good mood today. Pay attention next time." Goodbye, sir. "Say that finish, back to the original place, continue to play the old guitar.

The guitar sound, which was originally not very pleasant to hear, suddenly became so humanized. Jim stood there, feeling quiet around him, only the sweet sound of guitar lingering in his ears.

This is the dignity of beggars.

Respect can't be bought by money

Rich people are rich, but they can't get respect from others. He is worried about this and thinks about how to get everyone's respect every day.

Walking in the street one day, he saw a beggar in rags on the street. Thinking that the opportunity had come, he dropped a shiny gold coin into the beggar's broken bowl.

Who knows that the beggar didn't lift his head and was still busy catching lice. The rich man couldn't help but get angry: "Are you blind? Didn't you see that I gave you gold coins? "

The beggar still didn't look at him and replied, "it's your business to give it or not." If you are not happy, you can take it back. "

The rich man was furious and lost ten gold coins in the beggar's bowl on impulse, thinking that he would thank himself on his stomach this time. Only to find that the beggar still ignored him.

The rich man almost jumped up: "I'll give you ten gold coins." As you can see clearly, I am rich. At least you can respect me, thank you. "

The beggar replied lazily, "It's your business to have money, and it's my business to respect you or not. This cannot be forced. "

The rich man was in a hurry: "Then, I will share half of your property. Can you respect me? "

The beggar rolled his eyes at him: "Give me half the property, then I am not as rich as you?" Why should I respect you? "

The rich man was even more anxious and said, "well, I'll give you all my property so that you can respect me."

The beggar smiled and said, "If you give me all your property, you will become a beggar and I will become a rich man. Why should I respect you? "

The power of respect

I once heard such a story:

A businessman felt pity when he saw a pencil salesman in rags. Without thinking, he stuffed 10 yuan into the pencil seller's hand and walked away without looking back. After a few steps, he suddenly felt that it was wrong to do so, so he quickly came back to apologize and said that he forgot to take the pen. I hope you don't mind. Finally, he said solemnly, "You are a businessman like me."

A year later, in a warm and grand social occasion where businessmen gathered, a salesman in a suit and tie met the businessman and introduced himself gratefully: "You may have forgotten me long ago, and I don't know your name, but I will never forget you. You made me regain my self-esteem and self-confidence. I always thought I was a beggar selling pencils until you told me yourself that I was a businessman like you. "

I didn't expect such a simple sentence from a businessman to make a person who is not without inferiority suddenly establish self-esteem and make a person in a difficult situation regain self-confidence. It is with this self-esteem and self-confidence that he saw his own value and advantages and finally succeeded through hard work. It is not difficult to imagine that if there were no such words of respect and encouragement at the beginning, even giving him several thousand yuan would not help, and there would never be a huge change from self-admission to self-confidence. This is respect, and this is the power of respect!

Respect for others means respect for yourself!

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A person who doesn't respect others will never be respected by others. Just like a person shouting at an empty mountain, if you are friendly to it, it will respond in a friendly way. In the interaction between classmates, your attitude towards others and things often determines others' attitude towards you. One thing in my memory deeply taught me that only by learning to respect others can I win their respect. Here's the thing:

One day at noon, I had nothing to do after finishing my homework, so I stared at Qian Siao sitting in front of me doing my homework. I rolled my eyes and thought of a good idea. I took out my paper and pen, first drew an ugly turtle on the paper, and attached a sentence: "I am an ugly turtle for thousands of years!" " "I put double-sided tape on the back of the paper, then took a pencil in one hand and a paper in the other, pretending to pat Qian Siao on the back and stick the paper on her back in a certain direction. Yes, that paper is stuck in the middle of Qian Siao's back! Qian Siao turned his head and asked, "What's the matter?" I pretended to be calm and said, "Can I borrow your pencil sharpener?" "Bring the pen and I'll sharpen it for you!" She put down her homework three or two times and then sharpened her pen. But I quietly let the students next to me see Qian Siao's back. In an instant, the whole class was sensational.

Huang Lina in the neighboring group was still doing her homework with her head down, so I went over and patted her on the shoulder and said, "Look, Qian Siao's back, that's my masterpiece!" I thought she would laugh, too. Unexpectedly, when she saw it, her brow twisted into a knot, she gave me a contemptuous look and said, "Wu Yingtian, do you think it's funny to base your happiness on the embarrassment of others?" I said disapprovingly, "Hey, I'm kidding, what's the big deal!" " But Huang Lina yelled at me: "Wu Yingtian, respect is the golden key of human beings. You should understand this truth! Do you feel happy with others? You are so boring! "

My face is burning. Yes, Qian Siao was so kind and helpful and helped me sharpen my pencil, but I used this irresponsible means to "repay" her. It's really unkind. So, I tore the paper off Qian Siao's back and apologized to her: "I'm sorry, Qian Siao, I shouldn't have stuck the paper on your back and embarrassed you." Please forgive me! " Qian Siao shook his head and said, "It's nothing to joke between classmates." Her generosity made me blush and my heart beat, making me feel ashamed.

Yes, we need to learn to respect all the time in our lives. Don't make fun of classmates, don't fight, don't expose shortcomings, and be honest with each other. This is the minimum respect for classmates and the foundation of pure friendship. Going home and saying hello to parents and elders is a kind of respect for elders and relatives, and it is the most precious comfort for their hard work. Listening carefully in class is a respect for the hard work of teachers; After eating in the canteen, putting away the chairs and tableware is respect for the canteen master ... If you don't respect others, who are you to expect others to respect you? My answer from Guo Chaoqing is 1 fourth grade student.