1. If you don’t get closeness, you can’t be a human being; if you don’t get closeness, you can’t be a son. ——Mencius☆Explanation: If a son does not get along well with his parents, he cannot be a good person; if a son cannot obey his parents in everything, he cannot be a son. 2. Father and son are related, monarch and ministers are righteous, husband and wife are different, elders and children are related, and friends are trustworthy. ——Mencius explained: Father and son must love each other, there must be appropriate rules between monarch and ministers, there must be distinction between husband and wife, there must be an order of respect and inferiority between elder and younger, and there must be integrity among friends. 3. Only being filial to your parents can relieve worries. ——Mencius☆Interpretation: Parents are our spiritual support. The father is the sky and the mother is the earth. The weather in heaven and earth is smooth, and all things thrive. We are filial to our parents, and our parents are very happy, so why should we worry? ! 4. When I am old, I am in harmony with others; when I am young, I am in harmony with others. The world can be transported in the palm of your hand. ——Mencius☆Interpretation: Respect your parents and elders, which extends to respecting everyone’s parents and elders; love your own children, which extends to caring for everyone’s children. If you do this, unifying the world is like turning something in the palm of your hand. That's easy. 5. A gentleman has three kinds of happiness, but the king of the world does not share them. Having both parents and brothers without any reason is one kind of happiness; looking up to Heaven and not being ashamed of others is the second kind of happiness; being able to educate the talented people from all over the world is the third kind of happiness. A gentleman has three kinds of happiness, but the king of the world does not share them. ——Mencius☆Explanation: A gentleman has three kinds of happiness, and these three kinds of happiness have nothing to do with governing the world. The first happiness is to have both parents and brothers well; to look up to heaven and not be ashamed of others is the second happiness; to get good students from all over the world and then educate them is the third happiness. 6. Love what your parents love, and respect what your parents respect. ——Confucius☆Explanation: We should treat the people or things that our parents love, cherish and respect with the same attitude. 7. One must not know the age of one’s parents. One is for joy, the other is for fear. ——"The Analects of Confucius"☆Interpretation: It means that parents' birthdays must be known. On the one hand, they should be happy, on the other hand, they should be afraid. I'm afraid because my parents are one year older. 8. The virtuous and the unworthy cannot be separated. If fate cannot be changed, if good and evil cannot be moved. ——"Lu's Spring and Autumn Annals" ☆Interpretation: It means: A person must have a stand and cannot distinguish between right and wrong, black and white, good and evil, beauty and ugliness. Just like numerology and appearance are innate, people should also have the ability to distinguish. . 9. There are five so-called unfilial persons in the world. Four of them are laziness and neglecting the support of parents. The first is unfilial. The second is unfilial when gambling and drinking and ignoring the support of parents. The third is unfilial: being fond of money and having a private wife and not caring about parents. ; Killing one's parents based on the desires of one's ears and eyes is the fourth form of unfilial piety; being brave and fighting ruthlessly in order to endanger one's parents is the fifth form of unfilial piety. ——Mencius☆Explanation: Among the five unfilial piety listed by Mencius, there are two things that people in politics and officials should not have, one is greed for money, and the other is indulgence in lust. Many corrupt officials commit illegal crimes because of their greed for money and indulgence, which not only ruins their reputations, but also brings shame to their parents. When they are in jail, every time they think about the kindness of their parents in raising them, they will cry and regret. 10. When serving your elders, your voice is easy to be quiet. Do not shout loudly over trivial matters. ——Zhou Bingqing☆Explanation: When serving in front of parents and other elders, your speech and expression should be serious and respectful, and you should not shout or scold loudly for trivial matters.